Long time lurker, just recently decided to drop a thread for guys out there, like me or otherwise interested in learning some basics for flirting with women in public to gain their attention.

Personally I always have the issue of getting stuck in the friend zone with girls. From my point of view when I first meet a girl which we seem to click well, she seems interested and then a slow decline over the next week or so until I slip into the lets just be friends situation.

Ive been told by many of female friends that im a nice and intelligent guy, I just dont seem to be very outgoing when it comes to expressing my intentions.

"Nice guys finish last" is an expression often on mind.

Please administer any constructive advice or hilariously disgusting banter in the advice and banter holding receptacle below.

Thanks ya!

What probably happens there is this:

1). You meet a girl.
2). You "click".
3). You don't make a move for a few weeks.
4). She gets tired of waiting and moves on.

Objectively lets put this into a lamens scenario.

I just landed on this planet as a 21 year old male, I have a desire to date.

Describe this "move" am I suppose to be making, or making too late.

Simply asking them to coffee? winking? groping her breasts when theyre gently resting on my arm?

this.

Oh come on.

I knew how to flirt with girls when I was in third grade.

Fuck knows. If I knew the answer I'd be boning someone right now, not sitting here on Totse.

The saying, "Nice guys finish last." is very misleading. Most "nice" guys think that it is somehow disrespectful to openly convey sexual interest in a woman right off the bat. They think that the wrong impression is going to be made, and that boundaries are going to be crossed. When in actuallity why the fuck would you be talking to this girl in the first place? Do you want your dick inside of her? Do you want her lips on yours? To touch her body, and to explore it with innocent glee? If so, then pretending NOT to be interested in her sexually, is counterproductive to what you actually want. In essence, stop lying to yourself, and you'll stop ending up in the friend zones of so many female friends who think you want just that...friendship.

It's called building sexual tension, you obviously don't know how to do it.

Lol, mother fucker please...

You can't be fucking 24/7, knowing you can get pussy is just as satisfying as getting pussy.

nigga pl0x

Well.. theory is nothing when it's not backed by practice. Learned it the hard way.

Btw, noticed I'm the same age now as you were when you first joined &t; now I gotta make sure I achieve more in the next 5 years than you did.

shouldn't be too hard