I can't figure it out. My girlfriend of one month is already treating me like shit. I know I know it's only one month, but I always know what I am doing and I don't know why it's so hard. I usually have everything figured out, but this I don't. Maybe it's because I haven't got to hang out with just her, but she acts like I am just a friend...all the time. Then she'll see that I'm pissed and try to make things better. It usually works, but tonight I'm just fucken sick of it.

I don't know if I want to break up with her, I don't know what is stopping me, but something is.

I'm not happy, when I tell her this she says you always waste our time together being like this. I tell her that she wasted 3 of my hours just sitting there by myself, then she'll struggle her way to the top of the argument.

Sorry that this is a vent thread, I just need to. I'm fucken sick of this, I'm sick of everything.

The obvious answer is to break up, but does anyone know how to deal with this situation?

I think that I stay because when we are good together, I'm really happy, but I'm starting to see that going through the bad just to find the good is not worth it anymore.

You said yourself the obvious answer is to break up. Stop trying to find some magical way out, there isn't one. Dump the cunt.

Yea, I think tonight is gonna be the night. She still hasn't even talked to me since I left today. I'll just see how she plays it and go from there prepared to end it.

Talk to her about it, tell her what you told us, if she doesn't improve, she doesn't care. Go from there.

That's exactly what I'm going to do. She texted me after I asked if we were talking tonight. So I'll update after the phone call possibly.

You shouldn't stay.


So I didn't.

I called her to talk things out with the back up plan to break up with her if shit flows downhill. She turned the argument into a heated on and

said to her friend

"see this is what I have to put up with on a daily basis"

I said "not anymore, we're done"

Her: *Click*



She's bummin pretty bad (she's with a friend who's dating mine)

Well I guess it's her loss more so than mine. I'm a good guy and actually give two shits instead of just 'scoring'. I treated her like gold, she treated me like shit.

Ya dude, yer kewl and amazing. ily

She just text me saying she loves me, she said she wants me to be happy even if it takes someone else. She's a great person she really is, but I'm not gonna tolerate being treated like shit.

I'm wicked upset right now

Time to smoke a bowl, I'll be alright though.

i'm going to say murder is the only option here.
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Sounds like she was waiting for you to break up with her. It's good that you did now rather than later.