So, I was talking to my gf today. I asked her, quite randomly, a hypothetical question. I asked "Lets say a guy comes up to you, and offers you $25,000 if you give him a blowjob. In this situation, you still have a bf (me), and you somehow know he has no STD's whatsoever. You get a week to think about it. There aren't any evil catches. Would you do it?"

I realized I was opening a Pandora's Box here, but I kinda wanted to know. Now let me clarify, first, that she would never, ever cheat on me. I love her, she loves me. But she is pretty short on money, and has been her whole life.

Her answer was an almost 100% yes. At first she said that she'd probably call me and ask me if I was ok with it, hypothetically. If I said yes, she'd do it immediately. She later then changed her answer to...that she might just do it and not tell me.

What do I think? On one level, it's really just some guy inserting some flesh into her mouth for a couple minutes, and in exchange she gets more money than she'd make in a few years, at her age. It would make her VERY happy. She wouldn't have any emotional attachment whatsoever, and she definitely wouldn't enjoy it. If some guy offered the same deal, but with just a massage instead of a bj, I wouldn't even hesitate, I'd say yes. So why does it bother me so much, if it's just different pieces of flesh touching? And it's not like I'd taste his cum in her mouth, even an hour later, let alone days or weeks later. And it's not as if she hasn't given blowjobs before me, and that doesn't bother me! So I clearly don't have the "only virgins" syndrome.

All this just really confused me. She's a very smart girl, too. I'm not sure if I should be kind of disgusted by her answer, or I'm wrong and just too conservative. But either way, I know that I would be really uncomfortable if I knew that in the middle of our relationship, she had blown some random guy, and things just went on like normal. I would really have trouble kissing her the same way.

She said that probably one of the reasons I find it kind of shocking is some social stigma. But I told her that sex really is just a certain area of flesh on another certain area of flesh, but it doesn't mean we haven't given it a very special meaning, one that is very nice but can be destroyed.

She also asked me if I would do it, but obviously for a woman. I said that I would NEVER do it if I was in a relationship. She then asked if I would if I was single. I said possibly, depending on how desperate I was for cash. But probably.

Now, after all this hypothetical stuff, what? I'm left with a few questions. I mean, this situation will NEVER come up, but it still makes me wonder. After all, we can't know for sure until we're there, but hypothetical situations are a good marker of our values. So should I be worried that she would even consider it, let alone, basically CHEAT on me for money? It kind of made me want to gag...

So what do you think? First of all, would you, in this situation? Second, if your partner (assuming you have one) was in this situation and asked your permission, would you let them? Third, what do you think of mine, do you think it means anything at all?

You're in flint. She'd do it in a heartbeat because nobody in flint ever sees that kind of money unless they are upper level drug dealers...I've dated a few flintoids and they are just flat out awful...she's probably cheating on you with some nigger gangster and you don't even know it.

lol, I'm actually from the Southwest of the USA.

Shit I would give a BJ for 25,000$.

Don't be upset by the answer, it's like the easiest way to make 25K.

But no one would give 25,000$ for a blowjob from your probably very average looking GF, considering they could have a whole night with an upscale escort for a small fraction of that amount.

All her answer means is she'd probably do it for like 50$.

Stop kidding yourself. You'd eat out a girl for 25 Grand no ifs, ands or buts.

If you wouldn't you're fucking stupid.

so am I originally. why does your location say flint then if you are currently not livin there?

Yes, I'm stupid because I wouldn't wreck a relationship with a person I love for an amount of money that probably won't mean that much to me in a few years.

Or, if you're talking about if I was single, like I said, I probably would.

I wouldn't want people I know to realize it's me. It's a small chance, but I'm paranoid.

How would it wreck it? She wouldn't find out, you'd get over it...

Not to mention she's probaply not 'the one'.

Fuck, I'd give another guy a blowjob for $25,000. That's some nice cash.