A lot of people on here and in real life do all sorts of things in jealous rages and hurt people in the course of their own selfish needs. I'm still young, but for the longest time I was like this. I hurt people because they hurt me first, I was vengeful for every little bad thing that happened to me, and I hurt the few people who loved me unconditionally.

Most things aren't as bad as they seem. If a loved one hurts you, talk it out, tell them how things are, tell them you still love them now matter how angry you are at them. I used alcohol to numb a lot of my grief, at the end I realized it only burned out a lot of "happy" receptors in my brain. There's no such thing as "getting away" with bad things. You might avoid jail or getting an ass beating, eventually though some day you'll pay for it and it will burn like hell.

Don't hate, it's a waste of time and a waste of your intelligence.

Well said

Life is too short to hate others. You can dislike someone, you can be angry as all hell at them, but don't block them out or ridicule them.

One thing I'd like to stress the importance of is that you should always be open to talk with whomever has you irritated (and by talk I mean not argue). Whenever I pissed my last gf off she never wanted to talk about things, she said there was nothing to talk about. She'd get all upset and wouldn't even tell me she doesn't want to talk to me herself- one of her friends would do it. Even now if I wanted to talk to her about things she'd flip out.

I approve of this thread.

Nothing is so good that somebody, somewhere will not hate it.

what the fuck are you talking, a little hate is good for the soul. and bad things are the only thin g that keep you sane and you sure as hell can get away with them

If someone hurt me I'd hurt them, eye for an eye. If they can do something they know will hurt me why can't I hurt them equally? They will learn their lesson and think twice next time, therefore I did something good for mankind.
I wouldn't hate them after that, I would consider the situation resolved. And that we are 'even'.

Capiche?

Fight fire with fire.

This thread is the gayest thread.

Your ideals are naive and optimistic at best. People get away with bad things everyday and some people never get their dues no matter how hard they try.

Maybe you should wait until you're 40 before you start preaching like Ghandi.