Before you read this about me:

Im.....
19
Jack off every other day (basically since I was 15 or 16)
have had sex 250 + times with my g/f (Weve been together 19 months)

Ok I have a major problem (Or atleast to me it is) I get hard just thinking about sex or even just kissing my g/f. Its pretty embarrasing when I just go into to get a kiss and I get a chubby. However that part doesnt really bother me that much. What bothers me is that I have tried everything to last longer and I cant do it. Ive tried the numbing condoms and it makes me go limp. Ive tried watching t.v. or thinking about something else. Ive done kegals. I dont know what else to do I think Im losing her to a loss of sexual attraction to me. I dont want to not be able to last long enough to satisfy her. Is there anything else i can try? Please be serious with me its a very sensitive subject that i have a hard time with.

Thanks

Before you read this about me:

Please be serious with me its a very sensitive subject that i have a hard time with.

Thanks

lawl me 2 is sensitive when hard

I'm the say way, the slightest thing will get my shit hard, I differ however in the fact that it takes me too fuckin long to cum

I wish had could last longer :( I dont know what else to do.

eat her out acolyte.

for me lidocaine works pretty well. uncut?

Same problem...She won't let me eat her out tho..

:(

eat her out. Go for multiple orgasms man (I mean you getting double dips)

Do it anyway. She probably is insecure about her body. I know this hot girl who wouldn't let guys go down on her. One finally just did it and she freaked out about how awesome it was. Same thing happens for some girls with anal.

Most guys really don't last all that long. I forget where I heard/read it, but some study showed that on average, good sex lasts 7 minutes. The ideal of lasting for hours just isn't how it works in practice.

Start running and doing other cardio. It'll help you have more energy. Also, just talk with her about it, but not in a pussified way. You need to have more sex with her so you can learn how to last longer. It really takes practice. It took me a few weeks to really be able to last at all when I first started having sex. It felt sooo good that I just came within like 2 minutes. After practicing I learned how to control myself and last longer.

One tip I'll give you: learn to control your breathing when you're having sex. Breathing harder and faster is one of the things that happens before you ejaculate. If you slow your breathing and take deeper breaths, it'll really help you last longer. I do this and I can go for ages. If i don't control my breathing, i find that i'm able to cum a lot faster.

Anyway, just stop worrying so much. If you're nervous you'll never be able to last.

edit: just saw the 250+ times thing you posted. Nevermind my bit about practice. Do more exercise, jack off every day, and work on the breathing like I told you.

havent tried lidocaine but i am guessing its the same thing thats in the climax control condoms? I am cut.

Do it anyway. She probably is insecure about her body. I know this hot girl who wouldn't let guys go down on her. One finally just did it and she freaked out about how awesome it was. Same thing happens for some girls with anal.

Most guys really don't last all that long. I forget where I heard/read it, but some study showed that on average, good sex lasts 7 minutes. The ideal of lasting for hours just isn't how it works in practice.

Start running and doing other cardio. It'll help you have more energy. Also, just talk with her about it, but not in a pussified way. You need to have more sex with her so you can learn how to last longer. It really takes practice. It took me a few weeks to really be able to last at all when I first started having sex. It felt sooo good that I just came within like 2 minutes. After practicing I learned how to control myself and last longer.

One tip I'll give you: learn to control your breathing when you're having sex. Breathing harder and faster is one of the things that happens before you ejaculate. If you slow your breathing and take deeper breaths, it'll really help you last longer. I do this and I can go for ages. If i don't control my breathing, i find that i'm able to cum a lot faster.

Anyway, just stop worrying so much. If you're nervous you'll never be able to last.

edit: just saw the 250+ times thing you posted. Nevermind my bit about practice. Do more exercise, jack off every day, and work on the breathing like I told you.

Thanks man Ill try the breathing. I just started working out again so hopefully it gets better.

havent tried lidocaine but i am guessing its the same thing thats in the climax control condoms? I am cut.

No, lidocaine kills some of the sensation in your cock. And apparantly it actually works.

personally, i can give it a decent amount of time before finishing, but when i was a virgin~ish i had a bit of trouble with that also.
what worked for me, was drinking.
alcohol seems to make me last for-fucking-ever.
i dont know if its something for everyone, but it works for me.

its a very sensitive subject that i have a hard time with.

this subject isn't the only thing that's very sensitive and hard

Ive done kegals its a very sensitive subject that i have a hard time with.

Thanks

AHAHAHAHAHAHA

Ecstasy.

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