Alright, I'll keep this short.


Recently, I've met a girl that I really like. She was my friend's ex and he's known I've liked her for a long time now. He fucked her over blah blah, made her get an abortion then dumped her etc etc. Well, I've been having troubles with her. She's like fucking...MUTE. She hardley ever talks. I think it might be because I haven't been coming onto her as strong as most normally would(or as much as I normally would for that matter...). Well, anyway we had one night that was kinda intimate(she took an MS contin I gave her and she for some reason opened up sooo much that night). Well, I think she wants me to do something but she's giving me no sign, no matter how much I dig for a 'sign'. Last night though she got like really upset and was like...do you not like me or something?!? Which is fucking insane, I've told her how much I liked her, how fucking awesome she is etc I ALWAYS tell her that 'I really really like her a lot'. This relationship is starting kind of elementary IMO but I don't want to like do something unwelcome. What should I do?

run the fuck away asap.
I'm dead serious you don't need this shit.

Let's assume I really like this girl, we have lots and lots in common and I feel that I've already helped her so much in her life right now (maybe not but I think I have) and strongly don't want to give up now.

Step 1 : yell "surprise!" as loud as you can...

On a more serious note, it doesn't sound like she's been left in the best emotional state to date anyone.

Yeah but judging her 'what? don't you like me??' last night it's left me feeling that she wants me to do something. >_> IT will be a challenge but I need to make this happen. Challenges never scured me

also, my friend that dumped her told her 'I would treat her well', and she's still been staying at my house a lot and coming over, she leaves her stuff at my house (bowl and weed) so I can get high. She obviously likes me, I just can't get her to give me any signals whatsoever. It's like...almost playing with a dead animal or something .

My suggestion still stands, there are more fish in the sea.

So, am I such a schmuck for only wanting one?? You can't always live your life with the attitude there's always more so just fuck them. I just need some good advice by someone who knows a bit better what they're doing. This is one sticky situation.

It seems like you've already made up your mind and you're not looking for advice, but for someone to validate you going after this girl.

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Well, if you don't care that she might not be in the best state... just yell "surprise" at the top of your lungs one night and...

...seriously. She moved in with you. If living together 'n looking after each other isn't enough, and you're too pussy to introduce her to the surprise buttsekhs at random, have you ever considered... I dunno... growing a pair and talking to her instead of an internet forum?

It just might work. If not, you'll have to go for the surprise-sex as "plan two."

No, she didn't move in at all, I have no fucking clue where you got that. Just because she comes over a lot doesn't mean she is opening up either, she's not. She's fucking mute. And I do try to talk to her ALL THE TIME. She just DOESN'T TALK HARDLEY EVER. I got her to really talk to me one night, that's really it. Then again she wouldn't keep coming over if she didn't like me at least a little in my mind, but she doesn't show it AT ALL. I'm used to a girl at least doing something at least a tiny bit flirtatious but she's giving me nothing. And your advice really sucks ass, I know how to get girls. This one is proving to be a difficult one(for me)right now.