I'm writing this thread to find out your opinion on a situation I'm in.
Well..it goes something like this.
My ex-girlfriend recently told me that she still loves me and always had since SHE BROKE UP WITH ME, and the only reason she broke up with me was because she didn't want me too break up with her and hurt her like so many have before.

she told me this after we had hooked up twice before, after the break up. we had been flirting alot for a few weeks and we normally would sleep with each other, but it never went further then me fingering her, she was pretty happy with just spooning.

now after this I was not very surprised since, like i have mentioned all the flirting and such which had been happening, I questioned her a little bit more and found out some answers to more of my questions i had about her, I asked her why every time we would have a party (weekly) she would hook up with other guys (nothing more then kissing) and she told me it was because she had told my other best mate that she still liked me and he said he would tell me, so she said she hooked up with the other guys so that i wouldn't believe that she still loved me even if he told me.

now...when she told me this, my heart almost burst with joy, because she was my first true love and i still hadn't got over her (it's kind of hard when you see her every single day) but I reminded myself of the heart break she caused me and questioned her motifs as to why she would tell me such a thing, to hurt me more? for her own sick pleasure? such questions were raised in my mind...i asked her if she men't it and she told me yes.

I also have discussed this with my mates (a gay man and her best friend, lol) and they said she might be playing, which made me feel like shit

so here i stand with my heart heavy and my mind filled with questions, i try to not let it get too me, since if i do it would probably destroy me, i don't want to be hurt by her again, and so i ask you Totse, for your unforgiving, truthful and honest opinions on the subject matter.

if you want too know more information, just ask.

if yr having girl problems I feel bad for you son,
I've got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one

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Now, all you have to do is go up to this guy and tell him exactly what you think. She can't just fuck you 'round like that and expect you to take it, so show him you're a real man and fucking do it already you pussy.

Yeah, girls can make you feel like shit sometimes. Deal with it like everyone else.

You don't understand, she isn't with anybody, she just picks up other guys when I'm around, and then she told me this..so i don't know.
also, do what exactly?
P.S yeah I'm shit at there, their etc

Bruv, she sounds like a fucking attention whore. You're better off without that shit in your life. Trust me on that!

You're sleeping with her and fingering her...Are you getting a wank from her?! No. So you're still a mug!

And just so you know, little brother, you're the fall guy...The guy she'll run to when no other guy will put up with her whorish shit and she needs someone to be with if only for a while.

My advice...Tell her to sling her hook. She's a bitch.

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Yeah, i know, i always catch myself when I'm wallowing in self pity and remember that my problem is but a grain of sand in a beach of despair and misery.

I know i need to tell her to go fuck herself, but it's so hard to, i don't want her too hate me because i still love her, and i know she knows this, i know she probably is just using me, but it's too hard to say no.

Instead of telling her to get fucked, just try to move on to another girl and see what happens then.

Yeah, i know and latley me and her best friend have been flirting like bad, and she just got dumped, but it's all a little touchy as i have feelings for both of them, but i know my ex is fucking me around, and if i do anything with her best friend it will probably fuck up my friendship with them all
...and this is why people turn to drugs