Okay so any of you who know me will know I'm an asshole. And this, combined with my good looks, is great for pulling.
How the fuck do you keep them? I suck at the ordinary stuff, I don't even realize it's there half the time and ALWAYS fuck it up.

So, for those of you in long relationships, how do you go about being perfectly ordinary with each other? What is your role as the boyfriend on a day to day basis?

See, up till now I've been perfectly content to just pull chicks and then stop - I've been ingrained to think that this was the crux of the matter and so all of my self improvement bent upon this train of thought. But now I know a chick I might want to try keeping around, and I realize I am woefully inexperienced.

WOEfully.

arx_

Cellar + locked door.

it puts the lotion on it's skin...

Long time no see arx.

Do you have many female friends? As in, girls you connect with?

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I thought this was obvious to people, but here we go.

People don't like assholes. Granted a lot of girls (usually immature girls, and those with low self esteem) find it attractive in the short term, but even most of them get sick of it.

Hmm and asshole you say... Everyone has that moment when they meet a bitch... excuse me a young lady that makes them want to do things differently. Just listen to what she talks about andb e interested that is big

Plenty mate, I prefer chicks to guys on the whole. They tend to be more mature and besides it's just easier to get along with them.

There's a nack to being an asshole. I suppose you could compare me to Tucker Max in so far as we use our personality to entertain and it works for everyone. But stop the comparison there

As far as the chicks you tend to attract - I agree, but you missed out the rare catch: strong women. Women with backbone and an attitude of their own. There's nothing worse than a mostly submissive girl. It's a total kill joy.

I disagree. There is nothing more heart warming and touching then when a woman submits to you.

You're going to have to define asshole, maybe with examples.

Sarcastic, blunt, purposely insensitive, scathing, cold. And yet all spun to entertain and maneuver me as the center of attention. It's hard to describe without you knowing me in person. I'm the guy people will describe with their christian name and a meaningful intonation - and will associate with a good time.

Anyway, how is this - or our tastes in women - relative to my query?

You don't think keeping women around for a long-term relationship is one set of rules regardless of the type of woman she is, do you?