Well I'm kinda out of motivation to chase girls. IDK why, probably emotional. However I have to get back at the game.

So first I figured I'd quit masturbating all to often. Last time it ended in a success where I quit down to twice a week, where if I don't try to control it, its 7 times a week. Well for some reason I got drunk on new years eve and woke up with a girlfriend, not having masturbated in 3 to 4 days. Well that relationship is long gone, but after it I went back to 7+ times a week till currently, where I'm trying to control it again for the same reason as last: motivation. Either way, I'm finding it REALLY fucking hard for some unknown reason, any tips? Any other ways to gain the same motivation I'm requesting?

Hardets part is getting to sleep at night.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYepzC1NbB8

Just give it time.

Video isn't available in my country. Fuck I hate how Norway censors the internet partially, you can't even find tits on google, unless you go to google.ca or something.

wtf, you cnt find tits on google, but they dnt censor totse!!?!?!?

what the hell is that about!

I believe its company policy. Porn showcasing sex organs in action is illegal in Norway, so I guess google tries to stay safe by staying a notch above. Ya but good question why they don't censor totse. They did however block out many chans including beastchan and pedochan.

Man, I've been officially broken up with my ex for about a week now, and I'm already working on a new girlfriend. Already chatting up a super hot honey I just met. Probably nail her this weekend. I masturbate twice a day, and still am driven to fuck. Maybe try masturbating twice or three times daily until there is no thrill, and then you'll feel driven to find some pussy.

Edit: Have you ever considered that you might be depressed? This can greatly reduce your sex drive.

Maybe I'm depressed, but generally I ignore emotions so I just consider myself neutral. Problem is if I'm really depressed, I don't really know because I've supressed emotions all my life, but if I am depressed, then perhaps the partial cause of that is the problem I'm trying to solve, no? Then the evil loop starts, and I still need other sources of motivation then a pill.

If you're suppressing emotions, you probably are depressed. Why do you suppress emotions? I dealt with depression most of my life because I suppressed my anger. You could be angry that you're alone which is resulting in depression, but usually it's not that way with most people. What do you do when people piss you off or upset you? If you just swallow it, you should probably go find a psychologist to help you build up some tools to deal with the problem. I've solved most of my problems now. I have the odd relapse, but things are improving. I'm not taking any drugs either. Most of my problem comes from high testosterone levels. I need to either get laid lots, or kick the shit out of something. Since fighting people is kind of frowned upon, I usually resort to violent video games to get my jollies off. Running and other physical activities also help. One of my favorites is riding my race quad like mad for an hour or two. Sex is the best option, but I'm single and looking right now. Met a little hottie the other day, so I'll probably have somewhere to drop some aggression soon. Hope this helps.

you cant supress emotion without drugs or being a vulcan. you're just stupid.

I supress emotions so I'm invoulnerable to defeat. I haven't been working out regularly, but I'm starting to now with the school year starting up again. I'm looking for a job currently, so after I get that, start working out, and such I won't have much time spare. Maybe I should start doing martial arts again, but where I live there aren't really any martial arts that interest me. I did classical jujitsu when I lived in Canada which I enjoyed, because its main focus was grappling but it wasn't a sport, so it included kicks, punches, lethal techniques, knife fighting, staff fighting and all that kind of stuff. Oh and dirty tricks. I did judo when I was younger, but checked out my old judo club a year ago, and there were only peewees there which sucked big time. I'll for sure be investing lots of the money I earn in the game, once I get a job which shouldn't be to far away, maybe a couple weeks max.