So i just recently got out of a relationship of 2 nd a half years, and one of my best friends who i started getting really close says she likes me. Well i like her a lot too, but shes kind of a bitchy person. Everything was going..well great at first, and than it started to get kind of downhill. At this point in time, i think i like her a lot more than she likes me. There is another guy who likes her and she like kind of flirts with him, and says it, and it does get me jealous.


Last night we got into a pretty big fight about the things i said to the girl over myspace, at the time when i said them i was jealous of her and the guy i know. She told me she didn't like him, and that she did like me, and i could tell what happened really upset her, but she also said "the guy i am doesn't attract her" like i'm not manly enoiugh or something. Itd be nice if you guys knew the other guy, hes probably 105lbs and straightens his hair. He also talks to her with a lot of "feeel bettterrr!" and stuff. I try to be nice to her, but shes not nice to me sometimes, but i still like her a LOT.


my question for you is that what is this girl doing? does she like me or not? i told her last night that i wanted to have a retionship (after she asked what she wants from us) and she just kind of sighed, and never answered what she wanted for us. This is the most confused i have been in a LONG time. Right now i know all signs point to no, but that is kind of the person she is also. I can tell she cares, and likes to know when i care, but i don't know if she actually has feelings for me enough to have a relationship. And i stress it, i like her a lot, shes been in all my dreams for this past week. Please help guys, sorry about the length.

edit: sorry about the title, i don't remember typing that..

Why are you stressing over some stupid bitch? She doesn't want a relationship with you. She probably never will. If she did, she wouldn't be flirting with other guys, she would be hanging out with you. You probably sound like a pussy asking what 'you want from her' (no offense). Think about it from her shoes. She doesn't like you but you always burden her with this crap, she is a bitch and she doesn't really care. Just let it go. Let her talk to you. If your friendship mean anything, she will come back. If she doesn't then there was never any sense of friendship. Friends don't treat friends like shit.

Is she amazingly gorgeous or something because she sounds like a stupid cunt. Even if she did end up wanting a relationship with you, which isn't likely, my advice would be to run screaming in the other direction.

It's over.

End it on your terms.

You sound young, and this girl sounds like a typical teenage girl. Smart girls will grow up and become dominant with out being manipulative and bitchy, but girls like this will continue what they do when they grow up. Use this girl as practice, practice at putting cunt rags in their place.

Tell her it's over. That being with her has made you realize how much she disgusts you, and how immature she is, and that you'd prefer some one a little older. Then slap that bitch in the jaw with your pimping hand.

Sadly, you wont do any of that, because you like her .

When girls start to get bitchy I just blow them off. Just instantly end contact with them. I do it all of the time.

Yeah it's hard. But trust me it'll be worth it. You'll get over it.

Best post yet.

repeat these words to her with appropriate actions "Lord please pray for the soul of this bitch and guide my pimpin hand and make it strong, lord, that she may learn a hoe's place, amen"

She's using you for attention.

Thanks a lot guys, i think im just gunna calm it down and stuff, and the only reason i asked what she wanted from us was because she asked that too. I guess it was sorta pussy.
I forgot to mention she IS a year younger than me..We did end up hanging out, but she was the one who asked for a hug, and shes the one who asks for me to call, so I'll let her do all the work. Thanks guys, if she doesn't want me than fuck it.