totse.com | anyone else have this problem?

resmeplz · #1 2008-09-10, 01:55

every girl that i meet/am friends with views me as either their little or big brother. usually i have no problem with it but it particularly sucks when the girl you like tells you that.

i'm getting so tired of being the brother and i don't know where to begin to change this.

plehem12 · #2 2008-09-10, 01:58

act like a man and not a friend with a dick

Dragonflame · #3 2008-09-10, 02:30

Your last resort is to turn to incest, and now all of these chicks who take you as a brother are fair game.

SomeLowLife · #4 2008-09-10, 02:41

The brother sometimes hits it.

Lt_Flippy · #5 2008-09-10, 02:42

They don't call it wincest for nothing...

cronic5 · #6 2008-09-10, 06:29

Stop being super sweet and start being more of a man. By that, I mean be nice to them, but not too nice.

Act like you LIKE them, not like you're their friend. Be more provocative with your comments (not a creepy kinda guy), and generally act like you like them.

If that doesn't work, then maybe you're just meeting the wrong girls.

psycho_8b · #7 2008-09-10, 08:06

Then you have to man the fuck up.

I've copped the "You're like my brother" shit before and I know how fucking annoying it is.
Tell her if you wanted a sister, you'd go see a nun. Then tell her that ain't good enough.
It's all about being assertive. You can still be nice and gentlemanly whilst being assertive...It's called being a man.

Being sweet and lovely to girls is a guaranteed way to be a virgin for the rest of your life.
Harden the fuck up and let the world know what you want and that you're going to get it.

Be nice, sure...But let people see that you don't take shit either.
Once you've established yourself as the big dog they'll be less likely to class you as the puppy they go and cuddle up to when the last guy they thought was "the one" decided to take their anal virginity and wander off leaving them feel dirty and unloved.

jadexheartsxguitar · #8 2008-09-10, 14:41

Maybe your just hanging with the wrong types of girls?

Date girl's that only have sisters

Nefret · #9 2008-09-10, 20:06

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Originally Posted by psycho_8b View Post

Then you have to man the fuck up.

I've copped the "You're like my brother" shit before and I know how fucking annoying it is.
Tell her if you wanted a sister, you'd go see a nun. Then tell her that ain't good enough.
It's all about being assertive. You can still be nice and gentlemanly whilst being assertive...It's called being a man.

Being sweet and lovely to girls is a guaranteed way to be a virgin for the rest of your life.
Harden the fuck up and let the world know what you want and that you're going to get it.

Be nice, sure...But let people see that you don't take shit either.
Once you've established yourself as the big dog they'll be less likely to class you as the puppy they go and cuddle up to when the last guy they thought was "the one" decided to take their anal virginity and wander off leaving them feel dirty and unloved.

This.

Maybe you should try NOT watching romantic comedies and eating chocolate with them.
Once the bitch, always the bitch.

SomeLowLife · #10 2008-09-11, 16:48

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Originally Posted by Nefret View Post

This.

Maybe you should try NOT watching romantic comedies and eating chocolate with them.

Every time I've ever watched a romantic comedy with a girl we have either hooked up during the movie or after.

If you can watch an entire romantic comedy with a girl and not get anything then your clearly losing your heterosexuality. I suggest you salvage what is left, OP.