I am giving up on socialising, love, making friendship, small talk, women, and all the rest of it. It's simply not my thing.

No I haven't just been through a breakup or anything serious. Just a million small dissapointments, and it's the straw breaking the camels back.

Will this lead to contentment? I mean, all this time I thought the key to it was to try and improve these things, but I'm genetically hardwired to barely socialise.

Hopefully everything just shuts up in my head now. That's all I want.

EDIT: this post isn't really about women.

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I don't value women highly enough to make the effort.

Though I take an odd sort of comfort from that quote. Thanks.

If someone comes along that it's worth you fighting over, I'm sure you'll know about it and act accordingly. If not, there's no use fighting. Chill.

Directly quoted from the Mystery Mehod: How to get beautiful women into bed ... Don't worry, I've read it too.

If you don't make an effort with women, what has been your disappointments? Could you be over-thinking things? Usually I find people who get to this point of frustration are thinking about the end result too much. To crudely quote the 40 year old virgin movie "Don't put the pussy on a pedestal". Chicks are chicks. They are just guys with their balls ripped off. They are attracted to you not caring or "giving a fuck" about their advances.

Just go out with your friends and forget girls exist. If it helps, learn a bit of "pick-up" to get you by if you honestly have no idea.

Once you get a girls attraction, don't give her all your attention at once. They are like cats... If you give the cat all the string they just look at it and get bored and walk away. But if you give it a bit and take it away they dance on their back feet and do back flips for the string.

Sorry. I honestly didn't mean to get into a pick up 101 session.

hahahaha, oh jesus titty fucking christ this post made me laugh. Sorry man, don't mean to throw shit in your face when you actually made an effort, but my social skills are just so ludicrously shit, you assume I am much better at this than I actually am.

That's the reason I wrote this post. I can't even do that. I have friends (or at least I think they're what friends are, don't really know). Basically even doing this makes me miserable, I am unable to go with the flow and I resent the way people act towards me. It doesn't make me happy.

This is why I am hoping I can now be content, because I won't try this shit.

As for women...oh man. I simply do not meet any cool ones, to even get to the point where I worry about it. So that's not even it.

Haha, rightio then man. Hey, if you ever find yourself in Australia let me know. I'll take you clubbing with some of my friends. I know in social settings that all your actions seem awkward and magnified by 100, but I've got stacks of really cool friends (male and female) that are really easy to get along with and I could give you some side-notes in real-world environments... I'm deadly serious, if you ever do get the funds come over here and let me know.

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There wasn't much of a need to attribute a quote.

I'm assuming from your other post that you'd be from Sydney/Melbourne/Brisbane/Adelaide
-are the clubs in capital cities any good? They're sorta crap where I am. I've never really been up for overnight trips to Sydney for the sake of clubbing,

I'm not quite sure what your problem is.

Do you just not have an intense interest in girls at the moment and dating, or is this a realization you've slowly dawned upon due to multiple failed attempts?

I'm sorry for the ignorance, but I'm not quite sure what you view your social status to be. What's wrong?