I've had my first girlfriend for a massive 4 days, and already i find that her 'ex' is already being a total douche. Twice now he has come up to me (with an entorage of at least 4 other people of course) and said things along the line of; "So how's it feel knowing your girlfriend has had my dick in her mouth?" This being completley un-provoked. The last incident happened today, and me being a 'reasonable' person have shrugged it off until now. However, to me, this guy is on his last chance. If he does this again i'm going to be forced [thats right - i dont want to, im a bleeder not a fighter] to try and beat his ass. Am i justified in doing so? The first incident I responded with silence, the second i confronted him asking what the fuck his problem is. So now, the third time there will be no words, im just going to hurt him as much as I phisically can.

Complications arise:
•My GF is still 'friends' with him. Or it appears so. She says that he is a complete asshole but i don't know what's on her mind.
•His group at school is no less than 20 metres away from mine, so if violence does arise, it will have to be severe enough to make sure he really gets my point.

So &T: Am i justified in making a stand against this kid.
Me: 6'2" - 80KG (180lbs), not very agile
Him: Short, probably much more agile than me.


EDIT: if this is in the wrong forum, please move. i just think it applies because this kid insults both me and my girlfriend, who i do care about. a lot.

Well, if you've got the height advantage, then you've got a lot, mate. Just use your whole body fluidly if you make punches, and try not to hit him in the teeth (easy to catch things from little assholes who have mono or GRIDS(AIDS) or some shit), and carry a roll of pennies as a fistload with you if you really plan on whoopin' his ass. If anybody asks, you're Jewish, that's all . Or say you're a trainee mechanic and carry a monkey wrench. Just be creative is the bottom line, I suppose.

And frankly, I'm somebody who believes that damn near anything warrants a fight, as long as no grudges are kept. But this kid seems like a little shit-kicker who'd love to stab you in the kidneys while you're in the mens' room.

my god
that's actually some genius right there...

forgot to mention, if we get in a fight, i have high doubts his 'friends' will stick up for him. Im on pretty good terms with all of them, and I think they would see my actions as justified...

Yes, your justified. He's obviously a pussy, especially if he's using his friends presence just to intimidate you. The next time he tries to start shit with you, change your stance to a basic boxing stance,(If you don't know what I'm talking about, I guarantee you males in your family will.) and the moment he opens his mouth, deck him right in the jaw. If his friends try to jump on you, hit the biggest one first.


Who cares if your girl is still "friends" with him? Your not. He started it, you can end it.

Oh and if this happens at high school, then you shouldn't even be worried. Go all out for twenty- thirty seconds, I guarantee you it will be broken up before that.


If you don't hit this kid you will regret it at some point in your life. Never mind the physical stats.

That's good to hear, but I think it's a bad idea to count on that. I've seen all kinds of things in my day, and one thing I have observed is that people tend to side with whomever they hang around with more often, regardless of how they feel about what's happening; mainly, I think, because they know that if they don't help him out, they'll seriously change their relationship. Most people are afraid of that sort of change, you know.

But yeah, since he's way smaller than you, just stand your ground and you should be quite alright. Just don't backdown immediately, he'll prolly try and BS you into submission.

One last piece of advice- in my experience girls are always changing gears; she might call him an asshole one day, but if they're "friends" still, it may be because she still has feelings for him, although that seems unlikely as he's the one trying to scare you off of her(if he didn't want her anymore he wouldn't give a baker's fuck if you were with her or not).

You're incredibly justified in beating the fuck out of this kid, hit him in the face with a chair and just start pummeling the faggot, you're a relatively big guy you shouldn't have a problem by the sound of it. "Agility" only counts for so much when fists are slamming you in the face repeatedly. Before he finishes his sentence just blow up and fuck him up, if you get the first punch and just follow through he's basically fucked.

Avoid violence if you can. Yes you would be justified in rearranging his face BUT...

The bigger man tries to use violence as a last resort.

"Yes I know she sucked your cock, she also told me you're so small you got stuck between her teeth"

That sort of reply also has the advantage that he'll maybe lose it and you'll have the defence of self defence.

Other than that the rule is "Always with a weapon and always from behind"

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Ah ok then jack
you and my girlfriend seem to agree. (about putting up with it and throwing back lip. not about with a weapon and from behind.)
thankyou all for your advice, I have few doubts that it will eventually come to violence, but i will be sure to make it the final resort

The weapon from behind thing should only be applied in real survival situations, violence in a social scene is about looking like a mental, so just yell at him and qoute ole 50, yo

shit man!

Don't sit around and be Gandhi!

Some guy is saying shit about your GF!!

This is ONE OF THE FEW TIMES violence is justified.