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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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# 1

2008-06-22, 03:08
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Whats the most unattractive thing for you
...that isn't physical
Last weekend I met this girl at a club, hooked up with her, got her number etc. She was pretty good looking, and seemed pretty damn intelligent. We agreed to meet up this weekend, and I was all good to go until I got some messages from her during the week...
'lol i had lotz of fun wit u, soz i had 2 leave so early'
' i shud b free dis sat if ur still keen xxxoxo'
Most... unattractive... thing... ever. Now I'm not exactly a master of the English language myself, but I at least make an effort.
Needless to say something came up with my family and I haven't spoken to her since. Meh.
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# 2

2008-06-22, 03:21
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don't trust birds.
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Ew. That is such a letdown. Perfectly intelligent and capable people turn into babbling buffoons with a cell phone in their hands.
I really hate guys who are constantly showing off to their friends. Like, the other night I was out and this guy was talking to his friends and he was like 'hey guys, check this out' and calls over to me 'hey baby can I get your number?' And it's like...if you came and talked to me on your own I wouldn't be a bitch about it even though I'm not interested, but using me as a vehicle to assert your manliness is not gaining you any points.
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# 3

2008-06-22, 03:23
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
getting vibes that the person is a little too easy. And been around the block quite a bit.
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# 4

2008-06-22, 03:51
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Yeah, if the guy's an idiot it's a complete turn off.
My boyfriend's doing his PhD at the moment. 
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# 5

2008-06-22, 04:35
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Girls who text constantly.
Why? Leads my to believe theyre overly needy (have to be in constant communication with everyone), overly dependent on technology, and out of touch with the fact that the best human communication occurs face to face -- not to mention they dont care about how much phone bills cost! I know this may seem a little extreme, but Ive cut good looking interested-in-me girls loose because they simply texted too much whenever we hung out.
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# 6

2008-06-22, 04:46
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don't trust birds.
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by Banana Blunt
Girls who text constantly.
Why? Leads my to believe theyre overly needy (have to be in constant communication with everyone), overly dependent on technology, and out of touch with the fact that the best human communication occurs face to face -- not to mention they dont care about how much phone bills cost! I know this may seem a little extreme, but Ive cut good looking interested-in-me girls loose because they simply texted too much whenever we hung out.
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Well that, and it's extremely rude to be texting while trying to have a conversation or socialize. It drives me crazy to be talking to someone and they pause to open their phone every few seconds.
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#7
 2008-06-22, 04:53
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Well that, and it's extremely rude to be texting while trying to have a conversation or socialize. It drives me crazy to be talking to someone and they pause to open their phone every few seconds.
Ya, that really annoys me. I don't mind them checking, but I do mind them telling me to stop talking so they can type some message out to someone not even there.
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#8
 2008-06-22, 05:00
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
I don't know where I heard this, but someone said that talking to yourself used to be considered a mental illness. Now, it's a mark of social status. Puts people talking on cellphones in a totally different perspective.
Texting all the time is really annoying. I wouldn't be able to deal with it. I have unlimited texts because i'm on a family plan, but I'm not constantly on my phone. I hardly even use it.
When girls lack basic grammar comprehension, it kills me. The English major in me dies a little each time I get a stupid text.
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#9
 2008-06-22, 07:17
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Girls who..
Don't have class, can't spell, are closed minded, into rap/rnb/hardstyle/trance, want to do something with their life that revolves around money and not making the world a better place, who are pretentious, conceited, get really offended when you make a crass 'totsesque' joke in person.
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#10
 2008-06-22, 08:45
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
clingy bitches who wont leave me the FUCK alone, you know i have a life outside of you. damn glad i got rid of her
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# 11

2008-06-22, 09:56
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by Pogo
...that isn't physical
Last weekend I met this girl at a club, hooked up with her, got her number etc. She was pretty good looking, and seemed pretty damn intelligent. We agreed to meet up this weekend, and I was all good to go until I got some messages from her during the week...
'lol i had lotz of fun wit u, soz i had 2 leave so early'
' i shud b free dis sat if ur still keen xxxoxo'
Most... unattractive... thing... ever. Now I'm not exactly a master of the English language myself, but I at least make an effort.
Needless to say something came up with my family and I haven't spoken to her since. Meh.
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Shit, and I thought *I* was trivial/fussy.
While I personally try and text with properly spelled words, I think it's pretty messed up you like everything else about this girl but her spelling goes down hill when she txts and you act like it's the end of the world..
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# 12

2008-06-22, 09:58
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by arquin
Girls who..
Don't have class
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This.
And to be specific; letting people grope you/dry hump you in public, getting stupidly drunk, swearing heaps, etc etc.
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# 13

2008-06-22, 10:30
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Any man who, when pissed, becomes either violent, a consistent groper or a projectile vomiter.
I can't stand people who get obscenely drunk.
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# 14

2008-06-22, 13:15
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by Silverfuck
Ew. That is such a letdown. Perfectly intelligent and capable people turn into babbling buffoons with a cell phone in their hands.
I really hate guys who are constantly showing off to their friends. Like, the other night I was out and this guy was talking to his friends and he was like 'hey guys, check this out' and calls over to me 'hey baby can I get your number?' And it's like...if you came and talked to me on your own I wouldn't be a bitch about it even though I'm not interested, but using me as a vehicle to assert your manliness is not gaining you any points.
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Hey baby can I get your number?
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# 15

2008-06-22, 13:24
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by Rykoshet
Hey baby can I get your number?
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I for one, will find you manly if you succeed and your status in our internet peer group will be raised.
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# 16

2008-06-22, 13:32
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by rabbitweed
I for one, will find you manly if you succeed and your status in our internet peer group will be raised.
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Great. We shall hi-five and subsequently crush beer cans on our foreheads.
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# 17

2008-06-22, 13:34
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Girls without a sense of humour
Girls who are too dramatic.
Girls who are OVERLY feminist.
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# 18

2008-06-22, 14:14
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by arquin
Girls who..
want to do something with their life that revolves around money and not making the world a better place,
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Too bad that's not how life works.
It is about the money, and really, in this society, the only way you're going to even make a tiny little knick in the world as far as making it a better place, is if you have lots of money.
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# 19

2008-06-22, 14:28
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by Pogo
...that isn't physical
Last weekend I met this girl at a club, hooked up with her, got her number etc. She was pretty good looking, and seemed pretty damn intelligent. We agreed to meet up this weekend, and I was all good to go until I got some messages from her during the week...
'lol i had lotz of fun wit u, soz i had 2 leave so early'
' i shud b free dis sat if ur still keen xxxoxo'
Most... unattractive... thing... ever. Now I'm not exactly a master of the English language myself, but I at least make an effort.
Needless to say something came up with my family and I haven't spoken to her since. Meh.
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I couldn't agree with you more.
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# 20

2008-06-22, 14:43
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Apparently I've very particular about voice.
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# 21

2008-06-22, 17:09
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
The text talk thing annoys me too.
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# 22

2008-06-23, 00:56
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Back in the STL, baby!
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Drunken idiots.
Guys who are so uncomfortable with their sexuality they can't stop talking about "fags" and "queers" to the point where you begin to suspect their own orientation.
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# 23

2008-06-23, 01:16
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All over bloody Ontario
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by arquin
Girls who..
Don't have class, can't spell, are closed minded, into rap/rnb/hardstyle/trance, want to do something with their life that revolves around money and not making the world a better place, who are pretentious, conceited, get really offended when you make a crass 'totsesque' joke in person.
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This.
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# 24

