I've cheated and been cheated on this life
I myself by now make the difference between emotional cheating
I don't mind if she's drunk and out of lust shares the night with some guy as long as it's safe. I mind way more if she sit's and get's drunk with some guy every night discussing life and all troubles in it.

But.. now i've for the first time during sex thought about another woman, and, i feel i've cheated way more then i ever have before, for once i feel guilt, even though i shared the bed with my ex her best friend, about wich i only feel guilty i told her.

Am i the only one who troubled this more then most other things or...am i just a silly twat

Yes. Yes you are.

This.

intresting how through the years totse always lives up exactly to your expectations


But flame away , and make your and my day

Yeah, I've also gathered over the years that Totse doesn't have much respect or sympathy for piece of shit communist twinkletoes cocksucking sons of bitches that cheat, such as yourself. Not that I do anything but commend Totse for this.

I find it the opposite way around.

If she fucks someone else I see it as a "She actually went through with her actions. She physically displayed her emotions" (actions speak louder then words, etc).

If a girl is thinking about someone else more often then she thinks about you then don't date her. What's the point?

As for sex... I think about a whole lot of other things during sex. This includes music, power rangers, porn I've seen, other positions I enjoy and want to try, etc.

Again, if she's fucking you why even care? Vise Versa, you're fucking her in the end (no pun intended... unless it was anal).

It's all kind of complicated. My girlfriend and I have come to the understanding that if we ever truely lose interest in each other then we'll be honest because that's the least we can do. We'll just break it off and move on.

Also, if thinking about someone else while you fuck your girlfriend keeps you hard so that you can satisfy her then she's benefiting form it anyway.

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Well, they say that if a woman sleeps with a man, it's considered cheating. If a guy hangs out with another woman, it's considered cheating, but not cheating if he sleeps with her and has no feelings for her. I don't know, it's all complicated and shit.

But if your conscience is getting the better of you, because you constantly end up in cheating relationships- maybe you should fucking STOP with the cheating? You act like cheating is just like a part of your life and that's just the way you are, but you could just get some therapy or something and stop hurting yourself and other people.

I was about to ask what backwards part of the world do people say that, then I saw you live in the south.

Emotional cheating is much worse. Once you cross that connection line with another person, you can never have the same relationship with your significant other.

Did i say i cheated and i'm proud of it? I hate cheating too, but sometimes, your weak and angry and emotional and there's a caring person. I never cheated to hurt somebody, pure for the sex or for revenge. But i am human. That's why i don't feel guilt, i know my intentions back then.... and believe me my actions hurt me as much as they did the other person and never did it with the intention to do that to either of us. But when your low...you make mistakes.....if you think it's not that way with you... well....your in for a surprise this life