is it better to let the girl wonder if you are interested or is it better for them to wonder?

ps. theres no problems or anything i just feel like a cunt if im calling her more than she does me (its more her calling so far but last 3 days its been more of me hitting her up.)

you're getting desperate.

watch yourself or soon she will have the upper hand

stop overthinking it and call her when you want to and don't when you don't feel like seeing her...

thats a little hard when you want to see her all the time.

and im not getting over the top with it, its just not normal for me to care about calling someone. its been a while since theres been a girl that is actually worth calling.

fuck man. i am in a similar situation. finally a girl that is cool, and not a stuck up high maintenence bitch. except she doesnt want to be in any relationships right now, for some fucked up reason and im fucking stuck.
Just let her call. Unless you really need to meet/talk with her.

Broads love being called.
Makes them feel wanted.
Especially if you dont call them often. Do it outta the blue, it'll make their day.

sucks bro, seems like youre screwed as ive been in THAT situation before. this one is different because were seeing each other but i just dont want to be excessive with my calling her. i know girls like attention but if i have 5 missed calls from the same person in a day then i want to smack someone. the most i ever called her in a day was 3 times today. and she told me to call her 2 of the times. ah oh well im just gonna call her tomorrow when im gettin off work and if i get no answer ill kick back on it til she calls me.

Depends on the situation. Its better to call her on the one hand showing your interested(and to have her realize that) otherwise she may not know and just let it lie because she does not want to seem like a whore for blowing up your phone. But then yet if your calling too much she'll pick up that your needy/desperate and ditch your ass....so what do you do?

I found out the best thing to do is just to have good conversations on da phone, then cut it short, that way she'll be wanting more and have the need to get in contact with you again.

According to David D'Angelo (I don't know if he's a fake or not, and I'm not supporting or against him), you should wait like 5 days. Don't act needy, don't act like you have to call her.

Call twice. Leave one message. If she does not call you back (and she isn't someone know you very well), delete her number and forget about her.