Argh. Its fucking hell. All of a sudden you give someone total tyranny over your heart, the power to make you incredibly happy or incredibly depressed at their whims. This constant suffocating feeling, butterflies in your stomach and a heart beating fast all the time like you're fucking popping pills. It fucking turns you inside out and your life upside down. Ugh! Its not right. Happiness should come from within a person and I think "love" is profoundly evil because it destroys a man inside. After this girl, I am never ever ever getting involved with women again. Im sick and tired of this shit. Id rather masterbate for the rest of my life then be "in love" again. And all you fags out there that like being in love, you're a bunch of pussies that cant cut it in business or sports or other manly fields, so you settle for a fake artificial source of happiness- the "love" DRUG. And its a load of bullshit because its not going to last. So quit while you're ahead

maybe your just not man enough to handle it? grow up life sucks some times get over it

On the contrary, im man enough to recognize a flaw in human behavior and eliminate that weakness from myself. And life doesnt suck.. but being in love definately sucks.

I'm in love too. I donno what the average person means by being in love, but I love this girl to the point that I would give my life for her without a second's thought. And I can't have her. Now that sucks. It's a long story, we had been friends forever blah blah blah, the second I completely fall for her she gets knocked up by some fucking FAG. So, it could be worse, good sir.

+motherfucking1

I definitely understand where you're coming from. But this is not the answer to the problem.

Trust me, I've been crying for 3 days now over a girl. Although... I'll be able to fix our relationship in due time.

The waiting is destroying me internally. I had relapsed back into pills and pot just to get some sleep at night.

well im glad to say im not at ur point in life....i fuckin had a rough time for a while..haha fuck bitches....but at the same time im ready for a new one that is as exotic and adventurous as i am lol..

I think it's just scaring you a bit that you feel something so strong about someone and it's having all these effects on you. It's okay to be scared slightly, but enjoy the exhilaration of it all - it is the BEST feeling ever. This is usually the point where suggestible people start believing in God and things - it's powerful stuff, love. <3

Im in love and i'm happy at the moment.

Rawrrrr

This actually goes in Bitch & Moan, because that is all I'm hearing someone being a bitch, and moaning about it. But, you know what that is just you, If you can't take it you have to get out before you kill yourself, which probably is the better option. You want to become a hermet go ahead, If you are looking for justification for this move there you have it. I just feel sorry for that poor girl out there that isn't going to have someone love her, because you are too much of a pussy to love. As a matter afact go ahead and become a hermet, It will even the playing field for me.

You're not in love, you're on your period.

If you want to be happy and to be hurt in the future fucking fall in love but if you don't want your feelings to be hurt don't fall in love but you will not be happy.
Someone told me this and I just want to post it here so bye.

Oh, What is this feeling called love?
Why me, why you, why here?
And why now?
It doesn't make no sense, no
It's not convenient, no
It doesn't fit my plans
But I got that taste in my mouth again
F.E.E.L.I.N.G. C.A. double L.E.D. L.O.V.E.
What is this thing that is happening to me?
F.E.E.L.I.N.G. C.A.double L.E.D. L.O.V.E.
What is this thing that is happening to me?
Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah

fag45

I have been in love, twice, for short periods, long ago.

I don't know if the amazing feelings I felt compensate for all the epic drama and bullshit and hurt and wasted time and effort both relationships caused me.

Sometimes I long for all that relationship shit, those moments, that caring, that exhilaration, that feeling of being wanted and accepted and cherished...

...but then i remember the reality of it, the mind games, the jealousy, the insecurity, the breakups, the bullshit, the consumingness of it all.

I dunno. It definitely is a drug. And like most drugs I take, I avoid it for a while because the hangover doesn't seem worth it.

Fuck , your such a faggot.

Ahahahahahah! Well played, good sir.

What the hell? Is thread full of 15 year olds? After awhile, you guys will realize there is no such thing as love. Sure you can care for a person more than others. But thats just because that person gives you stuff that you can't just pick up off the street. Well... maybe if you got a $100 and the person you are picking it up from doesn't have a walkie talkie.

I used to feel all weird about relationships like this when I was a teenager. After awhile, you just stop caring. As a teenager you are afraid you might lose your significant other and be hurt really bad. As an adult, you could care less if your significant other finds another. Shit, you were checking out their friend a few weeks ago and you may have picked up some signals from said friend. As a married adult, I'd imagine, you kind of care if your spouse leaves you just because the whole marriage title or because of kids. Shit some married couples want to fuck people outside of the relationship in front of each other. They go around telling strangers about their sex life.

Seriously, all that shit you are feeling will die a little at a time year after year.

I heard on a radio show that love doesn't exist. It's actually an addiction towards something/someone.

In that case, you are just playing with semantics, evading the truth, and need to get real.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nzE6yhrLfwk

If you don't like being in love then you're not doing it right.

Manly things? Like what?

Well let me put it to you this way...

I play sports. I enjoy playing football (soccer to you retards), rugby, wrestling and martial arts.
I haven't lost a fight in 10 years. Not to say I fight regularly but I know how to kick shit out of people and kill them if necessary. Disposal sucks though.

And I'll tell you now: I love my wife completely and I don't have to put up with the shit you're telling me about.

Here's a tip for you...Find a girl who's not a bitch who plays with your emotions.

^^you have a wife?!

and you didn't even give us a thread