like a splinter in my skin. This is kind of long. Please bear with me.

They were together for 2 years. He was a cocaine/heroine addict, but was DEFINITELY not limited to those. He put up an act for her and "seemed nice" for the first 3 months, then he turned on her. Started being verbally abusive, then physically, and mentally. For a period of 3-4 months he forced her to do drugs, including shrooms and salvia, and gave her pills that she took without asking even what it was, until she finally had had enough and stopped doing the drugs. He pressured her and cornered her into having sex, when before she'd been with him was a prude who never even had kissed a guy and wanted to wait until marriage. After that time was around when he went to rehab. He continued to routinely hit her and even when she said no he'd force her to have sex i.e. rape. After being clean for months, he was let out of rehab, before relapsing and landing himself again. Blew coke straight out of rehab. She was devastated and broke up with him. Now as for me and her. She liked me almost the entire time they were going out even before I talked to her. Thought I was the most attractive guy shed ever seen. Her ex always caught her staring at me and asked her if she liked me, which she denied. He was so scared of me he had to ask me online to stop talking to her, saying "she's the only thing I've got". Last year, I had her in my lunch period, and made a routine of flirting with her and making her laugh, and talking to her about stuff. She ended up asking to see my dick, but I said no, knowing that she had a boyfriend. When they broke up I started hanging out with her everyday and ended up hooking up with her and fucking her before asking her to be my girl. I've been with her for 4 months. He kept talking to her and everytime he would she'd end up crying and get really upset. I told him not to talk to her a few months ago and so far he'd complied. He has a girlfriend now but I KNOW he still likes her, he's made it clear, trust me. Yesterday he texted her. I answered "How's it going sweetcheeks, it's Scott. I think it's better you don't talk to her". He hasn't said a word but I have Junior year coming up and he's back in school. My girlfriend swears she has no feelings for him and I severely hope it's the case. I couldn't imagine it wouldn't be assuming I make her come 20 times from sex on average and I sweet talk her to the point it's ridiculous. I'm trying to get my life in order and do well in school, grades and socially (I'm probably the biggest douchebag in the school, trying to be nicer). I can't have this. Allow me to paraphrase. He has to go.

So I look to totse. What the FUCK do I do in this position?

nice wall of coke. guess what, youre being lied to by a chick. take anything a girl says about her ex with a huge grain of salt, they always talk shit and play the victim.

If I find out shes lying about anything other than exaggerating it a small bit I'm leaving her. And he did hit her my friend was there when he punched her straight in the face and gave her a black eye.

thats nice. im more amused that i typed 'coke' instead of 'text'. and she is exaggerating or lying (depending on how you view it). he didnt force her to do this or that, she went along because she was attracted to him and was too weak and dependent to break it off. every single 'omg i was abused by my boyfriend for months' story is the same. they werent held at gunpoint, they werent helpless and trapped. they stayed rather than exercising their option to leave and seek protection (if necessary) and now wish to excuse their poor judgment by blaming someone else.

That is probably true.. I don't care that much I'm looking for a way to have this work out in my favor and not get arrested.

well youll have to define 'in your favor'. the problem here isnt this guy, its your girl and you. you dont need to do shit, she does. the fact that youll stay with her even though she wont fix her own problems says more about you than it does about him. the fact that you would risk your freedom and health to fix a problem she created is absolutely pathetic.

Define "fixing her own problems".

if she does not want him contacting her then its up to her to accomplish that.

You see, shes made a point by everytime he'd call not answering. She wasn't gunna answer the text. I was the one who decided to just tell him to not talk to her since she can't control what he does, she can just choose to not answer you know? I chose to tell him that knowing that he's intimidated by me. Hopefully he'll get the message. She already told him not to talk to her. It's a matter of him listening. If she were talknig to him she'd be asking for it. HE talks to her. He's literally obsessed with her every girl he's been with he stalks and has cut himself over.

Lol your girlfriend is a dumb bitch. After everything I've read; your girlfriend is a straight dumb bitch. I've done this to a chick (minus physical abuse). In my mind and to all my friends I called her a dumb bitch. I made her think I was in love with her, she fell in love with me...all the while I was calling her a dumb bitch. I'm just now getting off of coke and heron though and I do regret doing it.