Well, I've finally lost my mind. Like seriously lost my mind.

A few of you may remember I broke up with my ex back in like, December. We've kinda stayed friends. Lately we've been fighting a lot. A LOT. All we do is fight.

I realized I still have feelings for him. Lots. Really bad. We hung out tonight, and over drinks he happened to tell me he had met someone, but it was "nothing serious". I pretty much downed the rest of my drink, threw down some cash, said "I'll be outside" and stormed out. He drove me home, in complete silence, and then I got home and just started crying. I then called him and left a long ass message telling him that I still had feelings for him, etc etc etc.

What the fuck? Have I completely lost my mind? This is completely irrational behaviour for me. Usually I'm normal.

And he's not calling me back.

I don't know what to do.

What the fuck do I do?

Well, to be honest, there really is nothing you can do at this point. I'm sure he's been thinking it over, and when/if he's ready to call you, he will. Worst that can happen, he doesn't ever call you and you guys don't see each other, when you do, it's awkward. But then you know he obviously wasn't meant for you. Just give it time...

End your addiction to people and learn to be happy just by choosing to be happy.
I did this and now I'm the most awesome thing that's ever existed.

Oh, right, P.S., you're stupid, but everyone's hopelessly stupid compared to me, so don't worry about it.

Me and This guy ^ have a similar view on life.

Oh Demoiselle,

I understand your situation all too well. I wish I had a better reply. Love is so fucking irrational. Throw in a drink and an answering machine and it's just a recipe for disaster. I can only suggest you try to distract yourself. He will call back eventually...they always do.

-hugs and sanity till then-

K so he called back. And we had a really long conversation. And I'm pretty much just as confused as I was before. Soo yeah. I dunno.

just tell him how you feel. if he dosn't want you, its his loss. not yours. if things dont change very soon, give up trying with him. move on, youll find somebody better.

Yes. Yes it is his loss. I'm bloody splendid. Usually.

This is probably a good time to stop seeing/talking to him. You need to put some distance between the two of you.

You're stupid.


You asked.