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fat_people_suck · #1 2008-06-26, 00:22

about an ex girlfriend, I'm married now and my is great, but I just feel like there is unfinished business with this ex we dated for 5 years, and we probably would have been married but I fucked it up...thats a different story though.

anywho a couple months ago my ex called my mom crying telling her that she always thought and wanted us to get married and live happily ever after yada yada yada

now I feel like I want to call her even though I know its a dumb fuck idea, but I can't get the thought out of my head...

what can I do to stop thinking about it, before it gets out of hand

Infamous Bomb Shell · #2 2008-06-26, 00:23

Don't call her.

If you do, it'll set off that oh so familiar chain of events that will lead you to cheating on your wife. A big no no.

fat_people_suck · #3 2008-06-26, 00:31

I'm not worried about cheating on my wife, and I know its wrong to call her, but the problem is getting the idea of calling her out of my head

Hawk705 · #4 2008-06-26, 00:33

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I'm not worried about cheating on my wife, and I know its wrong to call her, but the problem is getting the idea of calling her out of my head

My only suggestion is that you start drinking heavily.

Thought Riot · #5 2008-06-26, 00:33

I don't see anything wrong with calling up a long-term ex (5 fucking years) and tying up the loose ends.

That is, as long as it is not romantic or sexual in any way.

negz · #6 2008-06-26, 00:42

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I don't see anything wrong with calling up a long-term ex (5 fucking years) and tying up the loose ends.

That is, as long as it is not romantic in any way.

This. And remember, sex doesn't have to be romantic.

shill · #7 2008-06-26, 00:45

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what can I do to stop thinking about it, before it gets out of hand

drill in brain

crazy hazy vermonter · #8 2008-06-26, 01:22

Unfortunately, a chain of events has been set off that you can no longer control. You WILL feel a nagging urge to call her for months and even years, eventually driving you insane, to the drink, or deeply unsatisfied with your marriage.

The only real solution to be fair to yourself and your wife is to off your ex. She needs to go. I suggest driving the body in separate parts to different states and burying each part in four corners of the world. That way you'll never face even the temptation to go exhume her dead body, which trust me, will be an inevitable temptation as well.

Good luck mate.

fat_people_suck · #9 2008-06-26, 03:21

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Originally Posted by crazy hazy vermonter View Post

Unfortunately, a chain of events has been set off that you can no longer control. You WILL feel a nagging urge to call her for months and even years, eventually driving you insane, to the drink, or deeply unsatisfied with your marriage.

The only real solution to be fair to yourself and your wife is to off your ex. She needs to go. I suggest driving the body in separate parts to different states and burying each part in four corners of the world. That way you'll never face even the temptation to go exhume her dead body, which trust me, will be an inevitable temptation as well.

Good luck mate.

I just might do this...

not really

WritingANovel · #10 2008-06-27, 15:06

Just call her, if you really want to. If this should lead to a series of events that might cause your current marriage, so what? Maybe you are meant to be with your ex, not your current wife.

Divorces are not that big a deal.