i semi made plans with this girl ive been seeing for tonight after i got home from skating (plans as in her coming over to drink a few fortys then have sex.) anyway our bus system around town stops at 907 on sundays and i was at a skate[ark in the next town over with a few buddies. we were there from around 645 until 9 and it was then that i realized she wouldnt be able to cruise on the bus that late (we live about 5 miles apart so walkings not an option.) so when i realized this i texted her and said i had work off on tuesday and asked if she wanted to just call it off until tomorrow night. her reply was "whatever ill talk to you later."

thing is last night i was supposed to go drink margaritas at her house with all her roommates but since one of her roommates sells mass amounts of weed he didnt want me crashing there (ive only met the dude 2ce for about 5-10 minutes each time so i understood.) so basically i didnt go because id have showed up, drank for MAYBE an hour then left. i felt bad for bailing on her but she was cool with it.

was this a dirtbag move on my part? i like this girl so far and dont want to fuck up this early on.

Ehh, a minor dick move. I would have clarified the reason that you did not go was because the other guy wasn't cool with it. Follow up with suggested plans for what ever day works for you/her so she knows you still have interest. That should suffice.

i did i told her if i was driving id have cruised back earlier. then told her to come and hang at my place tomorrow night.
she doesnt seem like the girl to be bitter over it though so i hope im good.

She's fucking him.

dude... youre an idiot...

dude... you're a genius...

Lulz who knows its not like you're dating her are you? But how you couldn't hang out tonight wasn't really your fault. Last night you should have probably gone over there just to see her for a bit. But I wouldn't fret about it you'll most likely still get in her pants again if she likes you that much.

From now on, if you have to ask, it more than likely is a dick move. Choosing skate time over a great time with her. Think about it.

yeah thats true unfortunately.... i told her as i was telling her to come over tonight that itd be after we went skating after i got out of work but still, id have rather been with her instead :/

im forsure on it because theyve known each other since age 8 and are only friends, and you can tell. also her roommates girlfriend of 2 years and her close friend lives there in his room. so yeah, im sure

Man you've been posting like tons of shit about this girl. I remember that one first thread you had then idk even what else you had but I do remember some shit. You just need to chill man, apologize and I'm sure everything will be fine. Totse doesn't always hold the answer to your questions most the times its just 14 year old dumbfucks pulling advice out of their ass.

haha i know man i know, ive made 3 threads on it, a pre date one, a right after date, then this one.
anyways dude this place is like my home, ive gotten more information out of this site and from the users its the first place i turn to. i love this place man. sometimes you dont want to ask this kind of thing to your friends because theyd only say "who cares lets go skate." and on totse i get good and bad suggestions yet i know which to choose.

I would definitely not like that but it's a typical male thing to do

Bro I like your threads but please punctuate. I know you're excited to get this all in writing with people giving advice, but it still goes miles towards clarifying what you're trying to say and not what we think we've deciphered.

Thanks.

And you'll be fine. Looks like she's interested.

you still got a chance, just don't apologize it makes you look like a pussy. girls don't like pussies. but you should still be golden if she hasn't tried to distance herself from you