Things right now for me are really fucking up.
I broke up with my girlfriend two days ago. After that happened, she checked my inbox and saw i was writing this other girl, so she left me a suicide voicemall. ( couldnt recieve her call cus of lousy reception) I woke up the next morning, checked my voicemail, found it and called her moms house. she picked up and told me never to call there again and that im not welcome. She also told me that her daughter had slit her wrists, taken a bunch of pills and was now in the hospital.

How do i know shes not going to do this again. Should i feel guilty?I mean I feel guilty.
I dont want to be with her but i just want to know shes not going to hurt herself but im not supposed to call there anymore. Im in the dark right now.



The other problem is that this other girl i was fucking. well its been a week since we did it and she missed her period. im worried. I didnt cum in her and i was only in there for like 10 seconds. Is there anything that could be done after a week or two? Its not definite shes pregnant, its just that we're worrying. shes underage too.

Well, the girl is fucked up in the head, but you should only feel guilty if you broke up with her badly. What I mean is, did you just say thing weren't working out, or did you tell her that she is a crazy bitch? The latter could definitely push someone over the edge.

And for the second question.
/facepalm

Well you don't know if she is going to do it again or not, but does it really have anything to do with you? She should feel secure enough with herself that yes, she may be able to handle things if she finds out you were simply emailing a girl. Granted, yes, that fucking sucks, why the hell would you do that you ignorant jerk? On the other hand however, everyone makes mistakes and it could be a lot worse. You should feel guilty about emailing another chick behind her back, but don't feel responsible about her cutting herself. She obviously has a lot more going on, doesn't she? I mean a perfectly happy person doesn't suddenly do that over something so minor, unless she is 16 and her hormones are raging out of control, which I understand even though it doesn't make it anything less then ridiculously dramatic.
So how long have you been fucking this other girl? Still while you were with your ex? I would do her a favor and never, ever talk to your poor ex again. Leave her alone, it seems like you have a lot of growing up to do before you settle into a serious relationship.
So your worrying about this little under-ager being pregnant? I would relax until she gets a pregnancy test. Her periods are still irregular and therefor it's not really anything to worry about. Truth is, periods hardly come regularly and girls love drama, so when their period has been late more then 2 days, guess what.. She will start stressing about the baby blues.
My advice to you? Use a fucking condom and stay away from relationships.

thats very constructive criticism. thank you. I just needed someone to be harsh for once and not sugar coat everything. I appreciate the honesty and the time you took to write to a complete stranger.

I was with my girlfriend for 2 + years and she always had abandoment issues she was beaten alot when she was a kid. shes 19 now. But about half of the relationship time was long-distance. So we were always apart and fucking things up for each other. She would see someone , then i would. then we'd drop our temporary significant others and get back together.

So this time when i saw her and i had to go back home,
I started seeing this other girl, while still officially with
my girlfriend. I tried to break up with her without letting her know i was screwing around with this other girl but she found out through her own exploring.
but at least my conscience is clear.

btw....

does 15 and 21 sound really really bad?

I'd say so. But, most importantly, by all standards that is statutory rape.

So.......uhh.......you like berkeley...

Telegraph and Shattuck were my hangouts....specifically when i was homeless...

random...

i had the exact same thing happen to me. im worried as fuck but your probably in the clear did you use a condom in the first place?

it fucking PISSES me off when these jackasses pull the "i'm gonna lyke totaly kill myself" shit

then FAIL at it,

HOW FUCKING HARD IS IT!!!!!?!?!!?!

slit your fucking neck,
jump infront of a train,
jump off a overpass,
drown
blow your ass up,

but dont fucking do some pussy scratches on your wrist and then chug the child moltren
and call 911,

jackasses need to learn how to pull a proper suicide

I'm sorry... were you asking me?

Anyways... no, it's not. However, you should probably get used to the rest of your life.

You're pretty hardass for thinking this. We're all really impressed (and frankly, a little intimidated) by your lack of empathy.

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