Alright, this was just a joke between the two of us at first and has blossomed into this very awkward moment. We've done some playing around with the idea and her.

She's decided she wants to finally try this out, but she want to be drunk as in completely obliterated. I've done some reading and know lube is your best friend starting in on this as well is taking it very slow at first.

My query comes to the part of the drinking and any tips not to pain her more than necessary. Anyone know how the drinking could effect this besides the thinning of blood and making possible small tears difficult to clot? I'm really at a loss at how to approach this as well when she's drunk or if she'll be demanding in it...

Well, any help is greatly appreciated.

Augh! NO! She should not be drunk or on any sort of drugs. Being able to feel tells you if you're doing it right, or doing massive irreprable damage. I've heard horror stories that ended with someone shitting into a bag for the rest of their life.

Edit: You shouldn't be drunk or on drugs either.

Now, there's an excellent podcast on the internet called Sex Is Fun. They did a couple of episodes on anal sex. Listen to them.

http://sexisfunradioshow.blogspot.com

try inserting butt plugs for a few days beforehand, and make sure her strap on isn't too big.

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How lovely... see here, I'm not afraid to say that that preparation would be unneeded in my case. I'm quite comfortable with my sexuality and my twisted little kinks.

DON'T DO IT!

My friend recently had anal sex with her husband and had to go to the hospital where they put THREE stitches in her torn rectum.

Ahahahahahaha!

He must have been screwing her hard.
Ow.

Yeah, if you trust your partner enough to stop when you scream out "holy fucking god, OW!" or whatever your safety word may be... that shouldn't happen unless of course your trust was misplaced.

DON'T DO IT!

My friend recently had anal sex with her husband and had to go to the hospital where they put THREE stitches in her torn rectum.

...I have anal sex with my girlfriend all the time, with no issues.

The issue would only come if you a) Have a large cock or, b) aren't exactly gentle. If you're not too big and you are conscientious (which you are), there'll be no issues. Lube is your friend and alcohol is fine (we're usually drunk when we do this.)