2008-06-23, 02:28
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Well I have this thing where I can basically tell who a person is within the first few seconds/minutes of meeting them. And I hate the ones who think their smarter then everyone else, I can tell when their acting or putting on some front and it pisses me off.
TLDR: Smartasses and fakers.
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# 25

2008-06-23, 02:38
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by soro_one
Well I have this thing where I can basically tell who a person is within the first few seconds/minutes of meeting them. And I hate the ones who think their smarter then everyone else, I can tell when their acting or putting on some front and it pisses me off.
TLDR: Smartasses and fakers.
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*They're.
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# 26

2008-06-23, 03:09
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by Silverfuck
Well that, and it's extremely rude to be texting while trying to have a conversation or socialize. It drives me crazy to be talking to someone and they pause to open their phone every few seconds.
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-___- I agree.
Not that I'm Einstein-incarnate, but I don't find stupidity appealing. Ignorance is one thing; I can't bat a person over the head for not knowing everything, and if someone demonstrates a willingness to learn, that's cool. Otherwise, GTFO!
When a person is too conservative, prudent, awkward and it interferes with their sense of humor. I like vulgarity--to a certain extent--and free-spirited humor; that whole bathroom-humor makes me laugh.
My friend's sister showed me her boobs after she got surgery, and I couldn't help but appreciate her care-free attitude. People like that are the ones that are most fun to be around, in my opinion.
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# 27

2008-06-23, 03:42
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
smoking
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# 28

2008-06-23, 04:18
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
girls that like gun control, large upper body tattoos, or don't drink. gross.
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# 29

2008-06-23, 04:53
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by reborn thief
smoking
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Weird, smoking is a HUGE turn on for me.
Just the smell of cigarette smoke or weed smoke makes me feel happy.
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# 30

2008-06-23, 05:15
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
text whores
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#31
 2008-06-23, 06:21
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by soro_one
Well I have this thing where I can basically tell who a person is within the first few seconds/minutes of meeting them. And I hate the ones who think their smarter then everyone else, I can tell when their acting or putting on some front and it pisses me off.
TLDR: Smartasses and fakers.
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You can really tell a person's intelligence in a relatively short period of time.
Aaaaa...
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#32
 2008-06-23, 15:20
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Too bad that's not how life works.
It is about the money, and really, in this society, the only way you're going to even make a tiny little knick in the world as far as making it a better place, is if you have lots of money.
Look, you're right about that's not how life works. But that doesn't make it right.
Life isn't about the money. Your view is pretty bleak. "The only way you can make a knick in this world as far as making it a better place, is if you have lots of money".
First of all, fuck 'this' society.
Sell your shit, go volunteer in Asia at orphanages, schools, hospitals, etc. Do some type of health profession and join the Medecins Sans Frontieres. Help bring drinking water to Africa, educate people to the dangers of aids.
...life...is not about money. Money is a handy thing to have, but we lived a long time before it existed, we can still live with out it.
As some one wise once said: It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.
Same rule would apply to any girl I pursue. If she looks at our society and thinks it's a good place, she's a useless piece of shit.
I just realized one other trait that is disgusting: A woman who has no interest in the world outside her country.
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#33
 2008-06-23, 15:55
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Women who try to just 'get by' in school, getting D's over and over, just because it's cool to be nigger-smart.
I also don't like girls who wear makeup. A little eyeliner is fine, but lipstick makes you look like a prostitute and/or clown.
Oh, and romantic comedies. Never saw one, never going with a girl to one.
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#34
 2008-06-23, 15:58
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
When a girl jumps from dude to dude to dude and lives their lives in relationships. Like, it's the only thing that these girls around here do, it's fucking pathetic. Like literally the only thing they know how to do at all is be in a relationship. That's my number 1 I'll tell you to gtfo for that shit I can't stand it  .
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#35
 2008-06-23, 16:06
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Text whoring (especially when it's for nothing in particular)
i.e excessive i lurv u's
When girls take it faster than I want it to
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 2008-06-23, 16:10
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Getting horribly drunk.
Not having a sense of humour.
Not knowing when to stop.
Not being able to have an intelligent conversation.
Always having to have the last say.
Overly feminine guys.
Obnoxiousness and ignorance.
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#37
 2008-06-23, 16:16
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by arquin
Girls who..
Don't have class, can't spell, are closed minded, into rap/rnb/hardstyle/trance, want to do something with their life that revolves around money and not making the world a better place, who are pretentious, conceited, get really offended when you make a crass 'totsesque' joke in person.
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Arquin you're my favorite. :p Change "girls" to "guys" and take out the rap comment (because a teeny tiny percentage of it is still tolerable) and this is my list. Throw in clingy too. And bad grammar, like saying "I seen this thing yesterday..."makes me rageful. And the texting thing. When people text me and type "lyke dis" and can't be bothered to spell words properly (seriously, typing "wuz" instead of "was" makes you look so far beyond stupid that it's actually physically painful) I just don't respond. Don't all phones have predictive text anyway? They pretty much spell things for you. Ugh. Yeah. Nazi. Whatever.
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# 38

