So I'm 17 and a senior, who was going to date a 15-year-old sophmore (people have given me shit about it, but everybody who knows us says we're perfect together, and everybody else can suck my balls).

Her parents hate me. They have never met me, but since they have known about me, they have tried to get their daughter to stay away from me and stop talking to me. They don't let her see me. I always thought this kind of sucked, but that they'd loosen up as time went on and met me. Heh, WRONG!

So July 4th, I get a call in the middle of the day from her. I was in no condition to talk to her, let alone her FUCKING FATHER (I was pretty drunk and stoned)... But I picked up the phone anyways because I hadn't talked to her all yesterday. Heres how the conversation went.

Me: Hello?
Her Dad: Hello, is this _(me)__?
Me: Yeah, who is this?
Her Dad: This is ______'s father.
Me: Oh hey, whats up?
Her Dad: You need to stay away from my daughter, you hear me?
Me: ...
Her Dad: I'll find you. I'll find out where you live. I don't want you seeing or talking to her ever again. Or I'll find you. You hear me?
Me: ..Okay..?
Her Dad: No, its not 'okay', its 'YES SIR'.
*click*

She sent me a message a week later, from her friends myspace account, saying that shes sorry that that happened and blah blah blah

Anyways, I don't know what to do. I figured it was over since she hadn't contacted me for like a week, but now she has. Her friend says that her mom is just going through a really tough patch in her life (doesn't mean she has to be a bitch...), and that that gives them no right to threaten me. Well, no shit, but that doesn't mean that they're going to stop?

So what would you do, Totse, in this given situation? Keep talking to her until they get pissed off again and call when I'm sober, so I can actually talk to them and explain to them that I'm not trying to just get into their daughters pants? Or.. would you just break up?

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TL/DR: girls dad threatened me on the phone, would YOU still date her?

Fucking oath I'd still date her.

What's some angry old fuck gonna go? Kick the shit out of you? Well, he's the one who looks VERY stupid in court for beating a 17 year old.

Girls parents are often assholes. Try to be nice. If that doesn't work, just be their worst nightmare. Should be fun anyway, and it's not like this relationship is that important.

It really all depends on how long you have been dating and how strongly you feel about her. If you have been dating a month don't give me "oh she is my world". Let's be honest here.

So if you have been together a while and it is something you would VERY much like to pursue then you have my full support. Just be ready to deal with the consequences. I don't know her dad, but I bet he isn't dumb enough to assault a minor, at least I hope he isn't. I can almost guarantee he won't attack you, but I'm gonna say he is going to give you shit for a while for it. All I have just said is assuming he is a reasonable human being with at least half of a brain.

However if it hasn't been that long, you could take it or leave it, I would leave it. It's really up to you to decide if she is worth it or not.

Good luck, and i can give further advice if you tell me more.

Dude, I live in Austin. Fuck that girl, if the dad beats the shit out of you, you will have gotten some tender virgin pussy and a huge cash settlement in court. What part of austin do you live in?

You can either do this:

Youre still not over the age, so you can pick up a lawsuit against him. Tell them he threatened to kill you blah blah...

This is the best you can do, cause here is nothing to prove to that kind of a jackass, you cant prove him you love her daughter and treat her nice cause he just wont accept it.

Another alternative is:

Get up with the girl. Tell her you two have to act like youve broken up. but this is the plot:

You have told her her dad threatened to kill you and shes not worth the chance so youre off.

Next is, she has to go home very depressed and really pissed off with her dad, and not to speak to him. She has to yell at him -Its all your fault idiot! I hate you!- and not say anything else to him for days.

Some three or four days later, send a flower or some present to her house, telling her youre sorry and that you love her. But make sure her dad sees that (remember, you two are just acting). Then, she has to take the present from her dad and go and lock herself in her room.

By now, you would have messed up her fathers head. He will be tortured by confusion spinning on his head like crazy.

Go on with the acting. She must pretend shes very depressed and she cant talk to her father. If he speaks to her, she has to answer short and angry, and then leave. And she will hardly come out of her room unless it is for a friend (optional).

She can sneak out to see you if she wants, but try not to get caught or the plan wont work.

It should not take more than two weeks and you should never hear from that butt fuck again.

^^^ that seems like a lot of work to deal with a situation thats not even that extreme. i fucking guarantee you the dad is all talk, if he hits you don't hit him back and hell get slapped with assault charges against a minor

I met my woman while she was in high school. I was the cool Jr. college guy and she was the sexy high school girl.

I met her father by having him show up at my front door one morning, after his daughter spent the night. He is about 6'5" Good times.

Oh and by the way, I am still banging his daughter.



P.S.: You will only have to worry once you turn 18. Sounds like her fathers bitch ass will call the cops on you.

Get her pregnant or give her an STD.

lol the cool college guy who dates high schoolers?



anyway op you should stick with the daughter, and fucker her up as much as you can, get her addicted to coke, etc. that'll show the bastard.

