Hey Totse,

I've been dating this girl for about six months. Cool kid, cute, hella creative. I was her first and I guess she'd liked me for quite a bit of time before I started with her.

Anyways, problemm is, I found out from a friend that she thinks she's in love with me. This is one of the longer relationships I've been in but I don't really see myself loving this girl, not to mention I'm recently graduated and leaving in the fall.

Thoughts? She's not the most stable girl, she spends time with me to the extent of alienating her friends and relies on me quite a bit. Would it be easier for her for me to break up with her now before she gets even more invested or should I wait till the fall?

I just don't want to break her.

-F☺rd

these situations can be difficult....

first and foremost: get the poon a few more times



then start pushing her away slowly.. and eventually tell her how you feel.

it'll be better now... just as soon you get the poon one last time.

I'm not too worried about the sex. It's the other bits that confuse me.

-F☺rd

Dude, a person who really loves you and is into you is a hard thing to find.Consider that. But if you don't want to be with her, you should probably do it sooner, because it'll just get harder and harder.

Oh, and pics always help us advise you. Of her.

This.

If you really don't love this girl, break up with her. This saves you time and her further heartache.

Also this girl sounds like she is emotionally dependent on you. I don't think it's a healthy thing. You might want to advise her to go see a shrink or something (assuming that you care about her well being).

Just got out of something like this.

Dodge that shit while you still can. I didn't want to break the girl either, definitely didn't work out. Sooner rather than later is your best option, trust me.

t3h blowjobs?

If you really don't see yourself getting attached to her then spare her the heartache and end it now and give her the summer to get over it. Please don't lead her on; it will only make it worse.

Tell her anal or gtfo and if she does anal, stay with her.

If you don't like her then get yourself out of the hole before you dig yourself deeper.



No one likes to be lead on.