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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2008-08-15, 03:15
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Default Takes to long for me to cum

I can only come from rough hand jobs after about 20 minutes. And, I haven't cum from vaginal or oral sex yet (I'm 17 and have been sexually active for the last 6 months). To be honest it's pissing me and my gf off. I've had vaginal sex for about 2 straight hours once and still wasn't even close then.

I'm circumcised but have my frenulum intact and enough skin for a comfortable erection. But, very little sensitivity in my glans( head) or inner foreskin (the pink skin near the head). Is there any way to increase the sensitivity of my cock?

yes I know the thread title should be too instead of to

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Old 2008-08-15, 03:28
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Are you on an antidepressant medications by chance?
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Old 2008-08-15, 03:50
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If your really dead set on busting a nut while having sex.. Just have her play with your prostate a little.. But thats if you and your girlfriend are really sexually comfortable.. Haha
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Old 2008-08-15, 04:01
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Quit masterbating and don't get off for 3 or more days and see what happens.
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Old 2008-08-15, 04:49
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i hear wearing a condom continuously for several days will restore sensitivity

just make sure to keep clean
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Old 2008-08-15, 04:55
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Originally Posted by rtb91 View Post
I can only come from rough hand jobs after about 20 minutes. And, I haven't cum from vaginal or oral sex yet (I'm 17 and have been sexually active for the last 6 months). To be honest it's pissing me and my gf off. I've had vaginal sex for about 2 straight hours once and still wasn't even close then.

I'm circumcised but have my frenulum intact and enough skin for a comfortable erection. But, very little sensitivity in my glans( head) or inner foreskin (the pink skin near the head). Is there any way to increase the sensitivity of my cock?
Foreskin restoration ftw. I have been undergoing the process, and I'm nowhere near finished, but the results I am getting feel AMAZING. The point where I'm at right now feels so wonderful, and as I understand it's not even CLOSE to what an intact penis feels. The fact that such a tiny fraction of what I'm supposed to feel feels so much more wonderful leads me to wonder why anyone would want to be circumcised ever. I HIGHLY recommend it. You WILL get results. The only hard part is sticking with it for a year or two, otherwise it would be marketed all over the place. There is a 100% success rate, and EVERYONE who's completed the process has reported vastly increased sexual pleasure. The people who make the devices are extremely helpful and they will help get you through it with maximum results.

If you're hesitant about the process and just want to restore partial sensitivity, that's cool too. A good way to do this is to "wear your skin forward" all day, that is, to roll up the skin such that it covers the head. Most people have enough slack to pull this off. You then retain it there by taping it shut with medical tape, or, more comfortably, with a silicone cone that just slides on over the end and stays there using the natural friction of your skin, and can be popped off in a second for sexing or pissing or whatever. If you just wear the skin forward like this for a month, your glans and inner foreskin will get WAY more sensitive (to the point where you can feel your underwear irritating you when you jog without the skin in place). Eventually, the emollients in your skin will break down the thick layer at the surface and you'll go from a wrinkled, pitted glans to a smooth, sensitive one. I used to be able to run a pin across the head and not feel anything. Now I can't imagine doing anything so painful, but it's also way more sensitive to pleasure .

This website will get you started. They sell those retaining cones for a few bucks, as well as very well constructed devices for full-on restoration. It's not a gimmick, this stuff really does work and it feels SOOOO much better.

Oh and if you were wondering, you won't become a "minuteman" or anything just cuz you can feel sex as nature intended it. Premature ejaculation is not a function of sensitivity, but the ability to enjoy sex is.

I'm probably going to get flamed, but honestly I don't care. I'm taking back my manhood and the pleasure that is my birthright, and if you don't like it than you can go on living life the way you are. You know. Crippled.
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Old 2008-08-15, 20:00
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I actually am trying not masturbating and foreskin restoration. Since I haven't wanked in a week and a half and I've been restoring since July 8th I've noticed some increase in sensitivity, but since my girlfriend has been in Europe since then I'm unsure if I'll get the results I want.

DO NOT FLAME THE ABOVE POSTER!!!
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Old 2008-08-15, 20:08
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I'll trade you not being able to cum for cuming in 30 seconds or less.
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Old 2008-08-15, 20:18
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before/after pics?
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Old 2008-08-15, 20:53
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circumcision is for idiots...
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