I've been in the longest relationship of my life, and am having a problem coming too quick. I am VERY sexually attracted to this girl and quite comfortable. I've never encountered this problem before. Unless I'm drunk or on Opiates it happens. I try to stop and pull out for a second, but this only lasts for so long. I try not to think about coming but it's very fucking hard. I've tried a very tight cock ring and have had very minimal success with it. Beating off beforehand doesn't work, and only on about the third session can I last as long as I'd like it too. Please, any help.

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Hey, I was just about to make this thread from the female perspective. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two and half years, and we've been having sex VERY sporadically for two years. In the last two months we've been able to have more regular sex and he's not lasted over 5 minutes in ages. I wanted to know if there was anything I could do to help make the experience last longer.

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You could use a numbing cream. I think their rubbed on the balls don't really know though.

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I try not to think about coming but it's very fucking hard.

Well of course. Let's say I ask you not to think of pink elephants. Did you picture any? Of course you did. Trying not to think of something will only make it worse. Instead, try to think of something else (e.g. baseball), or focus on your breathing and try to slow it down (don't try too hard though; just allow yourself to breathe slower).

Close your eyes and think of your mum.

Although you might come quicker when you do that... And then you're really fucked.

Just look for the ugly things about this girl. Think about all the things you hate about her while you're fucking her. If you really can't think of anything then make something up. Seriously man, that's what good sex is made of.

Date someone else.

I'm available. Just throwing it out there.

Tell him to think about something other than sex.
or

Do this, have sex with him, go on top, fuck him for a bit, before hes near cumming get off him and make him eat you out, wait a bit then go back on, repeat.

Tell him to think about something other than sex.
or

Do this, have sex with him, go on top, fuck him for a bit, before hes near cumming get off him and make him eat you out, wait a bit then go back on, repeat.

Train him like a fucking dog