2008-06-23, 16:30
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Yoyo, keep on trollin'!
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by Pogo
...that isn't physical
Last weekend I met this girl at a club, hooked up with her, got her number etc. She was pretty good looking, and seemed pretty damn intelligent. We agreed to meet up this weekend, and I was all good to go until I got some messages from her during the week...
'lol i had lotz of fun wit u, soz i had 2 leave so early'
' i shud b free dis sat if ur still keen xxxoxo'
Most... unattractive... thing... ever. Now I'm not exactly a master of the English language myself, but I at least make an effort.
Needless to say something came up with my family and I haven't spoken to her since. Meh.
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Lol, good example, I hate that shit as well. I will definitely drop a bitch for writing me texts like that...
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Originally Posted by Silverfuck
Ew. That is such a letdown. Perfectly intelligent and capable people turn into babbling buffoons with a cell phone in their hands.
I really hate guys who are constantly showing off to their friends. Like, the other night I was out and this guy was talking to his friends and he was like 'hey guys, check this out' and calls over to me 'hey baby can I get your number?' And it's like...if you came and talked to me on your own I wouldn't be a bitch about it even though I'm not interested, but using me as a vehicle to assert your manliness is not gaining you any points.
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I think the point was to show he had balls and didn't give a shit about.......you, the ho. High fives all around guys!
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Originally Posted by NoSkills
Yeah, if the guy's an idiot it's a complete turn off.
My boyfriend's doing his PhD at the moment. 
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What's funny is you think a PhD doesn't make him an idiot.
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Originally Posted by arquin
Girls who..
Don't have class, can't spell, are closed minded, into rap/rnb/hardstyle/trance, want to do something with their life that revolves around money and not making the world a better place, who are pretentious, conceited, get really offended when you make a crass 'totsesque' joke in person.
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Those my friend are contradictions.
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Originally Posted by rabbitweed
Shit, and I thought *I* was trivial/fussy.
While I personally try and text with properly spelled words, I think it's pretty messed up you like everything else about this girl but her spelling goes down hill when she txts and you act like it's the end of the world..
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He didn't really know her, he met her at a club. The text gave away what kind of person she was, and that was uneducated. I think he might just not like uneducated women who can't spell. Might indicate that she probably doesn't READ too often as well, which might be a favorite pass time of his?
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Originally Posted by Saline Colors
Drunken idiots.
Guys who are so uncomfortable with their sexuality they can't stop talking about "fags" and "queers" to the point where you begin to suspect their own orientation.
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That isn't an indicator for homosexuality. Please, just stop...queer.
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Originally Posted by arquin
Look, you're right about that's not how life works. But that doesn't make it right.
Life isn't about the money. Your view is pretty bleak. "The only way you can make a knick in this world as far as making it a better place, is if you have lots of money".
First of all, fuck 'this' society.
Sell your shit, go volunteer in Asia at orphanages, schools, hospitals, etc. Do some type of health profession and join the Medecins Sans Frontieres. Help bring drinking water to Africa, educate people to the dangers of aids.
...life...is not about money. Money is a handy thing to have, but we lived a long time before it existed, we can still live with out it.
As some one wise once said: It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.
Same rule would apply to any girl I pursue. If she looks at our society and thinks it's a good place, she's a useless piece of shit.
I just realized one other trait that is disgusting: A woman who has no interest in the world outside her country.
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Seems pretty fruitless and naive to think helping 1 out of 1,124,125,099 Asian kids is going to do SHIIIIIIIT!
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Originally Posted by Bleeding_Fetus
Women who try to just 'get by' in school, getting D's over and over, just because it's cool to be nigger-smart.
I also don't like girls who wear makeup. A little eyeliner is fine, but lipstick makes you look like a prostitute and/or clown.
Oh, and romantic comedies. Never saw one, never going with a girl to one.
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This guy is an asshole.
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Originally Posted by Clover
When a girl jumps from dude to dude to dude and lives their lives in relationships. Like, it's the only thing that these girls around here do, it's fucking pathetic. Like literally the only thing they know how to do at all is be in a relationship. That's my number 1 I'll tell you to gtfo for that shit I can't stand it  .
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Obviously they don't know how to be in a relationship if they are constantly switching...
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Originally Posted by Demoiselle
Arquin you're my favorite.  Change "girls" to "guys" and take out the rap comment (because a teeny tiny percentage of it is still tolerable) and this is my list. Throw in clingy too. And bad grammar, like saying "I seen this thing yesterday..."makes me rageful. And the texting thing. When people text me and type "lyke dis" and can't be bothered to spell words properly (seriously, typing "wuz" instead of "was" makes you look so far beyond stupid that it's actually physically painful) I just don't respond. Don't all phones have predictive text anyway? They pretty much spell things for you. Ugh. Yeah. Nazi. Whatever.
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I hate people who use predictive text. Especially when they don't read the fucking thing while typing it...
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# 39

2008-06-23, 19:58
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Track marks have always been the number one turn off.
After that, it has to be a lack of ability to understand metaphor. I don't always use the most exact language, but the meaning is always clear.
Oh, and a refusal to have a good time. Sad people suck, in all the wrong ways.
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# 40

2008-06-23, 20:20
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
I hate guys who:
Smoke cigarettes!!! (smoking other things, I can deal with. I may even find it attractive, depending on the situation.), or get explosively angry (my brother is like that...)
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# 41

2008-06-23, 20:44
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Yet another person who thinks smoking is unattractive!
I think it's just hot..i'd pick a girl who smokes over one who doesn't.
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# 42

2008-06-23, 21:52
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
When a guy who I am genuinely interested in likes me less than I like him. Nothing you can do about it, but just really gets me sad.
What else...a guy who can't make time for his woman, who makes his girl an option when I put him as a priority.
A shy guy. A guy who won't make a move, makes up silly excuses for it. Runs out of words and I end up doing all of the talking.
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# 43

2008-06-23, 22:49
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by stripped
A shy guy. A guy who won't make a move, makes up silly excuses for it. Runs out of words and I end up doing all of the talking.
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Doomed to a life of misery, the shy guy loses again. 
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# 44

2008-06-24, 00:48
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Smoking is only hot if they are not addicted, if it is just one random cigarette now and then.
Most unattractive thing is when a girl refuses to expand her mind, learn new things and ask questions. Infact if anyone is like this, there is something severely wrong with you.
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# 45

2008-06-24, 00:56
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
-Lack of intelligence/critical thinking
-Girls who don't spit it out, don't hint at it, just say it.
-Too easy
-Lack of amibition, I hate girls who lack ambition, especially those who settle with mediocrity.
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# 46

2008-06-24, 06:30
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
having a boyfriend,
That shit is like a fucking tumor,
I becomes we,
he becomes the fucking end all be all
really Pisses me off
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# 47

2008-06-24, 06:57
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
ahh bitches...
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# 48

2008-06-24, 07:24
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
- Closed minded. Actually it's annoying when anyone isn't open to new ideas. Nothing too serious, but trivial shit shouldn't matter too much either way.
-Guys that are overly confident can be somewhat attractive, but the attraction comes with also being intelligent enough to get away with it.
-Stupidity. Grammar, accent, all that shit.
-Clingy, over-affectionate. Too much communication. Etc.
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# 49

2008-06-24, 08:05
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Horrible english, constant texting, and not having the ability to have an intelligent conversation.
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# 50

2008-06-24, 09:48
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Originally Posted by CarbonB
He didn't really know her, he met her at a club. The text gave away what kind of person she was, and that was uneducated. I think he might just not like uneducated women who can't spell. Might indicate that she probably doesn't READ too often as well, which might be a favorite pass time of his?
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The thing is, I know a lot of clever, educated people, who read...that text like retards.
It's a text, jesus, who cares? They charge per text, so it's more efficient to shorten words.
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2008-06-24, 15:23
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
probably stupidity/lack of intelligence, insight etc
genuine meanness
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2008-06-24, 15:36
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by CarbonB
He didn't really know her, he met her at a club. The text gave away what kind of person she was, and that was uneducated. I think he might just not like uneducated women who can't spell. Might indicate that she probably doesn't READ too often as well, which might be a favorite pass time of his?
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Wrong.
Both you and OP are too judgmental, and you make hasty conclusions without even trying to get to know the girl better.
I for one would most definitely type like that, had I a cell phone. In fact, I talk like that on totse quite often, and I am quite sure I am not uneducated.
Some people do it to be funny (you may not think it's funny but that's neither here nor there).
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2008-06-24, 15:37
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Doomed to a life of misery, the shy guy loses again. 
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Not necessarily. Some girls like the shy type.
I personally find shy guys to be INCREDIBLY attractive.
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2008-06-24, 15:39
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After that, it has to be a lack of ability to understand metaphor. I don't always use the most exact language, but the meaning is always clear.
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Nothing against you at all Euda but I would hate dealing with someone who uses a lot of metaphors.
Metaphors and similes are for idiots who dont know how to explain things/convey their thoughts using plain languages.
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2008-06-24, 15:40
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Originally Posted by superspeedz
-Lack of amibition, I hate girls who lack ambition, especially those who settle with mediocrity.
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I bet you are a materialistic kind of person, who puts money as your one of your priorities.
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# 56

2008-06-24, 15:43
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Originally Posted by rabbitweed
While I personally try and text with properly spelled words, I think it's pretty messed up you like everything else about this girl but her spelling goes down hill when she txts and you act like it's the end of the world..
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that's his loss
stupid fussy judgmental people do not deserve to find happiness
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2008-06-24, 15:44
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Originally Posted by flatplat
Any man who, when pissed, becomes either violent, a consistent groper or a projectile vomiter.
I can't stand people who get obscenely drunk.
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lol lol I am not sure if you were serious or not but you realise some people can't help it, right?
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2008-06-24, 15:44
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Originally Posted by Optionryder420
Too bad that's not how life works.
It is about the money, and really, in this society, the only way you're going to even make a tiny little knick in the world as far as making it a better place, is if you have lots of money.
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you aren't white...are you?
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# 59

