So this is just to get some stuff off my chest and vent.

Anyway, over the summer whilst at Camp Bisco I briefly met a guy through a friend. He'd gone out with one of my friends quite a while ago but I'd never met him. Anyway, I thought he was really cute and obviously liked the Biscuits so when I got home I added him on Facebook. We started talking and he eventually asked for my number and if I wanted to hang out sometime.

We went to the beach and for coffee a few times and ended up hooking up and basically dating for the remainder of the summer. He told me, "I'd would definitely ask you to be my girlfriend if I weren't going off to college so soon and I don't want to make things harder than they're already going to be."

We went to Vibes together, hung out a lot, he'd come over to make pancakes or daiquiris; I really liked him and we had tons of fun together. He was the first guy in almost a year that I've really, really fallen for, ever since I broke up with my boyfriend of 11 months. We got pretty close in the space of month; we clicked well in bed, he even let the word "love" slip a few times before correcting himself and explaining that he didn't like to say "I love you" since he's only 18 and doesn't really know what it's like. Overall, he's a great guy and I loved being with him.

Anyway, he went off to college a week or so ago and I've been taking it a lot harder than I thought I would. He's called me once to say how great college is and how much fun he's having, but not that he misses me or anything. We didn't really make it clear how it would be between us after he left but obviously we're going to both hook up with other people; still, it's hurting me a lot more that I thought it would, especially when there're pictures people tag of him on Facebook partying with a bunch of girls and kissing them on the cheek and stuff.

Also, something he said while we were saying goodbye kind of upset me: "You know, if I wasn't leaving I know we'd go out for a while and eventually get sick of each other and break up and never talk again."

We have plans to go to a Lotus show in the city when he's back for Thanksgiving and we're going to the Disco Biscuits New Years Eve show together, and when I talked to him the other day he said he wants to come down for a MSTRKRFT show I'm going to in October.

So, I don't know. I'm just kind of bothered and confused by how much I miss him and how much it bothers me that he probably doesn't feel the same way. Just wanted to vent that all somehow, but if anyone has advice or comments or something that'd be nice.


Sorry this is so long; short version: had a fling with a great guy over the summer, I miss him a whole hell of a lot, but it seems like he's having an awesome time at college and doesn't miss me one bit.

He's moving forward; I hope that you do too.

The parting comment was a jerk move, but it sounds like that's how he decided to look at things.

Life goes on. I remember when you broke up with the last one and you're still moving forward in a positive way. It's a good thing.

Leave yourself open to meeting someone new.

dude, i had a fling with a girl before i moved for college too, coming from a 19 y/o guy im telling you to get over him because he was over you when he started packing his shit. its tough for you man because you got left behind.
take some time to smell the roses by yourself, youll feel better knowing there is more to life than just relationships and fucking. unfortunately those are two of the only things that can be the most fun ever. but there is more out there. maybe make some new friends or go chill with your homegirls.
youve got some options now.

MSTRKRFT rules, and that's all I have to contribute.

Thanks, both of you, you made me feel a little better.

I'm just gonna try to get over it and enjoy senior year; I'll be off at college myself soon anyway.

Oh, and Euda. I remember you replied when I asked about Dalhousie University; what do you think of the University of Guelph? I'm also looking into going there but I don't really know, for example, if it has a rep as a really good (academics but parties as well) school, or if it's like lame..or what. Any info?

He's having the time of his life right now. The beggining of freshman year of college is an absolutely crazy fun ass time. He's doing way too many new things, drinking way too much, and meeting too many new people to think about the summer fling he left at home. It's an unfortunate position for you to be put in, but this is his mindset.
Just attempt to stop thinking about him and have a blast finishing up your senior year.

why do you keep dropping the word biscuits and variations of said word.

You listen to sick music. Might you want to bear my children?

That depends on what you look like. I only want to have children with sex appeal.

I was thinking of going to the MSTRKRFT show... Boston right? I might you see there.