Ok, before you all get mad at me and think I am man bashing, I am not. I am merely asking a few questions that I have noticed that the majority of men I am around do.

Why do guys get off on the idea of their girl being with someone else? And in that same tone, why are they so curious about the past sexual relationships? I mean to a point that it is a turn on to them? (I ask because I know I want to just go apeshit crazy when I think about my man with some other chick, be it the past or just hypothetically)

Next, if they do like these types of things, then why are they so upset if they think their girlfriend cheated?? Or even get jealous if another guy hits on her? I am not saying it is wrong to feel these types of things, not at all, I think it is normal, I would feel the same way.. But, yet, they dig the whole idea of their chick being with someone else and then get all wierd when it comes to another person showing interest?

I hope you guys can follow this. Also, if their are any girls who have gone through this or have a differing view or hell even the same view I hold, I would love to know about it.

When I ever I find a potential girlfriend, I use a don't ask don't tell policy about past relationships.

As for why some guys do it, I have no clue.

I'll post more, but I need to get a quick run in.

A kinky sexual past is bad. It could mean your a slut or it could mean your an adventurous person but I would tend to lean towards slut. Almost zero sexual pas is also means he might dump you for somebody who can fuck good lol. Now, somebody who had sex under ten times, and every time was miisionary position, under the covers, in the dark, almost fully clothed is ideal. It means you can take it, but could also take more. I actually have no clue what I'm talking about riht now.
I dont like to stick my dick where other dicks have been so the less you say about it the better.
Are you a MILF, I'm sorry but my curiosity has peaked.

I know no-one that is like that..

No guys are like this...

very few guys 'get off' at the thought of their chick with another guy.

I don't know anyone who is like that either. Personally, I avoid talking about pasts. I do this because I'm a judgmental prick about a lot of things thanks to k-12 catholic schooling. It's hard for me to get over a girl's past if I'm really into her, dunno why, that's just how it is. I learned a few relationships ago that it's best to not ask and not tell.

So, whoever you're talking about sounds strange, OP.

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I mean really, if all the guys you know are like this you're hanging out with a very unrepresentative sample.
Most guys get angry when the chick cheats because they find the idea of another man with their woman repulsive.

I read on this fetish website about the psychology behind all that cuckold stuff, and i know your not talking about that but i gues its pretty similar... but it said that guys who are like that are like that because they dont feel theyre pleasing their girl or they just dont feel manly enough... so they get off on the idea of another guy satisfying his girl.....usually a man-lier or more masculine guy or something....

and i think it would bother them because cheating is different...it isnt freaky for tha person being cheated on i gues...

I don't like it when my girlfriend tells me about past sexual exploits and it certainly doesn't turn me on. It's a turn off more than anything. I once wanted to know and would pry but after realising it just made me jealous and full of rage, which I have no idea why, I just don't now. If she wants to tell me about it, then fine, otherwise I'll just leave it.