So I met this girl a while back and never really thought much of it. We had sex a few times but I always felt like shit about it for some reason. I knew she liked me and I knew I had no feelings for her but we stayed friends even after we stopped sleeping together.

Cut forward to about a month ago, I went up to welcome week at Michigan State with my two good friends and she came along with us, had a really good time, and I realized I may have a thing for her. Once we got back we started hanging out a lot again and now it looks like we are going to have a relationship but I am so unsure about her. A lot of her friends are guys that will mess with her and slap her ass and shit. Me being the jealous guy I am I don't know that I could be with her and deal with her talking to so many guys along with me. I have hung out with her when one of her guy friends calls and it just sounds so wrong even though I know she cares about me. She is the sweetest girl I have met in a long time, she likes everything I do, she is good in bed, I love being with her but this just sucks.

What I am really asking with all of this is, what the fuck should I do? I don't just want to drop everything and try to forget about her but every time I think about her and her guy friends I think to myself that I wont be able to deal with this and it will be more trouble than good.

BTW We are both 18, both of us are taking this semester off for different reasons, and I am trying to save up to move out of my parents house right now. I know this is not my blog but I need legit advice so if you don't want to offer me advice or helpful flames, don't post.

Instead of talking to Totse, maybe you should try talking to her about it. Telling her to not let her guy friends grope on her isn't asking too much. I'm sure she will understand.

If I starting grabbing on my friends girlfriend's ass and breasts, I'm sure I would get smacked the fuck up, quickly, and rightfully so.

Damn dude just tell her how you feel.....She either loves or or she don't...If she does you will obviously come first.

Go for it, you never know, he guy-friends might lay off when they see you two together.

May aswell take the plunge.

This ftw.

If anyone touched my missus inappropriately I would fucking brain them.
With that in mind, my missus is very much the same. Any woman (or guy) touches me in that way, they get a punch from her.
I love it!

If you're with her, you have every right to greatly hurt anyone who touches your missus inappropriately.

Fucking hurt them!

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I think that if you were with that girl (seeing/going out) the guys would back off a bit if you glare at them when they go near her or touch her

Thats pretty much what all my guy friends did ....they used to try and undo my bra, hide my bag/folder, chase me around with a dead bugs and everything.

I agree to the advice here.
Just tell her that you love her and I believe that she also feels the same way with you.

Her guy friends will hopefully back off since the girl is already dating someone.
She will also lessen her time with those guys since she will eventually spend more time with you.

Once you are in a relationship- feel free to stomp any guys who do stuff u dont like with her. But you seem to have something of an undefined relationship now. I had the same problem earlier this summer with a girl I was dating; we fooled around for a good while, but we never really knew what our relationship was lol. Define that shit. Then she belongs to you.