I will just say right now sorry for the emo-ness of this thread.


Fuck man I just can't seem to get anywhere with girls. I have gone through 18 long sexless years. I know some may be like 'oh you're young' and shit but its like everyone I know isn't a virgin but still I am. It's just like sometimes when I make an effort to hit on a chick and still I don't get the response that I want. It's I just feel like they aren't even considering me as a potential partner.

I do try and have confidence, I have done shit with girls, I've gotten my dick sucked, just my stints with girls are very short and the interest goes away with them quickly. Thats whats so fucking frustrating. Maybe just high school bitches are stupid. I'm supposed to go to college on Friday and I am just hoping my luck will change. But who the fuck really knows.

I just sometimes have no idea what to say and how to get into a girls pants. I just don't have a set way that I can figure it out. What pisses me off a lot too is chicks with boyfriends that I actually would enjoy being around but its just like all the good chicks already fucking have boyfriends and its like . I know I'm probably not going to find the answer to life's mysteries on totse but whatever why not just post this shit. I'm just relationship retarded I guess.

How depressing

Hmm.. Do you think maybe you should stop trying and stop letting it rule your thoughts so much? You could be sabotaging yourself subconsciously.

I really wish sometimes that my boyfriend was a virgin when we got together and the same for me. As a person who has had sex, it really, most of the time is not all it is cracked up to be. You let it be known that you are a virgin and have no problem with it, you could get a whole lot of girls interested. Even better, let them know you plan to keep it until marriage. Us girls just love a challenge..

I would love to trade places with you. Try to look at the positives and I am telling you, let them girls know you want to be a virgin until marriage and you will get more pussy than you know what to do with BTW, this is just one girls opinion, but it might work.

I say just get drunk and do some ugly/fat/nerdy chick, and for the rest of your life just tell everyone you had sex when you were in high school.

That OR just buy "The Game" by Neil Strauss

I know you have probably heard this a hundred times, and you already said it yourself, you are young. And yeah I know it's a bullshit response, but think of all the many opportunites that will arise as soon as you go to college.

High-school girls suck. I'm sure once you settle in at college there will be plenty of pussy to chose from. Not to mention a majority of college girls want the same as you, as much meaningles sex as they can get. Well, I know thats what I wanted, I guess I can't really speak for anyone else.

Just hang in there and youre virginity will be gone before you know it. And I garantee you will be glad you didn't get any of those love sick teenage girls because you took their virginity.

The only reason I'm not a virgin is because I got lucky.

Then I found out that I wasn't so lucky about...oh two monthes into that relationship.

I'm not letting it sabotage me, its just girls aren't interested. I can make them laugh and shit I'm not a boring ass nerdy fuck, I have friends, etc. It's just they don't think of me in that way (or so I think).

And idk WTF the positives of this are, you are a girl, you don't have any idea. I just want the experiences of a good girl and sex and what not. I just hope shit changes.

Just get someone equally as desperate as you. It's not going to happen if you're picky about it.

Hun, I am not saying you are a nerd or anything. I have been where you are, only I was 16.. All of my friends were having sex and I had not even kissed a boy. It is a mind fuck to say the least. I was not a nerd or anything else like that either, I was just brought up very religiously and it bled into who I was.

Positives, you are not a man whore. That would be one. When you find the person you want to be with for the rest of your life, you will be happy going into things knowing you did not have to fuck a bunch of whores just to get where you are. Speaking as a chick, I find a lack of sexual partners very arousing and it makes me feel powerful. You see, I was with someone who had fewer partners than me (he could not handle it), while it was an issue to him, I cared about him more and just wanted to show him things, things I knew he did not know. It will happen and I hope it will all be worth it for you. Shit will change. You will find a good girl soon, and if not, I hope you find someone who will just have sex to have sex, and then you can see you are not missing out on much. You have a future ahead of you full of possibilities. I am sorry you thought I was making fun of you or thinking you were a nerd.

No I didn't think you were trying to get at that....you were trying to be like 'think of the positives of being a virgin' and I don't really see any except for not being a man-whore which I wouldn't even care if I was. I just failed to see your point there.