2008-06-24, 15:46
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Originally Posted by Saline Colors
Guys who are so uncomfortable with their sexuality they can't stop talking about "fags" and "queers" to the point where you begin to suspect their own orientation.
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lol lol
While I am not necessarily attracted to this type, I do find them/this behaviour of theirs to be uproariously funny.
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2008-06-24, 15:49
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by Kipperelly Slash/ed
My friend's sister showed me her boobs after she got surgery, and I couldn't help but appreciate her care-free attitude. People like that are the ones that are most fun to be around, in my opinion.
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She's overdoing the nonchallant bit.
Furthermore, no normal person shows off their bosom to non-boyfriend/girlfriend.
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2008-06-24, 17:07
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You can be ignorant, as long as you're willing to learn.
I dislike women who are stuck up, other than that I like them all.
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2008-06-24, 17:33
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Belching, there is a huge difference between a belch and a burp, a burp is fine but belching is fucking hideous.
Getting way too emotional, stop. crying. i. don't. care. Also when people express joy too vocally, it makes me think they're trying to convince themselves they're having a good time.
When a girl changes for someone, starts listening to completely different music, gets a different style. They obviously don't know who they are or what they want so arn't worth my time.
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2008-06-24, 17:40
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by perfect chaos
When a girl changes for someone, starts listening to completely different music, gets a different style. They obviously don't know who they are or what they want so arn't worth my time.
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Or it could be they are accomondating to a fault, not necessarily that they don't know who they are. Or maybe they have many facets to their personalities...you won't know until you at least give them a chance/try to know them.
Like I said, judgmental people do not deserve to find happiness.
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2008-06-24, 18:04
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Like I said, judgmental people do not deserve to find happiness.
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The irony escapes you.
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2008-06-24, 18:07
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The irony escapes you.
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I never said I deserved to find happiness.
Furthermore it doesnt change the fact they are judgmental and therefore do not deserve happiness.
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2008-06-24, 18:10
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Burping/farting because they think it's cute. If you let one slip once in a while that's cool but don't make it overly dramatic.
Talking about gross bodily functions. I mean, if you really have to mention it that's fine. But in casual conversation it isn't cool.
Always wanting to DO something or SAY something. I have no problems going somewhere once in a while but hanging around the house and talking is pretty relaxing.
Smoking. This includes everything. I hate potheads especially.
Drugs. I don't need to be exposed to that shit anymore. I like being clean now. Besides, girls on drugs are fucking wacked out usually.
Extremely loud. I like reserved girls. That's kinda of the way I am so I don't feel as awkward around them.
Meat-eaters. This just makes it awkard for me once again. People connect around eating. Think about it, going out to dinner, making someone dinner, the family sits around for dinner. Where's that leave me? With a side salad??
Inactive/unhealthy. Body shape isn't a huge deal to me, but if they sit around all day doing nothing I got problems. Also, if they eat a tub of ice cream, half a bag of potato chips then sit around watching TV I have huge problems (and so do they). This has alot to do with energy levels and overall health. Who wants a girl who's sick all the time, is too tired to do anything, and looks like crap. When I say crap I don't mean shape, but overall youthful glow and radiance.
Pessimistic. Things normally work themselves out over time. There's always someone in a worse situation. There's something positive in almost everything.
Low self-esteem.
I want an active girl with good manners and half-way decent sense. I don't think that's a whole lot to ask for.
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2008-06-24, 18:12
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Originally Posted by WritingANovel
She's overdoing the nonchallant bit.
Furthermore, no normal person shows off their bosom to non-boyfriend/girlfriend.
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normal people dont hoard their nipple gold. its a human body, weve all seen this shit before.
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# 68

2008-06-24, 18:20
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by WritingANovel
I never said I deserved to find happiness.
Furthermore it doesnt change the fact they are judgmental and therefore do not deserve happiness.
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That's your opinion and you're welcome to it, but you seem to think that being judgemental is wrong or at least a bad thing. Yet you're going through this thread telling people what they should and shouldnt like. It's their opinion, it affects their life and happiness, and they're very welcome to it aswell.
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# 69

2008-06-24, 18:29
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by Katzekratzer
That's your opinion and you're welcome to it, but you seem to think that being judgemental is wrong or at least a bad thing. Yet you're going through this thread telling people what they should and shouldnt like. It's their opinion, it affects their life and happiness, and they're very welcome to it aswell.
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I never said people can't be judgmental, or that it's inherently wrong (although I do kind of think so). I just think that by being judgmental they most likely won't find happiness and furthermore don't deserve it and I should be entitled to voicing this opinion of mine.
Also, I never once said what people should or should not like. I was just pointing out where I personally think they are retarded for being judgmental.
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# 70

2008-06-24, 18:34
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by beergoggles
Meat-eaters. This just makes it awkard for me once again. People connect around eating. Think about it, going out to dinner, making someone dinner, the family sits around for dinner. Where's that leave me? With a side salad??
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Wait wait wait, elaborate on this. What exactly is your problem with girls who eat meat?
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 2008-06-24, 18:50
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I never said people can't be judgmental, or that it's inherently wrong (although I do kind of think so). I just think that by being judgmental they most likely won't find happiness and furthermore don't deserve it and I should be entitled to voicing this opinion of mine.
Also, I never once said what people should or should not like. I was just pointing out where I personally think they are retarded for being judgmental.
Everyone is judgemental, you're an idiot.
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#72
 2008-06-24, 18:51
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Everyone is judgemental, you're an idiot.
Some people aren't.
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 2008-06-24, 19:01
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Some people aren't.
No, everyone is. Every single person will form opinions on others based on their actions. Maybe you mean prejudice, although I would still argue that everyone is prejudice to some degree.
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 2008-06-24, 19:02
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No, everyone is. Every single person will form opinions on others based on their actions. Maybe you mean prejudice, although I would still argue that everyone is prejudice to some degree.
You can have an opinion without being judgmental.
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 2008-06-24, 19:09
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You can have an opinion without being judgmental.
I don't think so, you may try not to judge a person but you will to some extent. It's more a case of how judgemental someone is rather than if they are or not.
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 2008-06-24, 19:13
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I don't think so, you may try not to judge a person but you will to some extent. It's more a case of how judgemental someone is rather than if they are or not.
You actually have a point.
It really is a question of degree.
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 2008-06-24, 21:21
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Wait wait wait, elaborate on this. What exactly is your problem with girls who eat meat?
I'm a vegan. Maybe I should've pointed that out. It's not that I have anything major against meat-eaters. To each his own, but it's just that it could make for awkward situations.
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 2008-06-24, 22:29
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I'm a vegan. Maybe I should've pointed that out. It's not that I have anything major against meat-eaters. To each his own, but it's just that it could make for awkward situations.
Pussy. Not that you eat it, it's just what you are.
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 2008-06-24, 22:44
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Pussy. Not that you eat it, it's just what you are.
LOL YUR K00L!
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#80
 2008-06-24, 23:43
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I find decuple-posting extremely unattractive.
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 2008-06-25, 00:46
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Pussy. Not that you eat it, it's just what you are.
contrary to what you think (or hope), eating meat doesnt make you manly
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2008-06-25, 07:09
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Originally Posted by rabbitweed
The thing is, I know a lot of clever, educated people, who read...that text like retards.
It's a text, jesus, who cares? They charge per text, so it's more efficient to shorten words.
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Right...keep giving yourself excuses for being lazy.
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Originally Posted by WritingANovel
Wrong.
Both you and OP are too judgmental, and you make hasty conclusions without even trying to get to know the girl better.
I for one would most definitely type like that, had I a cell phone. In fact, I talk like that on totse quite often, and I am quite sure I am not uneducated.
Some people do it to be funny (you may not think it's funny but that's neither here nor there).
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I was making an assumption, what do you expect? Me to to include all perspectives?
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# 83

