How do you get over being used. It's even harder because it was the first everything, all within 20 minutes.
It was typical awkward first relationship for internet nerds, alls well. Then 8 months later he decides I'm too imbalanced, and pointing out that it was all just for sex (quite obvious as we only fucked, spoke on msn, ignored each other in rl situations) and he was drunk will make it better, with the advice that I should try and go into a psyc ward. I feel just used and dirty now, not to mention the hurt at the general male population of my town laughing at me and joking about it, on top of the idea that I'm so unstable I need to be in a ward. And I had genuine feelings for him, which was why I was willing to just stick to a physical relationship in the hope of more.


So, totse, how have you dealt with your experiences of stupidity and being used and humiliated and then not being able to let go?

Time will do it.

Sucks though, interesting to hear why your response changed in the "first time" thread.


Good luck on your endeavour.

Drugs.

You get the fuck over it and learn from your mistakes.

In this situation you could sit in the library reading books on telekinesis and realise you have such powers and, contrary to your over-religious mother's beliefs, it's actually quite a cool thing. Then you wait until your prom, go in, get drenched in blood and end up using said powers to kill this guy, John Travolta and the bitch he was screwing that night.

Or just get on with it and be careful next time.

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Mutual friends came clean. As far as a physical act, it was good, no wrong hole inexperienced crap.

Only time will help you get over it. May as well use it as a learning experience and to remind yourself not to get into a situation like that again.

Tell him to never talk to you again or you'll file harassment charges; get school/work/whatever involved? Just kidding..

Find someone else is all I can say. You'll get over it. Hang in there.

" I don't think we can quote talk and be friendly after i get out of a ward unquote. Something to do with me wanting to kill you and making a habit of carrying 7 knives on me." His reaction when I was idly stabbing grass when a group of us were sitting around was priceless.
Anyway, the school did become involved as we were both on their mentally unstable list that they have to watch.

Oh for fucks sake bitch, can you please try and form a coherent sentence?