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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2008-07-12, 16:30
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Arrow Trying to figure out my girl's motives

She doesn't usually show affection unless something is wrong and she doesn't want me to be pissed anymore. We'll have times where I feel like I'm on top of the world, but for the most part the relationship is like a married couple.

I told her that's how I felt yesterday, she thought it was a good thing we are like a married couple. I disagreed and she blew it out of proportion saying that I wanna be all over her in public. She wasn't even walking with me in the mall when I went with her and a couple friends yesterday...

Anyways, she's talking about how she wants to spend the rest of her life with me and stuff like that...

Being that we have only been dating 1 month I think that's weird she's so committed, but she treats me like shit for the most part.

ALSO: I'm gonna be going into my senior year this year, which means I can get a lot of pussy during that year. If I stay with this girl for my senior year that will eliminate the purpose of being a senior, seeing as how she goes to a different school and all.

What would you do in a situation like this? As in you are with someone who has potential to make you really happy, but only uses it when needed. Would you stay with them or fuck some high school sluts while you got the chance?
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Old 2008-07-12, 16:42
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Break up with her. You sound dissatisfied with the relationship and you obviously don't like her very much if you're contemplating breaking up with her to get laid in your senior year (not that there's anything wrong with that, but it is a good indicator that she doesn't mean much to you).

Get out now.
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Old 2008-07-12, 16:59
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Get out now.
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Old 2008-07-12, 17:41
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So she wants to spend the rest of her life with you after 1 month?

lol, dude just break up with her and get some senior poon.
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Old 2008-07-12, 17:44
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You're looking for different things in a relationship. Break it up.
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Old 2008-07-12, 17:45
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fuck some high school sluts while you got the chance?
i don't really see your problem
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Old 2008-07-12, 22:15
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Arrow Re: Trying to figure out my girl's motives

Idk, yesterday was better, she was only a bitch for the first half of the day. She finally acted like my girlfriend, wanted to fuck me on the trampoline. When she's like that I'm happy as can be, but unfortunately that side of her is recessive.
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Old 2008-07-13, 00:18
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OP is a moron.
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Old 2008-07-13, 01:23
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Default Re: Trying to figure out my girl's motives

At the end of the day, she screws you around, and she probably has some issues if she wants to be with you for the rest of your life after a month, and you're not feeling it at all.

You don't seem to have that strong commited love that you'd need to survive something long distance. I mean, you're already thinking about the other women you could have.

Bite the bullet and end it, I say.
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Old 2008-07-13, 02:43
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fuck her one more time and right after break up with her. So you can maximize the ammount of poon u get.
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Old 2008-07-13, 03:01
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Your girlfriend sounds an awful lot like my ex-girlfriend. Seriously, it's a little freaky. Emphasis on the EX-girlfriend.
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Old 2008-07-13, 03:12
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I'd probably say "Dump her and fucking run", but I've been, and am, in your shoes. It's hard to fuck some one off when they're the nicest person in the world...some of the time. But the rest, just a bitch.

That's when you need to ask your self: Is being blissfully happy for 50% of the time, and down and depressed the other 50% worth it? Or are you capable of happiness on your own (not blissfully happy, but happy enough), like me?

If so, do what I did, break it off. The relationship will take a toll on you, and jade you when it comes to future women.
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Old 2008-07-13, 03:31
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I'm gonna be going into my senior year this year, which means I can get a lot of pussy during that year.
No you can't. Stick with her, it's your only chance of being with a girl.
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Old 2008-07-13, 03:40
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take her and fuck her one last time. right when you are finished make her leave your house and laugh at her and ask her what it feels like to be a dirty slut.. and dont give her a ride home.
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Old 2008-07-13, 12:49
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Fuck having someone controlling you like that. And long distance, too. Break it off and find either a better partner or some easy pussy. Those love/hate mind games don't go away. They get worse. 1 month is entirely too short to consider anything far in the future between you two anyways.
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Old 2008-07-13, 23:36
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ignor her when shes a bitch and talk to other people when shes around, not to make her jealous but to make her think u can get on with other peopl and u dnt need her so much, just act like ur book or the tv show is taking up all your attention if shes bein a bitch. but when shes nice giv her the attention she deserves. girls are called dogs because they are bitches (intended) so train her like one. i did that to my gf now she sleeps in the dog house out back and eats her own shit off of my big toe
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Old 2008-07-15, 01:51
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Arrow Re: Trying to figure out my girl's motives

Ugh, today we went to her friend's house with my friend. We went to a hangout in the woods and she acted like I wasn't even there.

Later on we went somewhere else and when I was about to leave she complained that I don't act like a boyfriend. I said how ironic.

Then I left.

Fuck this.
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Old 2008-07-15, 02:57
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Ugh, today we went to her friend's house with my friend. We went to a hangout in the woods and she acted like I wasn't even there.

Later on we went somewhere else and when I was about to leave she complained that I don't act like a boyfriend. I said how ironic.

Then I left.

Fuck this.
Yep, sounds like it's time to get out before you go crazy.
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Old 2008-07-15, 03:08
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Arrow Re: Trying to figure out my girl's motives

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Yep, sounds like it's time to get out before you go crazy.
I just broke up with her.

I'm fine

she's not

She took me for granted and just realized it, I have my inside sources.
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Old 2008-07-15, 03:34
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I just broke up with her.

I'm fine

she's not

She took me for granted and just realized it, I have my inside sources.
have fun thinking about her even more now.. you will. you'll get back together soon.
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Old 2008-07-15, 04:39
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I just broke up with her.

I'm fine

she's not

She took me for granted and just realized it, I have my inside sources.
Erase her from your life immediately. Erase her #, her facebook/myspace and whatever else you could use to contact her. Put all the shit that reminds you of her in a box. Duct tape it shut and hide it somewhere you can't easily get to it. Do this immediately. Then, let the forgetting begin.
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Old 2008-07-16, 00:18
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Arrow Re: Trying to figure out my girl's motives

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Erase her from your life immediately. Erase her #, her facebook/myspace and whatever else you could use to contact her. Put all the shit that reminds you of her in a box. Duct tape it shut and hide it somewhere you can't easily get to it. Do this immediately. Then, let the forgetting begin.
Lol, I only dated her for a month, tis not that big of a deal.
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Old 2008-07-16, 00:50
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Lol, I only dated her for a month, tis not that big of a deal.
Sounded like it was a big deal. Nevermind then!
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Old 2008-07-16, 01:30
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Idk, yesterday was better, she was only a bitch for the first half of the day. She finally acted like my girlfriend, wanted to fuck me on the trampoline. When she's like that I'm happy as can be, but unfortunately that side of her is recessive.
In my experience I've found the trampoline to be just a bit too bouncy to fuck on.
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Old 2008-07-17, 12:09
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Good on you. This is the first post I've seen that doesn't start with" I'm pussywhiped as fuck and she left me and I'm going to suicide everyone hates me". I hope you can be an example to those poor unfortunates.
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Old 2008-07-17, 16:55
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I do my best
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