2008-06-25, 12:49
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by CarbonB
Those my friend are contradictions.
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Not really. Being classy does not exclude you from having a dark sense of humor.
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Originally Posted by CarbonB
Seems pretty fruitless and naive to think helping 1 out of 1,124,125,099 Asian kids is going to do SHIIIIIIIT!
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Well I doubt you'd travel half the world to help ONE kid. You'd help like 100, maybe more, maybe less. Out of those hundred kids that you help, it'd be safe to assume that one becomes either a doctor/nurse, engineer or business owner. So you're either helping directly with people's health, building better infrastructure (could even be a sanitation engineer), or creating business which would help the local economy.
If I helped two people, and each person I helped then also helped two people, and so on and so forth. Could you not argue that I had a hand in helping more than just two people? So help people with the best investment possible: an education.
Look Carbon, you argue for the sake of arguing so you'll probably disagree, but what ever man. Chicks who want to do massage therapy, beauty courses, fashion, accounting, business management, etc are just not thinking about the bigger picture.
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# 84

2008-06-25, 13:25
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Originally Posted by arquin
Well I doubt you'd travel half the world to help ONE kid. You'd help like 100, maybe more, maybe less. Out of those hundred kids that you help, it'd be safe to assume that one becomes either a doctor/nurse, engineer or business owner. So you're either helping directly with people's health, building better infrastructure (could even be a sanitation engineer), or creating business which would help the local economy.
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Yeah. Except that they would be a doctor/nurse, engineer or business owner in the West, since they would immigrate the moment they get half the chance - and most certainly never go back.
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# 85

2008-06-25, 13:40
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by CarbonB
I was making an assumption, what do you expect? Me to to include all perspectives?
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I never said you were supposed to include all perspectives or that I was scolding you for not including all perspectives or whatever. I was just offering my take on it, that's all.
Take it easy dude, having someone disagree with you on the internet is not that big a deal. In fact, it happens to everybody pretty much all the time.
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# 86

2008-06-25, 14:29
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
-Lack of independence.
I hate women who can't hold a decent/job/make their own income, of course I would give my lady plenty of money and even right now I make a lot more than the average individual, however I would rather have someone who is close to an equal.
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# 87

2008-06-25, 14:36
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by Agent 008
Yeah. Except that they would be a doctor/nurse, engineer or business owner in the West, since they would immigrate the moment they get half the chance - and most certainly never go back.
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If your statement was correct, there would not be a single doctor in the 3rd world since they easily earn enough to leave. But, wait, there are doctors! So based on that simple fact we can assume not every person is a money hungry cock gobbling slut. Right? Some people actually love their country, their people and take their Hippocratic oath seriously.
People who do things for the money, as opposed to the love for their job, are very transparent.
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2008-06-25, 18:00
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Originally Posted by arquin
Not really. Being classy does not exclude you from having a dark sense of humor.
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Most totse humor is not diabolical, it is just tasteless. Something classy women have...which is why I called it a contradiction.
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Originally Posted by arquin
Well I doubt you'd travel half the world to help ONE kid. You'd help like 100, maybe more, maybe less. Out of those hundred kids that you help, it'd be safe to assume that one becomes either a doctor/nurse, engineer or business owner. So you're either helping directly with people's health, building better infrastructure (could even be a sanitation engineer), or creating business which would help the local economy.
If I helped two people, and each person I helped then also helped two people, and so on and so forth. Could you not argue that I had a hand in helping more than just two people? So help people with the best investment possible: an education.
Look Carbon, you argue for the sake of arguing so you'll probably disagree, but what ever man. Chicks who want to do massage therapy, beauty courses, fashion, accounting, business management, etc are just not thinking about the bigger picture.
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You consider this an argument, or at the end of your post did you just realize how ridiculous you sound?
You don't have to travel around the world to help the needy, the tired, the poor. That is why I call you naive, and that is why you don't get the bigger picture.
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Originally Posted by Agent 008
Yeah. Except that they would be a doctor/nurse, engineer or business owner in the West, since they would immigrate the moment they get half the chance - and most certainly never go back.
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Doubtful, I bet the Chinese population grows faster annually than the accepted amount of immigrants allowed into the United States per year.
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Originally Posted by WritingANovel
I never said you were supposed to include all perspectives or that I was scolding you for not including all perspectives or whatever. I was just offering my take on it, that's all.
Take it easy dude, having someone disagree with you on the internet is not that big a deal. In fact, it happens to everybody pretty much all the time.
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Yet you didn't disagree, you told me I was wrong. Therefore you are telling me that my perspective isn't as valid as your perspective, right?
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Originally Posted by arquin
If your statement was correct, there would not be a single doctor in the 3rd world since they easily earn enough to leave. But, wait, there are doctors! So based on that simple fact we can assume not every person is a money hungry cock gobbling slut. Right? Some people actually love their country, their people and take their Hippocratic oath seriously.
People who do things for the money, as opposed to the love for their job, are very transparent.
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What a rather bold statement, " People who do things for the money, as opposed to the love for their job, are very transparent."
Do you mean transparent in the fact that they NEED MONEY!? Lol, you are an idiot man. Are you seriously concerned with little Asian kids dying? Please, don't lose sleep over it, because they are not losing sleep over you, and will not get better sleep knowing you are coming with a piece of chocolate to give them.
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2008-06-25, 18:07
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Anyone who wants to fit in.
Edit: other things I thought I'd add, but have already been said:
Blatant stupidity, extremely conservative mindset, overtly callous.
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 2008-06-25, 18:51
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I'm a vegan. Maybe I should've pointed that out. It's not that I have anything major against meat-eaters. To each his own, but it's just that it could make for awkward situations.
Alright, that makes sense. I got a bit offended because a thing that's really unattractive to me is a girl who can't eat. I'm not saying that I like fatties, but a girl with a decent physique who knows how to chomp into a steak once in a while, or eat a burger (like an entire burger), I really respect that.
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# 91

