hey guys, i lurk totse alot but never really post, but this has been buggin me. Theres this girl i like(i know she likes me too, like 100%) , i asked her out, she says yes but she says she has to go. Next day i get her number, after school she starts texting me that i need to call her, so i call her and she starts going about saying "shes not ready to go out with anyone yet" So im like i guess i understand, but then i was like wait wtf. So, today, i texted her asking if she ever wanted to go out with me and she said "like i said before i really dont want to be going out with anyone right now but if i ever change my mind i will let you know."



I know this girl likes me and i like her, but now she says this, what should i do guys?

Sorry if this is a bit sloppy but im tired, oh and inb4newarrival

i think that if she really liked you she'd go out with you anyway. there must be some stupid reason she's saying this, after she already agreed to go out with you earlier.. how do you KNOW she likes you? maybe she's just nice. how old are you guys

Just wait a few days. See what happens.

If she doesn't say anything about it then perhaps she just got out of a relationship and isn't ready to start a new one... etc...

Just don't bother her about it.

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She doesn't want to go out with you.






She tried explaining this to you twice, nicely.

This is also a (very likely) possibility...

Sorry man, better luck next time.

yeah just try to pick up the hint.....she didn't like a trait that you have, so just let her find the traits she likes.

I know she likes me because her friend said she did and that i should ask her out, which i did that day. Oh and im 15 and she's 15-16

and thanks for the replies guys

heres exactly what she said from txts if you guys wanna see

Me: something along the lines of do you ever want to go out with me

her: Hmmmmm well idk because like i told you yesterday i really dont want to be going out with anyone right now but if i ever change my mind i will let you know

her:But for now i am not ready to go out with any one

me: ok thanks sorry for bothering you

what i don't get is that her friend said i should ask her out, but then she says this :/

at 13 nothin aint gonna happen go find yourself a girl who will bang u

Protip: Don't ask a girl out over a text. It sends the wrong message bro.

Protip#2: If she says no, don't fucking apologize.

She sounds intimidated by the idea of a relationship, she is afterall 15.

What she wants is for you to wait until she's ready.You have two options, either drop it or start off hanging with other couples until you're comfortable to move forward. Ugh, but you both sound mentally 12 so I wouldn't put too much effort into this.