totse.com | If I stop fapping, will my sex drive go up?

PointlessForest · #1 2008-07-12, 15:00

Okay, so I need some more motivation to talk to a bunch of girls. I fap normally twice a day, maybe more. Do you think this is hindering my chances?

Let me put it this way. Has anyone noticed a significant and observable increase in sex drive upon taking a break from fapping?

HTTP · #2 2008-07-12, 15:42

yes, very much so

Minority Deport · #3 2008-07-12, 15:46

Yeah, stop fappage and then tell yourself the next time you blow it will be in some girl.

Flannery · #4 2008-07-12, 16:13

you should start doing cocaine. it will increase your sex drive and give you more energy.

ruckus · #5 2008-07-12, 18:06

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Originally Posted by Minority Deport View Post

Yeah, stop fappage and then tell yourself the next time you blow it will be in some girl.

this, and take a shot or two of vodka or whatever the fuck you prefer to get you woozy and go handle some bitches.

AMORTEM · #6 2008-07-12, 18:09

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you should start doing cocaine. it will increase your sex drive and give you more energy.

I can never get a fucking boner on coke. Or it's hard, I usually have to be extremely turned on to get a boner on coke.

GnosisX · #7 2008-07-12, 18:15

Yes, it will help. However it may make you cum much faster once you actually get to the sexing.

lilGh0st · #8 2008-07-12, 19:12

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Yes, it will help. However it may make you cum much faster once you actually get to the sexing.

^What he said. i remember i stopped fapping for 3 days, just because my gf promised me handjob. i came in 2 minutes. (btw, it was a horrible handjob)

GnosisX · #9 2008-07-12, 19:16

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^What he said. i remember i stopped fapping for 3 days, just because my gf promised me handjob. i came in 2 minutes. (btw, it was a horrible handjob)

Ethereal things, like ghosts cannot be touched, that would explain why it was so bad.

southernsun · #10 2008-07-12, 19:16

Most definitely, i'm climbing the walls for pussy if i don't 'fap' for a day.

Cocaine, or any sort of drug, and my sex drive disapears, no matter what situation, been fucked on coke a few times and pulled some slut, brought her back to mine and because of the coke my mind just isn't on sex and no matter what i do i can't get a bone on what so ever, all i wanna do is get more fucked up.

ibetyouvotenexttimehippy · #11 2008-07-12, 19:20

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you should start doing cocaine. it will increase your sex drive and give you more energy.

I would listen to this guy if I were you.

- ♫.i.b.y.v.n.t.h.♫

Agent 008 · #12 2008-07-12, 20:55

It will. Your sex drive goes up, your standards go down, you pop boners for anything that is just slightly sexual, and you start noticing girls checking you out more. It's awesome, but difficult to maintain if you get any time on your own, esp. if you spend some time on your computer.

ff420 · #13 2008-07-12, 23:35

Definitely, but you'll bust in no time too. Quite the paradox..

Nightside Eclipse · #14 2008-07-13, 00:05

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It will. Your sex drive goes up, your standards go down, you pop boners for anything that is just slightly sexual, and you start noticing girls checking you out more. It's awesome, but difficult to maintain if you get any time on your own, esp. if you spend some time on your computer.

^This

You will notice things that are just "decent to okay" become more attractive in some cases.

rabbitweed · #15 2008-07-13, 01:30

I've tried this a couple of times. never got past 10 days. The kicker is I can't sleep, I just lay awake at night tossing and turning with a raging boner.

Transparent · #16 2008-07-13, 01:54

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I've tried this a couple of times. never got past 10 days. The kicker is I can't sleep, I just lay awake at night tossing and turning with a raging boner.

Apparently blowing your nose makes erections go away. I believe I read that somewhere.

Enco · #17 2008-07-13, 03:11

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Apparently blowing a load makes erections go away. I believe I read that somewhere.

Fixed. But yes, don't entirely stop fapping or you risk finishing earlier than you would hope during sex.