2008-06-25, 18:56
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by CarbonB
Yet you didn't disagree, you told me I was wrong. Therefore you are telling me that my perspective isn't as valid as your perspective, right?
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Nope.
The only thing I was telling you is exactly what I typed in that post. If you insist on being overly sensitive and reading into it more than there really is, go nuts.
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#92
 2008-06-25, 19:13
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Too bad that's not how life works.
It is about the money, and really, in this society, the only way you're going to even make a tiny little knick in the world as far as making it a better place, is if you have lots of money.
Incorrect dear OR. All it takes to make a positive impact on the world is making a positive change in yourself and letting others know how you did it. Find your groove, and let others know the path you took so that they may follow.
Look at the great spiritual philanthropists (that is, those who shared their spirit with others): They have always attempted to share with others general guidelines as to how they developed the character necessary to achieve the life of abundance and joy they get to experience. This is the epitome of improving the world: Teaching others how to find their own joy.
Bill Wilson, one of the co-founders of Alcoholics Anonymous, figured out how to develop the characteristic of humility. He outlined the path he took as a series of 'steps', that when taken by any individual, will produce the humility necessary to overcome the mental addiction to alcohol. (Others had found this path, few gave such great account of the journey as to allow others to follow it)
Yeshua ben Yosef (Jesus, son of Joseph); this man enjoyed an amazing relationship with his spirit and shared from streets to mountains the way he walked so others may find such a strong relationship with their own spirit.
Theodore Roosevelt, through courage and perseverence, overcame asthma and enjoyed acclamations for his service in the military and went on to serve as President of the United States. In his stories and sharings to others, he has told how his intense drive and determination taught him the lessons of humility, courage, and responsibility necessary to steward such a bountiful life for himself.
Martin Luther King Jr., told often about how his reliance upon the guidance of Yeshua gave him a relationship with his own spirit that fueled the courage and determination necessary to put the civil rights movement into such a strong swing that American blacks found a freedom from segregation.
Take a look at history man...every last person that has made a real change in this world did it without a fucking penny to their name. First we are broken down. Then, we are made to operate well. Then, we are built to completion. Last, we are polished with wealth. As Yeshua said in his guidance of others, "Seek the Spirit first, and all else will be added to you."
Every success story, in ALL history, begins with desolation. From there, the individual looks within and finds a reliance upon their spirit. With this, they find a new source of power dedicated to the enhancement of life for others. Through this simple humility, their own life is given amazing meaning and abundance. I would challenge you to find a man dedicated to money itself who knows anything but loneliness and anxiety.
That, I suppose, is what repulses me most: Those who dedicate themselves to the material world, ignoring the true riches held within their spirit.
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2008-06-25, 19:32
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by rabbitweed
The thing is, I know a lot of clever, educated people, who read...that text like retards.
It's a text, jesus, who cares? They charge per text, so it's more efficient to shorten words.
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yeah by text, not by characters, so by your theory texts should be very long. besides who texts without an unlimited plan? its way to expensive otherwise.
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 2008-06-25, 22:17
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Nope.
The only thing I was telling you is exactly what I typed in that post. If you insist on being overly sensitive and reading into it more than there really is, go nuts.
Wrong.
Lol, I read what's there. Now go wipe your bleeding vagina off on the towel hung against the wall, mmmmmkay? :-)
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 2008-06-25, 22:59
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Lol, I read what's there. Now go wipe your bleeding vagina off on the towel hung against the wall, mmmmmkay? :-)
Just because I disagree with you, there is no need for you to not behave like a proper gentleman towards me. Also, just because I said "wrong" it doesn't mean I think my viewpoint is better than yours. It just means that I think you are wrong.
Like I said, it is just the internet. It is not the end of the world when someone disagrees with you. Doesn't matter how "badass" you may think you look, it is not worth it. Unless of course, the internet is your entire world, and having someone disagree with you is like the biggest affront to your manhood, or whatever remains of it.
P.S. Carbon is a sore loser, who doesn't take losing gracefully. Hey carbon, are you always this sore?
P.S.S. Why do you think I am menstruating (referring to the bleeding vagina part). Do you always insult women who bested you in an argument as menstruating? Furthermore, why do you assume that I hang towels on the wall? Is there some sort of hidden insult behind it? Lastly, wanna know why I stopped flirting with you in this other thread? It was because I was creeped out and grossed out by you, creepy loser.
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2008-06-25, 23:08
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by genericwittyusername
Anyone who wants to fit in.
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Everyone wants to fit in, I don't think anyone is genuinely happy with being a misfit.
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 2008-06-26, 02:45
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Incorrect dear OR. All it takes to make a positive impact on the world is making a positive change in yourself and letting others know how you did it. Find your groove, and let others know the path you took so that they may follow.
Look at the great spiritual philanthropists (that is, those who shared their spirit with others): They have always attempted to share with others general guidelines as to how they developed the character necessary to achieve the life of abundance and joy they get to experience. This is the epitome of improving the world: Teaching others how to find their own joy.
Bill Wilson, one of the co-founders of Alcoholics Anonymous, figured out how to develop the characteristic of humility. He outlined the path he took as a series of 'steps', that when taken by any individual, will produce the humility necessary to overcome the mental addiction to alcohol. (Others had found this path, few gave such great account of the journey as to allow others to follow it)
Yeshua ben Yosef (Jesus, son of Joseph); this man enjoyed an amazing relationship with his spirit and shared from streets to mountains the way he walked so others may find such a strong relationship with their own spirit.
Theodore Roosevelt, through courage and perseverence, overcame asthma and enjoyed acclamations for his service in the military and went on to serve as President of the United States. In his stories and sharings to others, he has told how his intense drive and determination taught him the lessons of humility, courage, and responsibility necessary to steward such a bountiful life for himself.
Martin Luther King Jr., told often about how his reliance upon the guidance of Yeshua gave him a relationship with his own spirit that fueled the courage and determination necessary to put the civil rights movement into such a strong swing that American blacks found a freedom from segregation.
Take a look at history man...every last person that has made a real change in this world did it without a fucking penny to their name. First we are broken down. Then, we are made to operate well. Then, we are built to completion. Last, we are polished with wealth. As Yeshua said in his guidance of others, "Seek the Spirit first, and all else will be added to you."
Every success story, in ALL history, begins with desolation. From there, the individual looks within and finds a reliance upon their spirit. With this, they find a new source of power dedicated to the enhancement of life for others. Through this simple humility, their own life is given amazing meaning and abundance. I would challenge you to find a man dedicated to money itself who knows anything but loneliness and anxiety.
That, I suppose, is what repulses me most: Those who dedicate themselves to the material world, ignoring the true riches held within their spirit.
NIGGA, the only Christian to ever live, died on that cross, no one has been able to emulate his "path"
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#98
 2008-06-26, 03:13
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Look, you're right about that's not how life works. But that doesn't make it right.
Life isn't about the money. Your view is pretty bleak. "The only way you can make a knick in this world as far as making it a better place, is if you have lots of money".
First of all, fuck 'this' society.
Sell your shit, go volunteer in Asia at orphanages, schools, hospitals, etc. Do some type of health profession and join the Medecins Sans Frontieres. Help bring drinking water to Africa, educate people to the dangers of aids.
...life...is not about money. Money is a handy thing to have, but we lived a long time before it existed, we can still live with out it.
As some one wise once said: It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.
Same rule would apply to any girl I pursue. If she looks at our society and thinks it's a good place, she's a useless piece of shit.
I just realized one other trait that is disgusting: A woman who has no interest in the world outside her country.
You actually bring up a lot of good points.
I have been leaning towards becoming a teacher in hopes of helping the future generations. Somebody's gotta do it and I'd love to educate children or teenagers and really help them out in a way. I can see that as making a difference, but I usually think on a bigger level of making a difference.
I'm more in the mindset of don't sweat the small stuff when we have so many more fucked up things going on in this world. And honestly, even than, to make a good difference in this world, it'll cost a lot of money. You can say it may just take a man of power to do such a thing, but in this modern day a man of money is a man of power.
you aren't white...are you?
Whiter than you most likely... and that's no joke, I just don't tan for some reason.
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#99
 2008-06-26, 04:49
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Just because I disagree with you, there is no need for you to not behave like a proper gentleman towards me. Also, just because I said "wrong" it doesn't mean I think my viewpoint is better than yours. It just means that I think you are wrong.
Like I said, it is just the internet. It is not the end of the world when someone disagrees with you. Doesn't matter how "badass" you may think you look, it is not worth it. Unless of course, the internet is your entire world, and having someone disagree with you is like the biggest affront to your manhood, or whatever remains of it.
P.S. Carbon is a sore loser, who doesn't take losing gracefully. Hey carbon, are you always this sore?
P.S.S. Why do you think I am menstruating (referring to the bleeding vagina part). Do you always insult women who bested you in an argument as menstruating? Furthermore, why do you assume that I hang towels on the wall? Is there some sort of hidden insult behind it? Lastly, wanna know why I stopped flirting with you in this other thread? It was because I was creeped out and grossed out by you, creepy loser.
Lol, first of all, I hang towels on the wall. Get the joke now? Argument? Won? Trivial things you are talking about here, the internet is not my world, far from it actually. I could give a shit if you stopped flirting with me in the other thread, as I recall though...you are the one who gave me YOUR msn. Hmmmmm?
Interesting how the tides turn, creepy? LOLOLOLOLOL!MAFOAOOO!! LOL!!!!!!!!!!! What's so fucking funny is that you have no idea how that makes you sound to me. :-)
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#100
 2008-06-26, 05:37
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
I'm a vegan. Maybe I should've pointed that out. It's not that I have anything major against meat-eaters. To each his own, but it's just that it could make for awkward situations.
My boyfriend eats meat, I'm a vegetarian going vegan and I don't think it's that awkward. I pick on him sometimes, but we deal. Maybe I'm more laid back with my eating habits? There are too few vegetarians IMO to be too picky about only dating people of that diet.
Most unnattractive thing for me (and on the topic):
Complete, unrelenting and uncompromising onesidedness. One time I was talking to this guy I was kind of interested in. He was a republican, me a democrat and along with that contrast he just completely could not comprehend any possible reason why anyone could ever want to not eat meat. He used the "caveman defense" (well, the cavemen ate meat!!?!) which is the most ridiculous reason to eat meat. Cavemen also ran around chasing wooly mammoths with spears. Ugh. Idiot.
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#101
 2008-06-26, 05:57
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
My boyfriend eats meat, I'm a vegetarian going vegan and I don't think it's that awkward. I pick on him sometimes, but we deal. Maybe I'm more laid back with my eating habits? There are too few vegetarians IMO to be too picky about only dating people of that diet.
Most unnattractive thing for me (and on the topic):
Complete, unrelenting and uncompromising onesidedness. One time I was talking to this guy I was kind of interested in. He was a republican, me a democrat and along with that contrast he just completely could not comprehend any possible reason why anyone could ever want to not eat meat. He used the "caveman defense" (well, the cavemen ate meat!!?!) which is the most ridiculous reason to eat meat. Cavemen also ran around chasing wooly mammoths with spears. Ugh. Idiot.
I mean he is right, without the rich nutrients from meat, maybe our ancestors wouldn't of survived long enough for you to make such a ludicrous decision on your eating habits?
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2008-06-26, 07:20
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by WritingANovel
Wrong.
Both you and OP are too judgmental, and you make hasty conclusions without even trying to get to know the girl better.
I for one would most definitely type like that, had I a cell phone. In fact, I talk like that on totse quite often, and I am quite sure I am not uneducated.
Some people do it to be funny (you may not think it's funny but that's neither here nor there).
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Err although I'm a bit late, I wanted to point out something.
Without sounding arrogant, I come away with a few girls number each weekend... I'm not bragging, it isn't a difficult thing to do (the hard bit is afterwards)
So why would I bother keeping up communication with someone when I can easily stay in contact with someone else without having to decipher what they are saying ?
Of course if I was dating someone I could look past it, or I was really keen for them. But some random hookup at a night club, meh, why bother?
Not everyone who uses leetspeak or whatever you want to call is unintelligent, but hordes of teenage girls myspaces and facebook accounts tell us that most of them are.
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#103
 2008-06-26, 09:46
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
I have been leaning towards becoming a teacher in hopes of helping the future generations. Somebody's gotta do it and I'd love to educate children or teenagers and really help them out in a way. I can see that as making a difference, but I usually think on a bigger level of making a difference.
Teachers are some of the biggest inspirations available. You know that cool teacher, who's really philosophical and open minded, that all the students love? Yeah, you could be one of them. When people are still young and impressionable, you can make a huge difference in their lives.
It's a good idea.
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#104
 2008-06-26, 12:05
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
I mean he is right, without the rich nutrients from meat, maybe our ancestors wouldn't of survived long enough for you to make such a ludicrous decision on your eating habits?
Idiot.
People in India and China have been going for thousands of years without eating meat.
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#105
 2008-06-26, 13:52
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Incorrect dear OR. All it takes to make a positive impact on the world is making a positive change in yourself and letting others know how you did it. Find your groove, and let others know the path you took so that they may follow.
Look at the great spiritual philanthropists (that is, those who shared their spirit with others): They have always attempted to share with others general guidelines as to how they developed the character necessary to achieve the life of abundance and joy they get to experience. This is the epitome of improving the world: Teaching others how to find their own joy.
Bill Wilson, one of the co-founders of Alcoholics Anonymous, figured out how to develop the characteristic of humility. He outlined the path he took as a series of 'steps', that when taken by any individual, will produce the humility necessary to overcome the mental addiction to alcohol. (Others had found this path, few gave such great account of the journey as to allow others to follow it)
Yeshua ben Yosef (Jesus, son of Joseph); this man enjoyed an amazing relationship with his spirit and shared from streets to mountains the way he walked so others may find such a strong relationship with their own spirit.
Theodore Roosevelt, through courage and perseverence, overcame asthma and enjoyed acclamations for his service in the military and went on to serve as President of the United States. In his stories and sharings to others, he has told how his intense drive and determination taught him the lessons of humility, courage, and responsibility necessary to steward such a bountiful life for himself.
Martin Luther King Jr., told often about how his reliance upon the guidance of Yeshua gave him a relationship with his own spirit that fueled the courage and determination necessary to put the civil rights movement into such a strong swing that American blacks found a freedom from segregation.
Take a look at history man...every last person that has made a real change in this world did it without a fucking penny to their name. First we are broken down. Then, we are made to operate well. Then, we are built to completion. Last, we are polished with wealth. As Yeshua said in his guidance of others, "Seek the Spirit first, and all else will be added to you."
Every success story, in ALL history, begins with desolation. From there, the individual looks within and finds a reliance upon their spirit. With this, they find a new source of power dedicated to the enhancement of life for others. Through this simple humility, their own life is given amazing meaning and abundance. I would challenge you to find a man dedicated to money itself who knows anything but loneliness and anxiety.
That, I suppose, is what repulses me most: Those who dedicate themselves to the material world, ignoring the true riches held within their spirit.
You bring up a few examples of people whom changed the world without any money. But, that's only a few out of BILLIONS.
Now, I'm not saying you're wrong, but I just don't see that as very good odds. There's really no chance in hell that you or me are going to make a HUGE difference to the world as a whole. Although you can make a huge difference to an individuals perception on the world, you won't change the world.
We can really argue this all day so I'm just going to leave it at that. I'm a skeptic, but only because the rest of the world is too.
Teachers are some of the biggest inspirations available. You know that cool teacher, who's really philosophical and open minded, that all the students love? Yeah, you could be one of them. When people are still young and impressionable, you can make a huge difference in their lives.
It's a good idea.
Like I said above, you can definitely make a difference on an individuals "world," you aren't going to make some global changes as a teacher.
But yes, I also agree it's a good idea and I think it'll be very fulfilling being a teacher.
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#106
 2008-06-26, 14:09
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Teachers are some of the biggest inspirations available. You know that cool teacher, who's really philosophical and open minded, that all the students love? Yeah, you could be one of them. When people are still young and impressionable, you can make a huge difference in their lives.
It's a good idea.
You have no clue do you?
Idiot.
People in India and China have been going for thousands of years without eating meat.
Lol, thousands of years you say? Mind giving a source?
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#107
 2008-06-26, 16:27
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
NIGGA, the only Christian to ever live, died on that cross, no one has been able to emulate his "path"
True. Luckily, 99% of what happens isn't our doing, it's either puppetry by the Spirit or by sin. Now these are my words, which I assure you, are born entirely of sin: Kindly go fuck yourself and eat shit, mongrel.
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#108
 2008-06-27, 04:30
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
This will sound stupid, but I can't stand girls who are plugged into society. I can't stand people plugged in for that matter. The ones that have to shop at Aeropostale or whatever it is, the ones that have to go to a Starbucks and pay $10 for a piss sample cup of coffee, the ones that blindly believe that the world as a whole is safe and that they are "rebels" and "non-conformists" by buying shit the television tells them to because "The Hilton girl wears it."
If I were a deaf mute, my life would be so much easier.
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#109
 2008-06-27, 04:42
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Cavemen also ran around chasing wooly mammoths with spears. Ugh. Idiot.
fuck off, if there were woolly mammoths still around you better believe guys would be out there chasing them.
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#110
 2008-06-27, 14:36
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Lol, thousands of years you say? Mind giving a source?
People have been known to live entire lives as vegetarians.
In fact, in the harsh environment where our ancestors evolved in, (I am assuming) games were conceivably difficult to come by. I am pretty sure vegetarianism was widely practiced. People pretty much didn't have much choice back then. They had to survive on vegetables because they were often the only thing available at that time and environment.
Then again, I don't have a source, so you can take it with a grain of salt if you wish.
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#111
 2008-06-27, 15:18
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
You have no clue do you?
Fuck man, it's you who has no clue.
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#112
 2008-06-27, 17:05
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Has been said over and over, but clingy girls. I mean it's cute and all for about the first day, but afterwords it gets to the point where it's creepy.
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#113
 2008-06-27, 20:01
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
I don't like when they're too fucking loud.
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#114
 2008-06-27, 22:14
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
Girls who act rather differently around you, when with their friends, as though there's a different side of the oh-so-fab scale to be appeased, or else the giggle-gang will run off without them...
Girls who dumb themselves down, as though it'll endear you to them, having to simplify and spell everything out.
Girls with trust issues, who will read your mail, texts, get paranoid about fairly innocent conversations with others, put curfews and boundaries on you, and attempt to love you at arms length, whilst keeping your dick chained to a lamp post.
Girls with no self respect, who follow constantly, without a thought, or lead with only manipulation and using in mind. Heh, no way I can explain this 'un satisfactorily.
Chicks who spell really badly cos it's kewl, who moan about smoking and who refer to things constantly as "guy stuff" or use the "zomg ima not a guy!1!!!1" excuse. No love, you dropped a pencil, picking it up is not a gender issue, n no I wont carry your huge fake handbag for ya! 
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#115
 2008-06-27, 23:34
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
If I were a deaf mute, my life would be so much easier.
Doubt it, and the more judgmental you are, the less time you'll have to concentrate on your own life.
People have been known to live entire lives as vegetarians.
In fact, in the harsh environment where our ancestors evolved in, (I am assuming) games were conceivably difficult to come by. I am pretty sure vegetarianism was widely practiced. People pretty much didn't have much choice back then. They had to survive on vegetables because they were often the only thing available at that time and environment.
Then again, I don't have a source, so you can take it with a grain of salt if you wish.
I will, because you must not know what it means to be a Nomad.
Fuck man, it's you who has no clue.
Right........
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2008-06-28, 00:10
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by ingutted
yeah by text, not by characters, so by your theory texts should be very long. besides who texts without an unlimited plan? its way to expensive otherwise.
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Not everyone uses the same service provider...
For example, the one I use charges $10 a month to send a maximum of 500 to any phone in the country, but each text has a character limit of 155.
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# 117

