usually i never need much help with talking to girls etc. but this is kind of an akward situation. Its been about a week since i met this girl at a hotel party. she 22 (only a couple years older than me.) When i first met her we were dancing for a while to all kinds of shit and i was pretty fucked up but she wasnt. After i had enough beers in me i decided to go talk to her for a bit and we had some good converstion and were were the last 2 people up after all the craziness besides this kid that was totally cock blocking me. he was just sitting there watching us talk it was weird. Anyways i helped clean up a bit before we went to sleep and she gave me her myspace because i said i would like to chill with her sometime. i dont have her #, i think that would make it easier. but the girl that would have it wants my dick i think so i couldnt ask her it would be even more akward. The girl could probably easily find me on myspace if she was into me, but maybe shes waiting for me to contact her idk. to the point.. what would u guys suggest that i do about this?? i can provide pic if absolutely necessary but no myspace link. later

you can't offer a pic. If you have it you have to post it.

Also, ummmm just go on shitspace, ask for her #. Problem solved.

http://i29.tinypic.com/dqhc7m.jpg

http://i28.tinypic.com/f9pk5z.jpg
me at the party on the way left

Send her a message asking for her #. Then call her and ask her out for coffee. That's all it takes.

i geuss that could work, its simple. its just kinda hard to break the ice after you wait a week to contact someone. im just unsure of what to say thats all

She's not very attractive; so it doesn't matter what you do, she'll be all over you anyway.

i dont see why shes not attractive for some reason. shes not a 10 but i think shes good looking

Her being attractive to you is all that matters.

But seriously, remember: "When in doubt, do."

rockin' party bro but to be honest you probably could have got laid that night if you just lowered your standards and got with your drunk shirtless friend lol

but as for the whole getting her information from that other girl, just gotta man up and do it. i wouldn't worry about alienating that other girl because it's a fairly innocent request and she'd look foolish and jealous denying you that information..

well i never said that i didnt fuck the fat drunk kid but i would have rather had the girl


and i would feel like a dick if i asked her for the other girls number because i have respect for this other girl,, i just dont like her in that way.