My girlfriend refuses to have sex, and refuses to tell me why. Before we did it on shrooms we did every couple days. Has this happened to anyone before? It was her first time tripping, but she said she was up for it.

You broke her.

How long ago did you guys trip, maybe she just needs a little time.

maybe she looked at ur dick and hallucinated something bad and is now scared of it. really that could be it

Just over 2 weeks.

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fail.

Maybe shrooms enlightened her and now she realizes you're ugly/a shitty boyfriend/suck at sex.

Why do you think I always say that sex on a trip is not a good idea and not for the newly initiated to shrooms and acid?

There are so many things going on in the head and thoughts. Your ego is already stripped down and exposed, as it were. And sex is the most intimate and you're also very vulnerable. Sometimes it is just too much and something inside someone snaps.

That's what it sounds like happened here.

Oh when will people listen to me before it's too late??

Wow thats fucked up. That one of the suckiest things I've heard. I personally have a GF that loves to do it on shrooms but I dont always want to b/c I like the introspective side of the trip. So maybe she was thinking a lot about stuff but you seemed like you just wanted sex, so what she got out of the trip is "My boyfriend likes me only for the sex" and is now testing you? Did you have to convince/coax her to sleep w/you on shrooms, like did she seem like she was just chilling enjoying the trip but you were horny so she eventally just slept w/you? Or did she throw herself at you? Who initiated the shroom sex basically, and how was the sex then, was it slow and loving or just fast animalistic sex?

Either way, try to just be with her to show her that she is important to you as a person an you like to hang out with her, and that its not just for the sex. Is she still willing to make out and stuff, how far is she still willing to go, like second base or what?

Yeah forcing sex (well not like rape but you know what I mean I think/hope) on someone who is just in their head tripping and already having a hard time just dealing with the trip can make it too much to handle. Maybe when you try to approach her now it reminds her of something that happened/she thought of during the trip and its as overwhelming as a trip (something like a flashback).

Maybe you two should roll together, without the pretense of sex. This is a hard situation you have to deal with here...I can only sympathize, I'm at a loss for concrete advise. I'm sure someone here can help though. Maybe Meta can help by more than just identifying the problem, although the first step to solving the problem is admitting you have a problem and what that problem is.

She honestly probably realized that she didn't want to be with you. Or maybe she decided she's a lesbian. Why don't you ask her? And if she won't tell you, get rid of her. A girl who won't confront her problems isn't something you want to keep around.

You probably scared her away from sex for her entire life. Good going.

This.

She may very well be associating sex with you with bad, scary, uncomfortable feelings.


You probably scared her away from sex for her entire life. Good going.

I lol'd.

So you do not get much sex do you?

That's something I kind of worry about with my current... girlfriend I guess you could call her again.

Maybe when we trip for her first time she'll completely change... we're going to do it anyways, can't be with someone whom won't enjoy drugs with me.

Maybe repressed memories and emotions were stirred up, or she just felt especially vulnerable and unsure, in regards to the intimacy of sex. Be supportive and don't pressure her like a cock... give her some time, and don't force her to try and explain it, she may get her head 'round things, and confide in you more with some time.

Hope things work out.

So you do not get much sex do you?

Why makes you think that? What he said is true, he doesn't even need to have ever had sex tripping before to say that. Just a little bit of intelligence, which unfortunately you seem to lack. Smeghead.

*rubs metas feet, offers him a beer*

Don't worry man, I got 'em.

So you do not get much sex do you?

I get my share of it. I do have a GF. Not that that has anything to do with what I said. You just obviously don't have enough brain cells to process the logic of what I said.

You don't know a whole lot about life, drugs and women, do you? And any answer other than no is a lie: We know. You are very transparent.



Oh, and you're a smeghead too...

I get my share of it. I do have a GF. Not that that has anything to do with what I said. You just obviously don't have enough brain cells to process the logic of what I said.

You don't know a whole lot about life, drugs and women, do you? And any answer other than no is a lie: We know. You are very transparent.



Oh, and you're a smeghead too...

dude thats EXACTLY what i said! i know you so well.

Why do you think I always say that sex on a trip is not a good idea

^^ this.

Me? I don't like to have to deal with the existance of other people while tripping. My own fucked-up head problems are freaky enough, who wants the burden of everyone else's?

So let's look at this. Without the perceptual filters of orientation and arousal, these squishy sticky bits are pretty terrifying and/or disgusting on their own. I mean, seriously - if you were exploring crevices in rocks and some critter which looked like a freestanding genital jumped out and started chasing you, wouldn't you run like fuck? I would...

'n to top it all off, your communication 'n sensitivity towards each other isn't exactly enough to where you'd know if she would flash back to some unpleasant childhood event if you WEREN'T on top of her naked, grunting, sweating, and ignoring her. Which is also a possibility. Not a neccesary one, it'd be disturbing enough playing the "ten billion unconnected points of view at once" game on its own, but shit - you don't fucking know, dude.

...and that's how you spent her first time tripping? You're an asshole, and just 'cause psychs occasionally are lain on pez 'n sugar cubes doesn't mean they're kiddie toys, dude. SRS.

Congrats, you broke some poor girl's psyche, and she'll forever wander around a scarred and traumatized former shell of herself. Yay? On the bright side, she could just be reeling from the "10,000,000,000 points of view" (the last thing I'D want to happen during sex) and will survive. Either way - yay. Your girlie had a psychedelic crisis and you were too busy stuffing her to notice. Smooth, asshole.

MDMA is your last hope.

THIS and like people have said MDMA is your last hope.

It's okay, I know exactly how to solve your problem.

Invite her over to your house and cook a nice dinner. Set the table with candles and try to make a romantic scene. Buy champagne, but it doesn't have to be really expensive. Most people don't know expensive champagne from cheap champagne anyways. Then, after you eat, you need to put a gag ball in her mouth and rape her.