ok first off i am not inexperienced when it comes to sex, so this came as a huge surprise to me.
secondly save the "omg noob sexorz" because i dont really give a fuck what you think of my sex drive, i just want advice as to how this happened and how it can be avoided.

anyways, i got a handjob the other night, and ended up coming in about 3 minutes. yes, thats right, 3 minutes. i have NEVER even came from a handjob before in my whole career of sexual adventures, but for some reason this time i couldnt even hold back. normally i dont even get off from a HJ so the girl will go to blow me, and even then i last at least 10 minutes. has this happened to any of you? and im not just talking premature ejaculation, im talking about having a running streak of a very respectable bust time, to randomly getting off in 1/3 of the time and technique? is there something that is done to help last longer? such as masturbating more? eating healthier? jumping jacks?
thoughts?

You really like this girl and she turns you on more than other girls. It isn't the handjob that's doing it; it's who's giving you the handjob.

Just give it time and try to take your mind off the event, if you feel like you need to do so.

Yeah, thinking about stuff helps. It also helps to pass the time if you're bored.

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I have actually done this a few times. The good thing is that because I like cars, it means I'm not staring at the wall looking really bored.

What I also did when I was younger was count my thrusts one-to-ten over and over again.

I obviously can't speak from the male perspective, and I've only had experience with one guy, but I can say that how long it takes him to come can vary tremendously. There have been times when he's cum during sex in under 5 minutes, and even one time when I made him orgasm just by rubbing him through his jeans. However sometimes I can give him head for 20 minutes, or we can have sex for ages and there's no worries about him shooting one off prematurely. I've always thought it was kind of a 'perfect storm' kind of thing; sometimes the situation is just ideal, he's more turned on than usual, we've had a lovey-romantic day, lots of privacy and the environment is comfortable, and all of that contributes to him coming more easily than if we'd just been fighting, him worrying about someone walking in, sitting in a chilly room, etc.

ah yes this is true, only thing is thinking about chairs and cold showers doesnt do anything for me. what is good to think about that will definitely take the mind off of the "event"?

hmmmm the male bust is more complicated than everyone thinks i guess

Was this girl better looking then the average girl your pulling, 5MOK420? Maybe she just means more to you. I don't know why it happened but I do know it happens to the best of us.

You could try to masturbating before hand, if you think your going to get some later. The process of sexual response has four phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. The trick is to recognize the spectrum of feelings throughout the process. Rate your sexual excitement on a scale of 1 to 10. Try keeping yourself at 7.

If you really want to hold back you can stop and squeeze right below the head of your penis, focusing the pressure on the urethra — the tube running along the underside of the penis. This pushes blood out of the penis and momentarily represses the ejaculatory response.

Basically don't worry about it so much. Focus more on how awesome the sex is, not worrying if your "performing" well enough.

It really has to do with how turned on you are. If u have gone a while(days) without masturbating than you are really sensitive and you will bust your load rather quick. if you masturbate a lot then u should last longer than needed.

personally hell fucking yes she is. this girl really is amazing (i just began "seeing" her about a week ago but weve been hangin with each other almost 24/7 for the past few weeks.) we get along so well and have so much in common its actually quite trippy so yeah, i guess ive finally found a girl that means something more than bullshit to me.

its true i havent masturbated much since meeting her, so im thinking this may be a solution. damn, the four stages thing is gonna be pretty useful. ill be concentrated so hard on what stage im in that ill probably get distracted, so thanks haha

No problem, bro. The temple has your back.