well i dont know where to start, but me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months today, and we have always txt'd each other like every day, and one thing i told her as a random fact is that i find communication to be a big part of keeping a good relationship, but for the last week she has been sick, now she gets sick a lot, but she hasnt txt'ed me all week, and when she has her excuse has been she has been too sick to txt me, BUT!, today is the start of the school term, and i heard from a good source she was at school today, then she has come on the internet for the past 3 days, so, how can she be so sick that she cant txt me, but she is well enough to go on the internet and go to school? and naturaly i have had thoughts like something's wrong, but every other time she hasnt txt'ed me she's been truthfull, am i just being paranoid or what? , and she hasnt made any effort of trying to talk to me on the internet

call her when its appropriate (maybe not right now but it is 4 am here) and ask how shes feeling. if she still says shes sick ask how school was and all that. if shes still being distant ask if shes having mixed feelings about the relationship, see if she wants to end it cause youd rather get out than get kicked out...

good luck

Do you even know her in person? Maybe it doesn't matter if you've never met her.

yeah, might do that tomorrow, thanks for the advice

yeah i do know her in person

but i still don't get how she can be so sick she cant text me, but well enough to spend an hour traveling on public transport to get to school , ... i hope she doesn't have mixed feelings , or worse...

This may be a massive assumption, but Judging by your valuing of constant text messaging and her lieing to avoid having to reply, maybe shes suggesting that its FUCKING ANNOYING

But I mean, its not like thats obvious or anything...

well she doesn't like talking on the phone, and neither do i, and well if she sais she is sick, what decent boyfriend WOULDN'T send her a text asking her if she is alright, and to me, communication is one of the most important part of a relationship in my opinion, and say for example i choose not to talk to her at all, in spite of myself... that's the exact type of thing i would do

Why don't you just go and actually see her?

Fucking this.

Dude just see her!!!!!!


(is it just me or are those exclamation marks purple?)

should do that, but what would she say if i just randomly turned up? and i have to travel for like forever, but some girls like that stuff, but seriously for all i know i could just be being paranoid, but if something is wrong, i would do anything to keep this relationship going

Well how far away from you does she live?