It is the small things that you do with no intent to please somebody that have the most affect on them regardless of sex or relation.

I figured out today it holds true even with people that you barely know.

Strange how that works.

Your question?

Did I ask one?

Is this one of those its not how big it is, it's how you work it threads?

Nope, but if you aren't blasted tired like I am, and if you go back and read the post while comprehending it, then you would realize it is about things you do to make someone happy.

Inb4lock?

You did now.

Yeah man, I find that a lot as well. People appreciate random acts of kindness than huge ones that seem like you're pitying them.

Example, girl at the hostel I'm staying at loses her wallet/passport/etc. So I make dinner for two and bring her a meal. She fucking melts.

Little shit.

Skier falls and wipes out (hahaha fags) and you grab their poles and skies.

*Waits with bated breath for note #2*
EDIT: Also I agree with note #1.

You also run the risk of being 'that guy'. The one that everyone uses for odd jobs because he never asks for anything in return.