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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2008-08-21, 20:24
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Default Casual hand holding advice

I know how to initiate hand holding in a "date" situation. But, I'm a little bewildered on how to do it in a more casual situation, say high school for example. So, does anybody have any solid advice on how to initiate hand holding, but specific to the situation of walking to class or lunch with a girl, without coming across as weird.

I'm sure she will comply no matter how I do it, because I know she is into me, I just need a smooth way to do it, that won't be awkward for either person. Any advice would be appreciated.
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  #2   Add Euda to your ignore list  
Old 2008-08-21, 20:32
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Default Re: Casual hand holding advice

While sitting next to her, caress her wrist/arm/hand and let your hand slide into her own.
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Old 2008-08-21, 20:48
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This should be a no brainer, but alas.

Assuming you're going out with said girl, just move your hand next to hers and interlock fingers.

done.
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Old 2008-08-21, 20:56
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Default Re: Casual hand holding advice

I'm not going out with the girl, and we have never "held hands". But, there has been other, possibly more intimate touching than hands. But, I do understand that this might be sort of a big deal for a girl, so I need a smooth way to do it, and how to touch her before holding her hand. Like I said, she will comply no matter what, but I still want to be smooth.
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  #5   Add Zapple to your ignore list  
Old 2008-08-21, 21:17
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Unless you guys are planning on dating she won't hold your hand casually.
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Old 2008-08-21, 21:27
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Unless you guys are planning on dating she won't hold your hand casually.
This. Holding hands with a hookup, at school? Weird
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Old 2008-08-21, 21:36
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I know how to initiate hand holding in a "date" situation. But, I'm a little bewildered on how to do it in a more casual situation, say high school for example. So, does anybody have any solid advice on how to initiate hand holding, but specific to the situation of walking to class or lunch with a girl, without coming across as weird.

I'm sure she will comply no matter how I do it, because I know she is into me, I just need a smooth way to do it, that won't be awkward for either person. Any advice would be appreciated.
She'll do it if you show her that you use protection.
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Old 2008-08-21, 22:05
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Default Re: Casual hand holding advice

Maybe you guys don't really understand the situation. Or maybe most of you are just socially inept, I don't know.
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Old 2008-08-21, 22:09
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Maybe you guys don't really understand the situation. Or maybe most of you are just socially inept, I don't know.
I would go with the former choice.
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Old 2008-08-21, 22:16
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well, i think that it's as easy as taking her hand...isn't it? anyways, are you bf and gf with this girl? because if you aren't what's the point of doing this?
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