Okay so basically, here's my dilemma. And S&A I need your help

I've been living in my current residence for awhile now, pretty much alone. I decided I would move to VA with a few friends and go to uni down there so I would at least be able to have relationships outside of work. But then I met this girl that I like...alot. I would love to have a relationship with her, but she doesn't want one b/c I'd be leaving in december for VA. She wants me to stay, but I promised my other friends I'd go down there with them.

Uni where I live now is 4k cheaper than if I were to move to VA. Granted the guys I'd be goin down to VA with have been my friends for several years.

TL;DR
So what should I do totse, stay in PA with my family, a cheap school, and a girl who adores me. Or do I continue to be a man of my word and go to VA?

Thank you

Friends. The girl thing will, like as not, fail in the end. The friendships have a much greater chance of staying strong.

Yeah this. Might seem like a poor choice, but It's easy to be blinded by a girl.

I would love to have a relationship with her, but she doesn't want one b/c I'd be leaving in december for VA.


As so often your answer is in the question. If she was really interested in you she would be having a relationship with you already and either she'd move with you to VA or you'd sort something out.

I don't agree with all that american "Bros Before Hoes" nonsense but in this case she isn't your girl and probably would never be and if you stayed and did have a relationship with her then you'd find yourself constantly tied to her will, which is no way for a man to live.

make sure you tell her what you told us about knowing your buds for years and that u promised u would go, so she understands the commitment.
and even if u do stay, she'll like you that much more that u preferred her over them.

dont stay by the way, u told ur bros and u would go before this hoe came up! fuck her and bounce have a fucking blast at uni man

I agree with every post on here. OP don't stay man. Trust me you're going to meet a lot more women in VA.

Just fuck her, and say you're sorry but it's my time to go when you have to leave.

You might want to consider Uni yourself...once you finish English For Mexicans101.

Bros over ho's.

Bros over ho's.

Only if 1.you're a 12 year old Ameritard or 2.Gay or 3. Both.

Only if 1.you're a 12 year old Ameritard or 2.Gay or 3. Both.

You would abandon your friends just to bust a pointless nut?


For shame, Mr. Ketch. For shame.

Only if 1.you're a 12 year old Ameritard or 2.Gay or 3. Both.

Bros before hoes is a simplification of the rule that you don't ditch your friends for a random girl. It's different if you actually care about the girl, but you don't sacrifice for a random girl and put your friends in a bad situation. It does not apply to actual relationships.

Bros before hoes is a simplification of the rule that you don't ditch your friends for a random girl. It's different if you actually care about the girl, but you don't sacrifice for a random girl and put your friends in a bad situation. It does not apply to actual relationships.

Yea...I generally follow bros before hoes for one night stands, but I actually care about this girl. First one in a long time actually, hence my dilemma

Yea...I generally follow bros before hoes for one night stands, but I actually care about this girl. First one in a long time actually, hence my dilemma

You can be perfectly happy without a girl. Being happy without friends is more difficult.

And, as I've said, a relationship with this girl is probably not going to last (just statistically, it's just a truth), whereas your friends will (hopefully) always be your friends.