Transparent · #18 2008-07-13, 05:56

It's really annoying when people pretend to fix the errors you didn't make.

Asmodeuss · #19 2008-07-13, 06:16

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It's sexy when people pretend to fix the errors you didn't make.

fixed.

crazy hazy vermonter · #20 2008-07-13, 07:53

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fixed.

well played

Suecra · #21 2008-07-13, 11:20

I try but if I don't shoot at least once a day I'll feel like driving my dick through a wall.

Agent 008 · #22 2008-07-13, 12:11

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I've tried this a couple of times. never got past 10 days. The kicker is I can't sleep, I just lay awake at night tossing and turning with a raging boner.

Yeah, had this as well at some point. The trick is to get more tired during the day and to avoid any sexual thoughts before sleep.

r_connolly_06 · #23 2008-07-13, 20:37

I'm not sure, but I remember I was sort of pseudo-depressed for a while and I hadn't fapped for like two weeks, no nocturnal emissions either, lol. During this period of time though, I was really good at flirting and talking with girls, just because it didn't really make a difference to me. And I'm not sure why, but it just generally seemed like girls were more interested in me as well. But it is also a lot easier to seduce a girl that you don't have any feeling for too, so i don't really know.

PointlessForest · #24 2008-07-16, 05:50

Okay, then today is day 1 of no fapping. I'm not going to have an orgasm until a lady makes me have one as a result of direct contact between our bodies. I'm really addicted, so it's going to be tough. Any tips?

HeWhoNeverSleeps1 · #25 2008-07-16, 19:53

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Okay, then today is day 1 of no fapping. I'm not going to have an orgasm until a lady makes me have one as a result of direct contact between our bodies. I'm really addicted, so it's going to be tough. Any tips?

Wrap your hands in some 50 grit sandpaper as well as line your drawers with them. Ya know, in case you feel the need to dry hump..

slim-ov-derby · #26 2008-07-16, 20:48

Cocaine is great ot fuck on for me, I ain't for everyone though.

Alcohol is my ultimate sex drive drug though.

Eh I wank probably 4 times a week, I don't really try to limit it, if I wank I wank I don't go out my way to stop or do it. My sex drive is fine.

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Originally Posted by PointlessForest View Post

Okay, then today is day 1 of no fapping. I'm not going to have an orgasm until a lady makes me have one as a result of direct contact between our bodies. I'm really addicted, so it's going to be tough. Any tips?

There's a textfile in the erotica section for some tips on avoiding masturbation.

Ozusko-Karlovacko-Lasko · #27 2008-07-17, 02:02

I've noticed this thread has turned into a thread about coke :P

I have a larger libido than most people, so my advice may not be as valid.
I find that as long as i keep jerking off to two or less times a day, i never have problems with girls; and crankin' it DOES keep ya from blowin' it too early with em

EDIT: Only half-answered the thread question lol. It may increase your sex drive when you stop fapping and make you want to fuck more, but I find it way harder to concentrate when talking to a girl and not being able to stop staring at their shit. But that's just me.

unfrgvncure · #28 2008-07-17, 03:13

ye, I didnt fap for a week and I was going crazy.

RogueEagle91 · #29 2008-07-17, 04:37

Depends of the situation. In general, yes, I want to get laid more if I haven't jerked it in a while. However, if I haven't gotten laid in a while, and I've been masturbating more to compensate, I want sex even more than if I simply stop. It doesn't feel good enough, and whatnot.

PointlessForest · #30 2008-07-17, 13:43

man, it's day 3 and I'm aching to bust. the thing is it's been so long since I had sex that i've associated the sexual release with beatin it and not with the process that begins with talking to girls. Also doesn't help that I've been doing things with my family. Way harder to talk to girls when you're with your parents than your friends. to the bar tonight it is, I suppose.

2007/08 is really GAY · #31 2008-07-17, 15:16

I fap 1-2x a day and my sex drive feels low. i feel less horny.

So stop fapping does help sex drive go up imo.