so I want to try some stuff like anal, tieing each other up, cumming on her face and so on. For the guys that have been there before did u have to suggest it or was it just sort of a mutual thing that was built up to as your sex life progressed? Did u have to encourage it basically or was it something that she was up for? I don't want to just go in there like "hey this time how about u let me cum all over you" it wont go down too well.

Well, my girl actually initiated anal the first time by misplacing my dick into her ass.
so dont be a bitch and just come on her face. even girls initiate kinky sex.

The first time I had sex, she asked me if I wanted to cum on her face. I said, "Well, if that's what you want, OK". Instead of her face, it went all over the room. Yeah...but she was into it BTW, I'll never do anal. Ever. Tie up, bondage stuff, yeah that's cool, but never anything near the ass.

I like blood, biting, nails, knives... anything like that.

I'm fortunate in that i can still enjoy sex without it though. The approach i take towards it is some girls you just get that VIBE from, that they're up for new things. Work it up slowly and watch them carefully for signs of apprehension. If they start to get spooked then back off.

get her on the bed, get on top of her tell her you have a surprise for her, and blindfold her, then fuck her.
Next time, have her tie you up using silk ropes/handcuffs, or you tie her up, slowly work your way up.
Just cum on her face.

Guess where the vagingo is?
If they start to scream for help, it's too late.

I was going to fucking post this.

Sometimes she initiates it, sometimes I initiate it. Sometimes the creepy homeless fuck outside the window initiates it. We all have a good time.

Exactly, you can sort of pick up the vibe, and or beat it out of them by "leading up" to the point.

I went through alot of fantasy talk with my last partner. I told her what I'd like to try out, which actually included tying each other to a bed while the other does as they please. After enough of that it was fairly easy to say "hey, can we try this?" Never tried any sort of anal pleasuring, though I wouldn't have minded it.

Make sexual experimentation an open subject.