Usually I get the standard, "It's not you it's me" or the "I'm just too busy for a relationship now". The only time I really got one to say anything she just said "Your too nice" then I said, "Did I seem desparate?" and she said, "No, your just not my type."

very strange. I didn't call too much or anything like that. I went places with her like twice a week. It seemed like things were going perfectly, and then everything just stopped with a screeching halt.

Mabey I'm just missing something inside that makes me say the right things at the right time, or something that could make me more spontaneous or funny. I just don't know.

Thanks for the input, I really appreciate it.

Usually I get the standard, "It's not you it's me" or the "I'm just too busy for a relationship now". The only time I really got one to say anything she just said "Your too nice" then I said, "Did I seem desparate?" and she said, "No, your just not my type."

very strange. I didn't call too much or anything like that. I went places with her like twice a week. It seemed like things were going perfectly, and then everything just stopped with a screeching halt.

Mabey I'm just missing something inside that makes me say the right things at the right time, or something that could make me more spontaneous or funny. I just don't know.

Thanks for the input, I really appreciate it.

.. CLUE.. It was mr mustard in the library with the candle stick


On another note, what do you do when you go out? or chill?

I am moving to the denver area in august. im coming from buttfuck virginia where i'm having a similar problem...except the girls here aren't very attractive and the part im coming from there aren't many girls to begin with.


so anyways my mom lives in denver and when i go visit we do all sorts of cool shit and there are people everywhere.

-Invesco field (BRONCOS GAMES!!!, colorado rapids(soccer) games, concerts)
- six flags elich gardens - perfect spot to find chicks
- pepsi center - hocky and basketball games
- coors field - baseball is gay but oh well

these 4 things are within a mile radius of each other right off I-25. i also hear that the rave scene is huge out there so if u looking for easy pussy there is ur shot.


u also have coffee shops, grocery stores, and all that jazzz.....

well, usually on a typical first date I do something simple like take her to the mall and buy her a cup of coffee or something and talk to her. Or if she happens to be athletic, I go on a bike ride around town with her. on all the subsequent dates I usually go to the movies or out to dinner. There has only been one girl that came to my apartment and watched a movie on my projector. I think the problem I might be having is I'm not physical enough. I don't know if yall remember, but I started a thread about 2 months ago asking about how to kiss.

Oh and to whitelightning...
I know, I really tried the coffeeshop thing and I really hate clubs and hookah bars and stuff like that. I can't seem to get any of the girls there to talk to me. I 've realized that to obtain any kind of result in a place like this you need to come in with a friend, and all my friends here are unreliable.(I called three of them yesterday to see if they would be able to hang out with me today and none of them have called me back)

Stop looking for a relationship. They just happen. Yes, you have to work at getting girls, but once you're there talking with them, it's just going to happen or it's not.

It's such easy advice to give, but rather hard to follow (for me at least).

Hey evverey body! I'm high as fuck!!
And I realize I'm a real loser and I worry about things way tooo much. I'll find one! I just neeed to shut the fuck up an wait for it to happen. I realize even old people have sex and that if i don't find one i can buy a hooker!!!11 thanks for your help,

BYYYYEEEEEE!!!

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.. CLUE.. It was mr mustard in the library with the candle stick


On another note, what do you do when you go out? or chill?

It's Colonel Mustard, not Mr. Mustard.

you're not bad looking, grow your hair out dude. long hair = looks badass, and if you look the look, you're gonna get some eventually.

Godspeed.

You look pretty normal, i'd say honestly you could get any biker chick you want.

Unfortunatly for us nice guys it is very hard to get girls, you either have to find that one in a million woman who wants a nice guy or do that bullshit jerk/asshat/player act.

Facts of life.

Good luck.

(I called three of them yesterday to see if they would be able to hang out with me today and none of them have called me back)

Ouch. Well that right there makes me assume you're either:

A. Very awkward.

B. Very boring to be around.

C. Creepy.

D. All of the above.

Normal, entertaining people, ring their friends and meet up and have fun. Their friends look forward to seeing them because they're cool. Maybe you just need to find a weird, awkward girl as well.

You look like a pretty cool guy, in no way unactractive (physically anyway) so I guess ya just gotta stick to it?

Times are tough, depending on what type of girls you are shooting for that may be the problem. There could be something the girls pick up from the way you act that they do not end up vibing/finding you interesting after that first meet.

Hmmm saw what u posted about what you do with these girls.....sounds like you got the basic idea down but possibly your not being assertive enough. Just think about it like this, if your just hanging out and talking with a girl at a "scheduled" time and just keeping things chill what more are you to her than just a friend? Why should she see you as more than a friend if your not trying to press the more than friends issue? Did you ever get physical with any of these girls, hold their hand, cuddle with them during a movie, or even just getting close to them? Anything of that nature? If not then theres a point right there....

Also stop trying to press a relationship on girl, if you do the work you can easily slip into that position quicker than you know what....dont keep in that frame of mind thinking "Oh i have to get down to business ASAP" just let things flow.

you're probably being creepy around them
don't let the ladies know that you want them, make them think that you are above them and that they have to work to get with you


just start watching how to dance videos on youtube and then go to a club and start dancing with some slutty girls

go for slutty girls.

you look fine maybe start working out more or something
and
torrent those pick up artist books too

Well, I wouldn't say that I'm creepy. I guess just a little boring. I asked my friend's girlfriend about all of this and I showed her this thread, and she agreed with alot of what yall said :^(

and she told me to quit doing multiplication and division in my head around girls. She said it's a turn-off. I thought that would be impressive, but I guess I'm wrong. She said "It might make the girl feel stupid." And no more talking about wikipedia articles.

I already wear nicer clothes and, and I have plenty of confidence, mabey it wouldn't hurt to learn a few jokes.
But I'm working on it, I just made a craigslist ad yesterday. We'll see how that goes.(I think it's a waste of time, but I'll try anyway)

Oh and btw, I posted on craigslist and got next to nothing for replys

as for physical appearance I don't see anything wrong, you seem like you're tall. girls love tall guys, you don't seem lanky, which girls hate, nice smile etc etc, is there anything you do that is just plain creepy, constantly calling?, staring in there eyes too much? the wikipedia thing is a little weird girls want to feel like they're smarter than everyone, don't come off as an idiot, but don't put yourself out there as a complete tool.

as for meeting girls, there has to be some around your apt complex that are single, malls are a great place, grocery stores especially, I used to have this routine where I would ask about certain foods and which one is better yada yada yada, then I'd invite them over for dinner

If you work in a machine shop, you have to be making some bank, so money isn't a problem for you, don't go around flashing it thats a turn off to most girls...well at least decent girls, but let them know you're doing well and you're not just some bum.

Biking, go down to the park where people ride and try to meet girls like that, if they're doing then bam common interest something y'all can relate too

clothes don't make the man...

thats all I have to say hope it all works out for ya