Update:
Here's your update &T I wrote this for another forum but you guys helped me equally and it was really hectic deciding on what to do seeing as I was going to stay at her house pretty much right after the thread was made.
Without a doubt she's the dominant one

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I kind of like it that way, being a fairly shy girl.
Stuff has kind of happened before, there is a great amount of tension.
The reason I was in rush mode last night was because I was actually about to sleep at her house.
So here's what happened last night.
We were on the couch she's cuddling up to me as usual, just watching the usual anime.
Kind of just started playing with her hair and it went silent you know one of those tense silences when both people sort of know something could happen.
I'll try do a little convo of what happened.
Me "Do you think it's weird when we cuddle and stuff?"
Her "Do you?"
Me "No I was just wondering."
Her "You can tell me.."
Me "It's fine I like cuddling and being close to you."
We both sort of went silent after that and she moved me so I was resting on her tummy and put her arms around me

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It was nice but I don't know what to think now, when we went to bed she held my hand

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I know she doesn't act like this with her other friends and i'm not close enough to other girls to have anything to compare it to..
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First, i'm a girl not a guy so take it into account and I like her so..
I'll tell you all the little things she does that kind of confuse me.
She:
- Always plays with my hair.
- Sits next to me rather then anyone else.
- Cuddles up on me even thoe she has a HUGE couch.
- Sleeps next to me even thoe she has a double bed and a single bed under her double as well as putting her arm around me when we sleep.
- Kisses me on the cheek when I wake up sometimes and usually says something along the lines of "Good morning beautiful."
- Holds my hand sometimes and used to do it a lot under the desk back in middle school.
- Has skinny dipped with me alone and with me and a few other friends.
- Gets changed infront of me and always asks my oppinion on her clothes and that sort of thing.
- Has asked "If you were a guy would you think I was hot?"
- Has kind of said something along the lines of "You can use the bath when i'm in the shower if you want."
Theres so many other little things but you get the general gist.
I've never really had that many close girlfriends so I don't know how normal it is for girls to act like this around eachother.
She also has a boyfriend who she's constantly fighting with, well had.
Also I think we almost kissed once, we were both on the couch and kind of looking at eachother and getting closer but her older brother knocked on the front door...
It's just really confusing and complicated.