Hey homie, it was junior college, get it straight. HAHA

Keep fuckin her, fuck what her dad says, he won't do shit besides maybe make his daughter hate him; you won't even really need to do anything to piss him off. If she wants to keep seeing you she will.

Don't give that shit up, younger the better

Be responsible when dating her obviously, if she gets attached to you and seeing you more regularly then it'll piss her dad off enough anyway and he'll know that you know it's pissing him off, even wind him up; he won't do shit, if he does then what you do from that point on is up to you, personally I'd take the beating and make him look worse, don't snitch though, ever. His daughter will still hate him. He'll fuck it up himself, despite his efforts; teenagers NEVER listen to parents advice or dictatorship when it comes to relationships. The whole point of being a teenager is to rebel.

Go with the flow.

The fake break up would work as well because a friend of mine who has strict religious parents did that when his parents were being bellends, it worked and they left him the fuck alone on the religion bullshit too. IMO though personally there's no need and should be a last resort.

okay now theres only one option left,
get her pregnant

South Austin, by Bowie.

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I'm not going to fake break up with her, thats retarded. I'll just tell her that if shes willing to deal with the bullshit her parents will give me and her, then I'll stay. Like somebody said, if she wants to keep seeing me, she will.

Good call, it'll be worth it. Jailbait is the best ass you'll ever get.

i have a better plan.


get access to his laptop,

put jailbait crap like, CP counterfeit cash blueprints

THEN sue him and win

after court give a cop an annonymous tip that he has illegal stuff in his laptop

???????

PRofit

Girls parents are assholes because of people like those you see all over this forum. If I had a teenage daughter, I wouldnt let her date an older guy either.

Just do what I do when I come across one of those old-school overprotective fathers...

...ask their permission.

No, really, it seems lame, but it's all you have to do, and most of them get to thinking you're the best guy ever. When you meet him, do the handshaking routine (A good, strong handshake.), introduce yourself, yadah yadah. Think up some professional, fancy sounding name for whatever plan for the future you have or had as a kid. (Fuck off on computers all day? No, you're in Tech Support! Game addict?- Programmer! Waiter?-Food Service!) And remember, you don't want to boink her, you want to protect her. Around him, act more like a brother, less like a boyfriend.

Though, if you already got that call, it's probably too late already. Maybe not too late, but you'll have to dig out of a hole.

Works 90% of the time, it's just the matter of getting your foot in the door.

...am I the only one who thinks that getting her father arrested would be bad for their relationship? I mean my father can be an ass sometimes but you get him thrown in jail, theres no way in hell I'm looking at you the same again.

you can always find a hotter girl

Hey, I agreed.

Heh. This reminds me of my father's scare tactic on my sister's dates. He would leave a box of .45 rounds out and he would clean his pistol in front of them. It worked, and I was always amused.

To be on topic, I would probably still date her. Fuck. I got threated with being killed by contacts my ex's mom had in hell's angels and/or the sons of silence if I ever hurt her. Ignore the fact that she's my ex, here. Yeah, because that totally fucking scared me off.
/ sarcasm

Don't let some over-protective bitch/prick keep you from someone.

Honestly, murder her father.

This will impress her and she will be all over your cock. Just like natrual born killers. Maybe thrown in the mother for good messure

I have yet to meet a single girls parents, it's not like you're getting married or something. Why do her parents have to know her business, I guess when she's older she will be able to go out no questions asked.

your age (17) divided by 2 = 8.5. then + 7 as rule of thumb = 15 and a half years old.
is she almost 16?

really though if the dad is pissed off then the relationship wont work unless you talk to him face to face about it. hope youre not just trying to get ass and you really like her.

Date her, spite the dad. Fuck him, he sounds like one of those fundamentalist pedophile toss-pots.

call him back and tell him to stay away from his wife, because you said so.

This would be priceless, but it would just escalate the situation.

My advice:
Continue going out with her. Make sure all of your good friends know that the father is threatening you, and know to tell the police this if anything... unfortunate... occurs. If he continues to threaten you, inform him that others know about the conflict. Assuming he isn't totally brain dead, he'll realize that if he does anything to you, your friends will inform the police of the conflict, and he'll become a prime suspect. This should discourage further intimidation, assault, or worse.

If he does assault you, make sure to get evidence (pics), and note down everything that occurred. I wouldn't advise going to the police immediately unless it's serious or you think he intends to do worse, as this might humiliate the girl ----> you = dumped. Make sure she knows about the incident, and hopefully she'll work it out with her father herself. If it happens again, any girl worth going out with will certainly say that you should go to the police, and do so.

There is a chance he'll try to go for some legal action. I have no clue what to do here, so I'll just say that I hope he doesn't have the time/money to deal with legal action. Anyway, you can always bring up the fact that he threatened you.

That's my two cents, and it's based solely on conjecture so follow at your own risk.

You should probably figure out a way to get her father to like you before you turn 18. Once you do turn 18, I am pretty sure he can take legal action.