I am having trouble with my girlfriend right now because of fucking internet porn. Now I don't really even watch it that often, and when I would, it was just pictures, and nothing gross or crazy. I can't explain to her how it is just stupid, and means nothing. She thinks it is because she isn't desirable and doesn't fulfill my needs, but that isn't it at all, and I don't know how to get this across. They are just pictures, and...that's all? It just really confuses me on what she wants.

shes insecure, immature and jealous. keep doing what youre doing and let her fix herself.

Of all the words flying around, those three slipped my mind, but they are the most true. Thank you. I would honestly have no real problem if she had porn, or whatever. I don't know how looking at another person's body would be harmful..

Did I mention we have been together for 15 months quite happily?

This is true. I did the same thing to a boyfriend of mine three years ago. To be fair though, try putting yourself in her shoes. How would you like it if she looked at all these hot, muscly men? Most girls are insecure though but she needs to remember that these are porn stars. Most of them are fucking nasty anyways, and most likely loose.. she will have to grow up and understand this, but if she can't then she needs to find a guy that doesn't watch porn (unlikely)

show her the internet is for porn song. It's on youtube. Think the wow version is the best lookin
It should explain to her the difference of the male and female perspective on porn

My girlfriend was the same way I eventually just stopped telling her and kept doing it. I hate lying but if im gonna be honest and have to deal with problems it works out better.

i wouldnt give a fuck. shes with me and thats good enough. why do i care if shes attracted to someone else? what am i 14? i know any girl im with is attracted to other guys just like im attracted to other girls. but we were with each other because we wanted to be and had more than simple attraction for each other. unlike you, i dont need to put others down to feel good about myself. i dont say 'waaaah that ripped jock is probably on steroids and has a small cock and probably beats his partners and blahblahblahblah'. just accept that porn stars are performing an entertainment service and your boyfriend is turned on by that. it has nothing to do with you, deal with it.

I dont see what the big deal is. Unless this girl is severely sheltered she should know that most if not all guys look at porn. Ive joked about it with girls and they know what the deal is...IT IS NO BIG DEAL....unless of course shes not putting out and the reason is for you to release from looking at it, then you need to talk that out with her.

I would just like to say I agree with everything mrman383 has said so far in this thread.

It's straight up front truths. Makes sense in my mind and gives me a perspective I needed...