2008-06-28, 01:37
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by rabbitweed
Not everyone uses the same service provider...
For example, the one I use charges $10 a month to send a maximum of 500 to any phone in the country, but each text has a character limit of 155.
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I got a deal for unlimited texting, picture messaging, and instant messaging for all the members on my family plan for $10 a month. It was a one time special offer thing. If I didn't have that, I wouldn't text. Still, I don't text all that much.
I don't really know what the most unattractive thing is for me, but I really hate when a girl complains about her boyfriend but is too pathetic to leave him. I've been hearing this shit lately from a girl and it's really tiring.
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#118
 2008-06-28, 01:38
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
I will, because you must not know what it means to be a Nomad.
I don't. So what's so significant about Nomads and what do they have to do with vegetarianism.
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#119
 2008-06-28, 03:44
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
I thought of another one. Indecisiveness. About everything.
Just make a decision, it's not that hard. If the waiter asks if you want garlic bread, don't look at me for an answer. Either you want it or you don't.
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#120
 2008-06-28, 03:47
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by NoSkills
I thought of another one. Indecisiveness. About everything.
Just make a decision, it's not that hard. If the waiter asks if you want garlic bread, don't look at me for an answer. Either you want it or you don't.
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Dude, it's a win.
When the question arises whether she wants to have anal, she'll look at you for an answer. And you'll thank me when that moment comes.
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# 121

