Hello all.

I'm what I consider a late bloomer. I am now in my early twenties but didn't start going for girls until I was 19. I don't know why I put it off but I did and that's the short of it. It took me a little under a year to find someone so I was close to 20 at that stage. It ended in disaster as most first time relationships tend to do.

Anyhow what I'm trying to say is that I'm still pretty inexperienced when it comes to sealing the deal with girls. That sounds worse then how I mean it. What I mean is I can hold conversations with girls, have no trouble meeting new girls and so on it's just that next step to going together with one another.

I've found at my age it either happens or it isn't meant to be sort of thing. What I'm after is increasing my chances.

So does anyone have any suggestions for me? There are certain girls I like and others I'm not interested in, just like everyone else. I wouldn't say I'm desperate it's just that the last two girls I was after didn't work out for me and I'm interested in having a relationship.

I am a nice guy and I know the old saying of nice guys coming last, I can't change and if you think I can well consider that I don't want to change who I am.

Thanks.

Start lifting weights, jogging, etc.

be an asshole, act like you dont care
they will come to you

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Don't shower or shave. Wear dirty clothes and don't wear deodorant. Make them come to your trap of manliness.

Don't be a weak bitch. That's what most "nice guys" really are.

Also, don't focus on getting into a relationship. Meet women, have a good time with them, and if it's going to happen with a girl (a relationship, that is), it's just going to happen.

This ^

I did this, and usually have lots of energy and it attracts them.
There are tons of factors on top of that as well-- like your social abilities and stuff...

Be a nice guy, but dont be a bitch. Be confident, but dont be a dick. Be your self and just have fun, shit will work out for you.

What do you mean exactly by weak bitch exactly? Maybe I'm not a stereotypical 'nice' guy but rather just a regular guy. I'm a smartass, I don't back down from confrontation, I stand up for myself, my friends and my beliefs., I go out on weekends and have fun and get along with almost everyone. I dress well, play sports, go to school (college), party, drink, experiment with drugs and chill out.

The girls I do genuinely ignore or whatever don't come running so being a cunt to them in attempts to win them over I don't think would work...but I could be wrong.

If that's nice what exactly do I change?

I believe what riot meant by weak bitch is dont kiss their ass all the time hoping that it will make them like you. You dont have to bend over backwards to please a girl, just respect women and you will be fine. You sound like a normal guy, you just need time to play the field and find a style that works well for you with women.