totse.com | how to tell someone you just wanted the sex

pleasure_to_burnv2 · #1 2008-09-02, 19:40

Yeah so I had myself a weekend, met this girl at my buddys party saturday and we hit it off, one thing led to another and we're back at her dorm. She even paid for my gas and parking.The next day we chilled again, went to her friends apartment and drank our asses off, spent the night together again as well. Ditto for last night. Anyhow, she keeps telling me how she REALLY likes me, etc. how she sees this becoming an awesome relationship.

Honestly though, she's quite hot but at the same time I just can't be with someone who enjoys doing almost everything I hate about our society(watching sex and the city, listening to no joke britney spears, talking about shopping and celebrities and fashion and all that other superficial bullshit). How do I break it to her that we just don't fit and that I really was just using her for sex?

better than you · #2 2008-09-02, 19:49

print out your post and read it to her.

SomeLowLife · #3 2008-09-02, 19:55

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Originally Posted by pleasure_to_burnv2 View Post

Yeah so I had myself a weekend, met this girl at my buddys party saturday and we hit it off, one thing led to another and we're back at her dorm. She even paid for my gas and parking.The next day we chilled again, went to her friends apartment and drank our asses off, spent the night together again as well. Ditto for last night. Anyhow, she keeps telling me how she REALLY likes me, etc. how she sees this becoming an awesome relationship.

Honestly though, she's quite hot but at the same time I just can't be with someone who enjoys doing almost everything I hate about our society(watching sex and the city, listening to no joke britney spears, talking about shopping and celebrities and fashion and all that other superficial bullshit). How do I break it to her that we just don't fit and that I really was just using her for sex?

Do it in person you at least owe her that. In regards as what to say to her, that's on you bro. But keep it in concise and honest. She may not like you afterwards but if you do it right she might at least respect you.

Oh and I find it funny that your breaking up with a girl because she likes to do girly things. A women who enjoys shopping? I'm calling bullshit, thats highly irregular. That's her fucking job man. It's one thing if she can't even hold an intelligent conversation but it's another if she just likes crappy music.

Why don't you stop judging people based upon their entertainment choices and instead base them upon the content of their character?

Silverfuck · #4 2008-09-02, 20:07

There ain't nothing wrong with Sex and the City

Anyhow, if you honestly don't like her enough to be around her anywhere other than horizontal on a flat surface then the right thing to do would be to tell her straight up and hope for the best. The easier thing to do would be to act totally normal but be conveniently busy any time she wants to hang out/talk/other such dating-type things.

pleasure_to_burnv2 · #5 2008-09-02, 20:29

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Do it in person you at least owe her that. In regards as what to say to her, that's on you bro. But keep it in concise and honest. She may not like you afterwards but if you do it right she might at least respect you.

Oh and I find it funny that your breaking up with a girl because she likes to do girly things. A women who enjoys shopping? I'm calling bullshit, thats highly irregular. That's her fucking job man. It's one thing if she can't even hold an intelligent conversation but it's another if she just likes crappy music.

Why don't you stop judging people based upon their entertainment choices and instead base them upon the content of their character?

Its that anyone who lives their life guided by the media and society is inherently weak and always makes me lose respect for them. Also the brand-name worship thing, and the fact that she told me she plans to marry rich. Seriously, how can you plan on living in someone else's shadow?

I love girly girls, but she takes way to the extreme

Gadooosh! · #6 2008-09-02, 20:29

just tell her you're not quite sure right now as you've had rocky relationships in the past and it's well...made you a little hesitant not to just dive straight into a relationship, then when you've had your fun just kick off over soemthing really retarded.

temp user name · #7 2008-09-02, 20:43

Why tell her? Just be unavailable much of the time and boink her once a month or so. She'll catch on.

ChickenOfDoom · #8 2008-09-02, 23:17

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Originally Posted by better than you View Post

print out your post and read it to her.

This basically, but you might want to use the phrase 'using you for sex'. That makes it sound like it's a bad thing and she's a victim.

SafeAsMilk · #9 2008-09-02, 23:51

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Honestly though, she's quite hot but at the same time I just can't be with someone who enjoys doing almost everything I hate about our society(watching sex and the city, listening to no joke britney spears, talking about shopping and celebrities and fashion and all that other superficial bullshit). How do I break it to her that we just don't fit and that I really was just using her for sex?

Our society is built on being fake, get used to it and you'll be a happier man. None of this dignity bullshit, because no one gives a shit whether you are original or smart.

Seriously, I gave up being an elitist ass long ago. Be what people want you to be and you'll be a lot better off.

Transparent · #10 2008-09-03, 02:34

I'd milk the cow till it runs dry. During your next fuck session pull out a whip. Maybe she won't be so fond of you after getting lashed all night lol.

Unless she's a kinky bitch.