2008-06-28, 04:14
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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Originally Posted by rabbitweed
Not everyone uses the same service provider...
For example, the one I use charges $10 a month to send a maximum of 500 to any phone in the country, but each text has a character limit of 155.
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ok well for the u.s its mainly per txt not size
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# 122

2008-06-28, 15:46
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Yoyo, keep on trollin'!
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
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I don't. So what's so significant about Nomads and what do they have to do with vegetarianism.
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I'll leave that up to you to discover, because in reading you might just answer your own question.
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#123
 2008-06-30, 16:18
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
I like this thread.
I agree with the 'stupid texting' thing, but I'm occasionally able to look past it.
Personally, I can't stand blatantly bad grammar, or anyone that's stupid really.
Intelligence is top three for things that attract me to someone.
Smoking is also a big turn off, though I have looked past it for something noncommittal before. But he also employed breath strips religiously after each cig. =)
Any guy that talks about himself, and how much money he makes will kill it for me instantly.. cause I honestly couldn't care less.
Don't ~tell me how awesome and funny you are, be awesome and funny.
Pretension, unfounded arrogance. I could go on and on...
I'm rather picky at any rate..
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#124
 2008-06-30, 16:38
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Re: Whats the most unattractive thing for you
"If you don't know what you've done wrong I'm not telling you!"
Pushes me into a murderous rage.
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