A) When women tell you look like a handsome actor, are they indirectly trying to flirt with you?

B) When older women (IE, 30's and 40's) who don't have a wedding ring say this to a 20 year old, are they flirting? Is it possible for women who are 20 years older to be interested in someone that much younger? (outside of porno movies of course) I was afraid to say something back to this lady so I just ignored her compliment and said thank you and left it at that. She was pretty MILFy looking but am used to respecting older ladies and not trying to flirt with them.

My friend got really drunk and made out with another friend's equally drunk aunt.

He's 21, she's 45.

Now what was that about respect?

I got one question for you:
Do not both males/females have sexual desires no matter how old they are?

No, I'd say that a newborn really doesn't have any sexual desires.

Yes.. they are probably flirting with you.. unless you are really ugly and they are just trying to make you feel better.. if a cougar is saying this to you, then she is definitely flirting with you.. I think you kinda lost out, to be quite honest.. they probably picked up on your boyish innocence

O rly? They instinctively go for the tits, and they cry cause they want to stay all up in that pussy.

I don't think that necessarily means she's flirting with you, but it's possible. You might just look like that person and she noticed and had to point it out..

as far as much older women being attracted to much younger men, sure that happens, but I'd assume it'd only be for sexual purposes.. but who knows?

Well i've had two older, yet attractive ladies act this way towards me. One is a very "independant" type chick who works at some company. Again my thick skull probably prevented me from taking it any further with her.

This other lady (not the one I wrote about in the OP) one time was at my register buying cigarettes (I work at a pharmacy, btw, this is how I meet them) once and I siad some small talk about my shitty job. Then all of a sudden, under her breath, says "you can come work for me", I may have misunderstood but I'm pretty sure she said that. I again, stupidly chalked it up to a misunderstanding.

What I don't understand is that, young women don't even look at me, yet these older ladies seem to like me a lot more. Another time this lady, who usually uses the back register at my store, came up to the front (they switched me to the front that day) to buy some small items. it could either be another coincidence, but she was dressed very sexily compared to the last time I saw her. Another time I saw her again in the store and had to help a customer so I didn't acknowledge her until later, and she looked kind of disappointed.

i just don't know how to react to this. I never thought older ladies would be interested in a younger guy, especially considering my high school and college experience where it seems girls my age only want to date guys that are 3-4 years older.

Is this all just in my horny brain, or do these ladies really want something to do with me?

My current girlfriend is 30, i'm 18.

I met her at subway, gave her my number on the back of the reciept and told her to call me.

I told her my age and she didn't want to tell me hers, then I eventually found out.

So yes, women can be older in the relationship. She's Japanese btw (I live in Japan)