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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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  #1   Add mikehunt1 to your ignore list  
Old 2008-08-04, 07:50
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Thumbs down Sex with friends

Theres this girl that I went out for like a week or something and I broke it off because I didnt feel any connection and plus im just not attracted to her, well we remained friends because she is a decent person to chill with or whatever.

So we got drunk last night and I got horny and we had sex..So today she must think I want her or something because she wants to kiss me, hold hands and all that..but I dont want that.. I know I cant blame the alcohol totally, I did wanna get laid, but Im not into her like that, shes not attractive to me, I know I fucked her and all, but it is what it is.

I guess theres no easy way to let her down AGAIN, in hindsight I shouldnt have fucked her. Im thinking of either avoiding her until the awkwardness dies down or just flat out telling her whats up..Which one is the better option here? OH and to add a little twist, I was her first.
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Old 2008-08-04, 08:12
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Theres this girl that I went out for like a week or something and I broke it off because I didnt feel any connection and plus im just not attracted to her, well we remained friends because she is a decent person to chill with or whatever.

So we got drunk last night and I got horny and we had sex..So today she must think I want her or something because she wants to kiss me, hold hands and all that..but I dont want that.. I know I cant blame the alcohol totally, I did wanna get laid, but Im not into her like that, shes not attractive to me, I know I fucked her and all, but it is what it is.

I guess theres no easy way to let her down AGAIN, in hindsight I shouldnt have fucked her. Im thinking of either avoiding her until the awkwardness dies down or just flat out telling her whats up..Which one is the better option here? OH and to add a little twist, I was her first.

Hmmmm
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Old 2008-08-04, 08:17
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Tell her how it is, she deserves to know. She'll get over you a lot quicker that way.
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Old 2008-08-04, 08:51
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String her along and sex her up good, you can be a shitty boyfriend for a while and then when you dump her she wont be so cut.
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Old 2008-08-04, 09:00
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Geez.

Just let her down easy and tell her you still want to be friends because you like her but not that way. You took her virginity, thats a big thing for girls. Be gentle is all I can say
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Old 2008-08-04, 13:34
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OH and to add a little twist, I was her first.
You're fucked.
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Old 2008-08-04, 13:41
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Douchebag says what?
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Old 2008-08-04, 16:13
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*facepalm*

You always need to figure out if the girl is a virgin before you do this. Unless it's an obvious one night stand that won't matter, you need to know if the girl is going to stalk you afterwards.

Tell her what's up and move along.
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Old 2008-08-04, 16:57
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Next time, don't fuck someone you don't like. Just tell her what you feel about her and hope that she'll get over it.
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Old 2008-08-04, 20:02
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String her along and sex her up good, you can be a shitty boyfriend for a while and then when you dump her she wont be so cut.
^^^^^
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